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pretty much. and from all these posts, looks like the chances are pretty good. i am & do enjoy what I have, it's amazing. but the extent of it's greatness comes an equal chance of pain just as bad. that threat of pain & suckiness is what makes a commitment phobe out of me. there are some truely amazing people out there (Heather) that have a resilience so strong, i stand by in awe. it is only slight amounts of emotional pain that have given me an extreemly pessimestic/ trust no one out look. i have only to learn. but learning by seeing the crud in life does not entice me to learn at all. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Wow... that is a very good poem!! Makes ya think (esp bout the huge heating bill ) Thank you. WrongWay, I agree w/ you eeneR has excellent points & from where she's coming, a very good outlook. Hmatousek, i've always said you are amazingly cheerful & upbeat... it's true though, bout the friends. Guess I should 'stop to smell the roses' - you all seem to find them so easily, I just keep running into gardenias (not much smell at all). Execpt my wonderful s/o, but then it just makes me more afraid, excited & scared @ the same time. I HATE uncertainty! UGH! There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Thank you BK & Sunshine... I know all that & agree, it's just so hard sometimes. This is what I'm doing. But just the thought of... "It was our three year anniversary... cheated on me w/ 3" Just reinforces the thought that life is 90% CRAP w/ 5% pretty weeds & 5% roses... just gotta hope the roses are kick ass wonderful to make up for the rest of it. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

EGGS There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Ok... I'm 100% commitment phobic & this thread doesn't help AT ALL!! I've never stuck to any one thing in my life, friends, home, desires, hobbies, fav foods, colors NOTHING. Currently I am in a great relationship, just over 8 months long... this is the longest relationship of my life. I'm no spring chicken (28) & feel that I've love & lived, but I've also always left or been left. Sometimes I feel too old to play games anymore (I know I'm actually not, but...), but I'm also too young to think about being unattached for the rest of my life. Also the thought of playing this stupid dating game is exhausting. Hearing these stories, people together 1, 5, 10, 13 TWENTY-FIVE years and then having it end... it would send my borderline sever depressive spirit over the edge! It almost makes me want to give up now. To those of you that know my current relationship, I know he's a super great guy... but so were all the other s/o's that left in all these tragic stories. Just venting... this SUCKS!! It's like, when can you ever relax, when can you know everythings ok & it's going to stay that way. JEESH! There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Yup, layers & a winter dz... that's the only way. Also, when I moved up from FL, they told me my blood would thicken, I'd get use to it... to that I call BS! However, after a week of highs round 10 & a wind-chill high of almost 0... today's 32 degrees @ 7 AM felt like spring - guess they weren't totally lying. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Those are very cool!! I have animal print checks... ordered from one of those many many flyers you get in the mail. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

is this real? kinda cool, but kinda hard also. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Our group secretary was asking her husband if he had found his underwear, that she had IRONED!! There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

THAT is crazy!! I was glad when someone told me they had seen my ex. Then I saw him at a friends funeral - he was WAY on the otherside away from everyone. I didn't take it personally... he left his whole life, not just me. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

yah, but leg straps are tightned to your thigh... I think those fit me pretty good. it was the lenght (which affects the arms more) of the lateral webbing that was mis-fitting. I stick by Vector's comfort. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

The air is pushing you up, rather than you pushing down on the air . There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

THAT IS CRAZY!! So, are you & the wife friends now? heeehee There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

I agree w/ Hmatousek & BK... honesty & necessary info only is the best policy. My oddest break ups though. My freshman year of college, dating a Senior in college, he moved out of his house & wouldn't return my calls... he just dissappeared. His room mates called me looking for him to help pay bills. to this day he's MIA, only been seen once in 8 years! My sr year of college dating a guy back home in FL... in April, 2 months before moving back to FL, I called him & said I'm not coming back. He said "fine, then we're over. Perhaps I'll see you one day." Haven't since. I think I'm a little more stable now though. At least my dr thinks so ... kidding, but at least my alcohol tolerance has caught up w/ my consumption. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

I agree w/ councilman24. Plus, a few people @ my dz have an Javelin AND a Vector. If they're going to be under canopy for any extra time, they go w/ the Vector, say it's WAY more comfortable on their legs. I jumped a Javelin as a student & my legs always felt like they were going numb. Now I have a Vector II & I LOVE going on cross country jumps, it's super comfortable. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Well, that just sucks. The decision is made... going to Florida. S/o want's to go where we'll know people. Yahoo... I wanna go NOW though . There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Z-hills, huh? We were thinkin o lake wales, cause that's where Amy & Dennis will be. But they're so close to eachother, the time would be split, I'm sure. My concern bout FL is that from growing up there I know that Jan/Feb is colder than Dec/Jan. Also was there last week in March last year & it was barely warm.... wore jeans & sweatshirt most of the time. I know it's very warm now, my parents won't stop complaining . Since we'd be camping if AZ's nights are that much colder, that's def an issue. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Yea, happy happy!! now your OLD!! hehe There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

So, I'm traveling from the frigid tundra of Chicagoland the last week in February. My s/o & I DO NOT want to be cold @ all during this time but we're also on a budget (that is no Brazillian travel ). There's the Mardi Gras boogie that looks fun, but I do not want to suck it up & be cold. We have friends heading to Lake Whales, but as a child of Florida, I know that it can be rather chilly that time of year. I'd just LOVE to break out my tevas & shorts !! Where do we go, if you pick other, please let me know which one. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

ewwww, that was bad - blech. as a girl another i know a skydiver is everytime someone does me a favor, I want to show them my boobs. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Very nice, pure Florida river home, looks like the one I grew up in on the west coast of FL... just watch out if the gators can get up on your lawn, they love to sun on other people's property!! There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

If it protects from Parkinsons, then how come I still get the shakes? There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

how bout just Aimee, or falinamiee or WIAMIEE or 4wyaimee or cscaimee... dunno, i wish mine was just erica, but i'm boring. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

Grrr, wanna go, but too many other things to consider. I'm going to FL, either the same week as this boogie or end of March... can't make another trip this season (money & avoidance of the parental figures). Right now it's up to the s/o to chose the Feb. trip. There is no can't. Only lack of knowledge or fear. Only you can fix your fear. PMS #227 (just like the TV show)

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