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No, I don't think I have, and I'm part Korean. Can you like squat for hours at a time ? Yes. My mom calls it my "kimchi squat." Fun fact: I am the kimchi hater in the family, and my white parents love it

That is terrible. Squirrels are kind of cute.

No, I don't think I have, and I'm part Korean.

Yeah it hasn't been too bad since it's winter, but I sat by a guy on the subway this weekend who had kimchi oozing from his pores. Blick.

Yeah right, that'll attract them like zombies to blood. Plus I won't torture my door that way.

I enjoyed Julia Child's autobiography, esp. the early years in post war Paris. She was quite a woman, very determined and adventurous.

Now, that's funny! She would need a step ladder. What's sad is I really thought I wouldn't need one for the kitchen, since it this is Asia and all. But no, the cabinets all extended higher than the ones we had in the states

Maybe the Smiths and Wessons could come stay with you while he's gone. No, she just needs a pet; Perhaps a large Colt. Or a Python Shit, this is going to SC. Buttholes, trying to get my scardy cat thread sent to the SC. For the record, no cute metal pets/guests in Korea.

I have no idea - that's why I didn't try. But in any case I think it'd be scarier if you actually try to make the noises. Typing them out and holding them up to the frosted glass, even if they can be read through it, probably won't have the same effect. Although it would add a nice touch of surrealism. Probably not. But then again, the only way anyone knows how to communicate anymore is through text and the internet.

It probably is the neighbor's door I'm heard. There are only four apartments and I don't think there are any kids. The landlord did try to just walk in last week, but I keep the outside and inside doors locked (the foyer area has a set of doors too). I did get a few of my favorite smell good things and have them spread around the apartment. Household goods, unfortunately, won't be here for another two months or so. So I just kind of have to deal with the echoes for now. I think mostly I'm just not used to a completely empty home. Patrick is gone for the next three weeks or so, and we don't have any pets. I am fairly jumpy as it is. It'll just take a little adjusting

Even better than that, she could go the whole hog and invest in the full costume. And then peer through the glass and make saskwatch noises. What does saskwatch sound like? Like Chewbacca, I guess. I want that costume! It looks warm, too. The only heat comes through the floors (and I don't mean vents in the floors, I mean the hardwoods are heated by pipes underneath with hot water), so it really isn't that warm here. PS- How do you even type out the noise Chewy makes?

Given Ashli's tallnest the eye holes would be around bigfoot's belly button or funnier yet, around his jewels.

The Shining. Greeeeaaatt idea.

Mine is almost over. 7PM here. My honey is off doing his work thing somewhere, and I am doing homework. Romantic, huh?

That would be a bit spooky. Do you have one of those little spyhole thingummies in the door so you could see whether anyone really was trying to do that? Sadly, no. Just frosted glass. So they would totally know I am there if I went trying to peek through that It's possible it's the neighbor's door I am hearing, but it really sounded like someone jiggled the door handle. I finally turned some music on, and that is making it a little less creepy in here. Probably going to pop a movie in soon. Or clean the kitchen. Our dryer is broken so all the laundry is spread out on the counters. It's pretty comical.

Julie and Julia. Saw the movie awhile back, but I didn't know there was a book until I went to the library this week. It's pretty cute

So we got settled in an apartment last week, and now my husband is gone for awhile. Anyhoodles, I swear someone keeps trying to come into the apartment (we have an electronic keypad lock and the damn thing keeps making noises). Plus the apartment is huge and echo-y, so every noise is obnoxiously loud. I am such a pansy . Oh yeah, Happy Valentine's Day!

I really want to agree with you on this. It just seems wrong. But I find that we sometimes expect people to be normal and reasonable; only to find that the person we have been seeing has a totally different idea of what normal and reasonable is. I was married. I found out after we got married that there were a whole host of things we never even thought about. For instance, who is responsible for making sure we have enough money to pay the bills and actually paying the bills? I thought we would do it together (I was so naive). She thought her job was to spend however she wanted and I should figure out where the money would come from. I actually never got her to help me pay bills in almost 20 years of trying. I now think that at least a list of things to discuss in depth could be helpful. See we have discussed who pays the bills, etc. But see, I am still in college, so that topic is a HUGE one for us. We have even discussed the possibility of one of us staying home with the potential kids in our future. It is weird to me that these things WOULDN'T be discussed before marriage. If you marry someone who is different than what you expected when you walked down the alter, I don't think a prenup will necessarily open your eyes to that. People are very good at both blinding themselves to things and hiding things about themselves for a pretty extended period of time. I recognize there are still things I don't know about my husband, but all the big things were discussed extensively before we were even engaged. To me a prenup is more about who gets what shit in the event of divorce. Quite frankly, should I ever divorce I don't want his money, and likely any of the "our stuff." That will just be more bad memories for me. As for sex in a prenup, FOR GODS SAKE, seriously? Both men and women go through phases of low libido. It is normal. To mandate sex is merely going to create resentment. That is exactly what marriage needs.

I think if putting it in writing is the only way to discuss the things that are important in a lifelong commitment (marriage or not), YOU ARE NOT READY TO BE MARRIED TO THAT PERSON. Seriously, if you're getting married, you should have already discussed these things BEFORE you made that decision. And seriously, I do many of the chores around the house because it makes me feel good to be taking care of my husband. My husband does some of the chores as a surprise for me or when I am not feeling well, etc. We both love these things about the other. But to put in writing who does what chore and when, would really just make it a chore in my mind, and likely would just piss me off everytime I did that chore. Don't get me wrong, I am merely a newlywed, and by no means an expert, but if making a contract is the only way to discuss the big ticket topics, I think there may be a few problems.

If your friend is a guy, then he is gay, (but maybe does not realize it yet). +1, That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard of any guy. The main thing we want to know about panties is if we can get them off. You guys make valid points here.... He was a cheerleader his first two years of college (although, honestly, male cheerleaders are actually some of the straightest guys I know)

So, is there any entertainment planned? I need to know if I should practice anything. My bull riding kinda sucked last year. wait you actually got on the bull? and i missed it?!! well fuck knew i should have gone last year Yes, you should have

So, is there any entertainment planned? I need to know if I should practice anything. My bull riding kinda sucked last year. Your bullriding was awesome!

I actually have a friend that will not hook up with a girl if her panties and bra do not match. Personally, I do buy the cute sets, but never wear the pieces together. I actually enjoy mismatching my underroos.