LuckyMcSwervy

But it's sooooo goooooooood. I've only recently discovered Chipotle and it's even near the dropzone. Chik Fil A is the one that usually tests my lunch hour with long lines. Now I'm hungry. Thanks! Always be kinder than you feel.

Or girl. Always be kinder than you feel.

Makes sense. Do they not want to rub it in the face of law enforcement that missed then along the way? Always be kinder than you feel.

It appears that way. We have that rule so people won't abuse the trust that the community has in each other. It's sad when people don't respect that. And, no, it's not Funks or someone who has been permanently banned...yet. Thanks... I actually felt bad for "him". Always be kinder than you feel.

Is there actual route published anywhere? I didn't see it in the article. Just wondering... thanks!

We've been punked? Always be kinder than you feel.

OMG... I'm sorry I tried to make a joke out of it. I don't know how anyone wouldn't be affected long term by that carnage. Always be kinder than you feel.

Menopause? Always be kinder than you feel.

And tonight the clocks go back an hour here. We'll get an "extra hour" of laying in bed staring at the ceiling or hopefully sleep!!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Here's a dumb question: Valerian Root Tea. Do you have to drink it as steeped or can you put skim milk in there? Always be kinder than you feel.

Packed and ready. Hand sanitizer placed in easily reachable areas! There's a freaking 'cruise cam'?? Thank you so much to everyone for all of your advice, tips, tricks, etc! I truly appreciate everyone who took the time to help this cruise newbie have a hopefully great experience!! Can't wait to GTFO heeeeeere!! Always be kinder than you feel.

But like Nataly said, do something. Try to keep busy. Just get out of the house and get some air. Is it too early to put the pictures of you together away? It's so hard staring at someone you're not with anymore, that you're still in love with, while you're laying in bed or at your desk. I'm not one to follow my own advice on that one though... Always be kinder than you feel.

Scariest medication I've ever taken. Seriously. Years ago when I was going through my separation and divorce I was not sleeping for what seemed like days at a time, my doctor suggested a type of meditation. Lay in bed on your back. Make sure you're comfortable. Dark room. Start at your toes and count to 50. Then ankles, knees, thighs, waist, stomach, heart, arms. I don't think I ever made it all the way up my body without falling asleep. Sounds cheesy but it helped a little bit. And I didn't know Melatonin use will stop your own body from producing it. Maybe that's part of my problem now with not sleeping well recently. Good luck!!

I was just thinking he needs time to cool out before he starts his search for HIS perfect woman. It would be a huge disservice to a new woman in his life with his still being upset about the last breakup. Baggage, I guess I'd call it? I don't know. Just thoughts.....

OMG... that is so sad. I've known that feeling before. It really will get better. It's going to take time. Always be kinder than you feel.

I have a hard time wrapping my head around people who know in their gut someone isn't good parent material and still go through with a marriage, have kids and end up getting divorced. What is the driving force? To be a parent no matter what? I once dated a guy who had 2 boys. As the months went on and he didn't seem too interested in the day to day activities in the lives of his kids, I bailed. The was one of the biggest reasons I ended it. He'd rather go to the gym than take his kids to the library or help them with homework. That just didn't jive with how I was raised. My parents were divorced but my Dad was there every day, for everything, no matter how mundane. This guy just didn't pass my version of the "loving, caring, involved parent". Always be kinder than you feel.

I'd love a bridge tour but if they don't do it, I'll live. It's Norweigan. I booked 4 dives today and I've decided to definitely bring my own gear. I NEED all my stuff. When I was trying to really wrap my mind around renting ANYTHING I've become a Scuba Snob. TTYTT, I started packing the scuba gear tonight and I even was able to throw in my wetsuit dryer and also my soft weights. I feel lost with out my "save a dive kit" too so that's been pared down a bit but it's still making the trip. BC, mask, snorkel, fins, reg/octo/computer 1mm wetsuit, socks, booties, gloves, dive torch (2), wet gear bag, dry box, logbook, etc. It's going! 1 suitcase, less than 50 pounds. I feel like it's an accomplishment. I also booked a stand up paddle board session for the "private island" day. I haven't done that in a long time and I was hoping to get into it here at home on the back bays so taking an hour excursion for $19 sounded like a good deal to me. I bought a few more hand sanitizers tonight at Walmart but I think I left the bag at the register when I left. $4 lost, I'll get over it. I have to go back in there anyway for more so maybe it's at the service desk. I'm really hoping I make at least one activity buddy on the ship who isn't a stone cold freakazoid!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Probably my biggest cruise fear. Uh oh!! Some day you'll need to try these ships. http://starclippers.com/us-dom/explore-star-clippers/photo-galleries/star-clipper-photo-gallery.html WOWWWWWWWWWWWWW. Do you know how truly tempting that New Year holiday sailing is to me??? They are beautiful!!!!! WOW!!! Always be kinder than you feel.

I deleted my post because I thought I probably just misread your reply anyway. And also it's probably me projecting in this case as I'm suffering from a "fresh wound" myself. So I'm probably coming off like a pratt. And anyway this thread isn't about me, so that just makes me a bigger pratt. To the OP - sorry for hijacking your thread. I revert back to my original post. It will be ok. You will be ok. Life lives on. (Sorry again.)

Why would they ban during just that period? For plowing snow? Always be kinder than you feel.

Hi Nataly - I saw what you replied before it was deleted and just wanted to say I have no idea where the 2 years came from. I may have taken Andy's 2 in the sentence and put that into my thought. Nope, not comparing it with anyone else's situation. I didn't take it as mean at all! Hope that clears it up for you.

I could've wrote those words in bold myself. Hope you get through it soon.

It happens when you start getting older... Well it's polar opposite from when I turned 40 until now. 40 was carefree, it's just skin, yadda yadda yadda. Now I'm like "put some clothes on!!". Always be kinder than you feel.

I think it sucks it took 2 years out of each of their lives for his doubts from the beginning to finally break the camel's back. Time is precious, especially when you're trying to plan a family. I have a friend whose exWife described him that way.. "sperm donor" and he's knee deep in alimony. And she screwed around on HIM. Break ups and divorce just SUCK. I hate them both. Always be kinder than you feel.

I'm sorry I didn't mean for it to come off as disrespectful to either of you. Is this something a "break" will help you think things through with some time to yourself?? Ultimately, I think the "doubts from the start" is a huge red flag. Wish I followed my own "doubts from the start" red flag a time or two in my life. Was she upset with the reasons you gave her? Did she see the relationship in a different light?? Again, sorry!! Always be kinder than you feel.