Lindsey

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  1. Do you mean that as in flexible or flexible... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  2. I recall one moment in particular, on a board at the end of a long day, and I was tired. I got into a nasty spin and thought for a minute that I was just too tired to deal with it. But there was no choice but to deal with it. I wished then that I was on the ground, but I never thought that that jump would kill me. I knew, however, that I would have to dig a little deeper that day. Maybe those are the kinds of things that he means.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  3. First, it's not as much an imaginary line in age as much as a line in development. legally, that has been delineated in age ranges. What would you say if the child were 6? Many, if not most, children who are sexually abused come to find some enjoyment in the situation....because they don't have the emotional or cognitive capacity yet to understand why a person who is supposed to care for them has sex with them. The adult often tells the child he/she loves the child, and that sex is an expression of love. It can be DEVASTATING for children when an abuser is eventually caught and sent to prison (hopefully). It may take years for children to resolve in their own minds what has happened in their lives and to learn to develop relationships that are "normal." Not always....but many, many times it works out like that. If you think it's okay for a teacher to have a sexual relationship with a 13 year old who consents, then why not a 6 y/o who consents...? Is there an imaginary line in age that you would draw between those years???? Obviously there are lots of things parents make children do against their will. To equate those things (even though many are harmful) to having sex with children is ludicrous. I made my child eat peas....mostly because he was being a brat about it. I know that was wrong, but if I had expressed my love for him through sexual acts, that would be much, much more wrong. Most things lie on a continuum of some sort. Sexual abuse, at least in our society, is moving to an extreme that culturally we don't tolerate. At all ages, there are certain things that children are capable of making decisions about, and others that they are NOT capable of making decisions about. To give children responsibility to make decisions that they are old enough to make is good parenting, imho. Peace~ lindsey -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  4. Kallend....now that you've made this statement several times, I wonder how many people are taking it to heart. That is a really frightening prospect to me....of NOT having insurance coverage available. I suppose you can find an individual policy to supplement your group policy or something, but dad gum! What else does your policy not cover? Accidents that happen while snowboarding? riding motorcycles? flying in small aircraft? There was a short period of time toward the end of graduate school when I had no insurance, and of course I broke my leg running down a mountain. That was only $10,000.....but a small injury a long time ago. I'd hate to see what happens when REAL medical bills accumulate.... Peace~ lindsey -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  5. This is not an issue I've had to deal with a WHOLE lot, because our planes hold 4-5 jumpers here. HOWEVER....on one occasion while visiting a larger dz, jumpers in the plane started that "trash" as I think of it..... While it's rude to hold up the groups behind you, you must be responsible for your own safety. If you don't believe that you can jump safely due to separation from a group ahead of you, then in my opinion, you shouldn't go until there is adequate separation. I think it's crazy to expect anything else. If I'm in one of the the last groups out, then the same rule would apply. If I believe that the spot has become so bad as to be hazardous to me, then I'll ask the pilot to go around. If he/she gets pissy, then that's another problem in itself. I don't think a pilot's attitude is something I'd allow to compromise my safety on a skydive. If the dzo is behind that attitude, then I don't believe that's a dz I'd like to frequent. Just my $.02.... Peace~ linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  6. Lindsey

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    Jeez!!!! I'm thinking your little sulk MIGHT be going on longer than mine did.... DOH! I really REALLY REAL-LY *promise* (and this time it won't be empty) to send pictures..... Up by the boot straps~ linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  7. Your list has my FAVORITE (flying) and LEAST favorite (being attacked) recurrent dreams. What was cool was that when I started skydiving my flying dreams changed. When I was a kid I use to run and jump and bike-peddle my legs to fly....lol. THEN one day I started learning how to actually FLY. My dreams are so much smoother now Peace~ linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  8. YEAH! My little brother may be moving there for 6-9 months . I'm thinking about a mid-winter vacation.... Reminds me I need to call my mom.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  9. Someone once said ..."Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly runs clean to the bone..." linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  10. I don't know....but he looks awfully serious to be eatin' it raw. I don't think he likes it.... heh, heh, heh linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  11. I'm sure somebody's gonna flame me for not doing an adequate search, but anyway.... It is hard for me to understand people skydiving without any health insurance that will cover injuries sustained while skydiving. This recent incident at Monroe both boggles my mind and tears at my heart. I don't understand why a mom of young children was skydiving at all without a plan for how to care for her family if she was badly hurt. Meanwhile, if I lost my coverage (which seems could happen pretty easily nowadays) I wonder if I would stop jumping again, and I also have a young child who would be left with a mess if I were not able to tend to household business. I'm just tossing this out there because I'd love to hear people's opinions. I'm not unsympathetic, at all, to Joan and her family. I could see myself in her situation. I just wonder about other people's views on this.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  12. Not about appeasing people. It's about following through with what the courts decided. Hmmm.....it seems to me that since *most* adults (I hope) are capable of more abstract thought, that we could get past these incredibly concrete notions as solutions to social problems....It's EASY to say we have to do what the court ordered. It's a lot harder to think about whether what we're doing is productive. From my own studies of these types of issues (though it's been some time), I don't think this is productive. Maybe in Texas... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  13. I can't imagine what sense it would make to execute this person in any way, except to appease some angry people who think that some kind of justice is done by following throught with an execution. To me that seems to be a knee-jerk response by people who are bound and determined to stand behind their death penalty political position. Maybe I'm reading that wrong. However....so he's mildly mentally retarded. That doesn't seem to have a lot of bearing in my mind. People with mild MR aren't usually so impaired that they don't understand the differnce between right and wrong. What bothers me more is that he has some level of dementia. I think that is a much bigger issue. The article doesn't really comment on the severity of this problem, but HELL.... I mean, any execution isn't going to deter that person from committing a crime again, obviously....but JEEZ!!!! I just have a really hard time getting past the idea of executing a person with dementia. I'll have to think more on it to nail down my thoughts on this, but my gut is that it's just wrong.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  14. I pulled our ol' whip out from behind the bar, and I'll be bringing it along, if ever so briefly..........cover your ass!!!!! linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  15. I get to go, I get to GO... FOR SURE!!!! Got the OKAY yesterday for Friday and Monday off..... Only for a weekend, but at least it's something! My friend Bill's coming too, and that'll make the drive much nicer. linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  16. I have made many jumps at Skyranch. LOVE the place. Had my first mal there a few years back... -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  17. Yeah....it feels good.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  18. "WHOOOOOOSH" Over my head.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  19. Unfortunately that's not always the mentality....or even *frequently* in some necks of the woods. There are many, many people who would love to use it and justify their actions later. Better yet, they would love to use it against certain classes of people more than others....which opens up another can. That being said, I still would argue for people's rights to keep their guns (without registration). Crimes that are committed with those guns should be prosecuted, whether it be the good-ol' redneck boy who shoots without thinking or the real criminal. linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  20. Yeah....I think most of us have had many of those days....lol. Just coming off of one of those months right now myself. Going back to work tomorrow, and I'll have to second that "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" comment. Just keep learning from your mistakes, and try not to screw up bad enough to friggin die.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  21. It just makes me think about what I use to hear quite a lot...."if you're not careful you'll should all over yourself...." Basically, what seems logical in these situations isn't always logical. Sometimes (often, imho) the legal system does NOT protect victims of violent crime. Unfortunate. lindsey -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  22. Does your mother know about this.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  23. It is a good POINT, but nonetheless, people spend years in prison when that point is lost on a jury that tends to blame women for their abusive situations.... I wish I knew the state law better so that I could speak more knowledgably.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  24. Yes....I would too. But at least in MY state, you're likely to be incarcerated for it.... linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail
  25. Don't think for a second that it doesn't happen right here in the USA. I did some work in the women's prison here in Arkansas, and it's amazing how many are there for "crimes" commited secondary to defending themselves against an abusive partner. One woman I knew had her skull fractured by her husband's baseball bat, but since her knife was "more deadly" she went to prison. linz -- A conservative is just a liberal who's been mugged. A liberal is just a conservative who's been to jail