shah269

I live in NJ and I make no joke $1 more than $100k. So go from there. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

A white Morman, northern, corporate raider Vs. AaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhBama Hum....a white guy who is a Morman from the North who's affiliations with Wall street all scream "This SOB took American Jobs and sent them out to Asia" Vs A guy so incapable of leading he can't get out of his own way? This is like a question of which fat chick at the bar do you hit on first? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

BIGUN CONGRATS! Hope you are feeling well. Have you been able to return to the air or not yet? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I've started mine and due to education, and other i'm at 25% combined federal and state. I also make twice the average income due to my eudcation level. Am still amazed at how few people have a BS or an MBA. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

50 WOW! congrats!

Thank you everyone. I've made the appropriate phone calls and though the drugs are an option to deal with the situation I've decided it's best to deal with this problem eyes wide open. Yeah I will lose a good bit of money either way but that's the penance I'll have to pay for my actions 5 years ago and my inactions 2 years ago. Sometimes there are not good solutions just lesser of two evils. Thank you all for the advice I greatly appreciate your views on the subject. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Thanks mom I'm going to make an appointment with a few well educated folks and see how big of a hit it will be and just live with it. There is a time and a place for medication taking for this type of problem....in my opinion would be abuse. All thank you for your various points of view and advice. May you have a great evening Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Ok - does anybody else see the humor in this? I did.... Isn't it great you can sit in back of a dull meeting playing angry birds and surfing the net? But yes...I did. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

loch1957 I approached my lawyer last year on the issue of "Walking away" Per his interpretation of the regulations since the loan on the condo consumes only 48% of my income the banks may and will come after me in a short sale and can garner my wages. $100k is a good bit of money to lose. And per the regulations I recall that I would have to pay that back in 10 years? And I know I'm no different from a good 45% of the home owners in the country who also have lost vast sums of money and I'm sure a good number of them also have negative emotional attachments due to divorce or other. So there may be no easy financial solution and if there is it may involves as others have said...living in a van outside of my office? And I'm not willing or able to do that. But I'm going to boubble check with my lawyer just to be sure. But thank you for the suggestions. I fear I may have to choose between the lesser of two poisons. A poison which I bring on myself via anger and frustration or one I may willingly ingest to be numb to my imprisonment for there is otherwise nothing wrong with me. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'm very sorry I live in the North and have a good job here thus living in a van is not an option. I may hate the place but I will not go from the frying pan into the fire. Thus a short sale could be in excess of $100k. If it came to that I'll just take the pills, numb myself to the situation that is causing the problem, and live a chemically comfortable life. God that just sounds so sick! Chemically comfortable..... But then again waking up every morning and getting more and more angry until I leave for the office and doing everything I can not to be back in the place till the last minute.....I don't think that's healthy either. Honestly I'm sorry I brought this up, it's a no win situation....depending on what the lawyer and accountant will tell me over the next few days.....and I'm sorry I burdened any one by the thought. Ok off to a meeting....again for those who weren't outright rude, thanks! I greatly appreciate your thoughts. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

http://www.cnn.com/2012/01/31/tech/gaming-gadgets/apple-boycott-commentary/index.html?hpt=hp_c2 Let's start with why people keep snapping up Apple's iPhones and iPads by the millions each week in the first place. Just never going to win this one....how sad and yet how true.....I feel bad for kids today. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

BIGUN Sorry didn't see this but yes, I'm well over the 125% and well over the 130% Adn yes you are correct, the X wife who worked at one of the local banks knew the numbers and was smart enough to hit hard and hit fast and give me the debt. I sadly was in total shock and could not think and said yes. I regret that moment for the past 2 years. I thought I was smarter than that...... And after I speak to my lawyer and accounant later this week that my choices are not limited to Being trapped or taking pills to be happy yet trapped. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

No disrespect to anyone who is taking medication due to their illness. For me after talking to a professional it was rather straight forward regarding situational depression and dealing with it. 1) Get out of the situation....for some this is a new job or find a way out of the situation. 2) Here take these pills twice a day and you will be more numb to the situation. Well for me as I'm reading it, but I will have to verify it since all these banking rules and regulations appear to have caveats, the situation will not be going away any time soon. And per the recent appraisal the number of years is about 7. And to answer, sorry can't rent out, financially unviable. If you would like to argue viability please contact my accountant for further information. However I will have to have another sit down talk with my lawyer regarding the "walk away option" but living in NJ which is a very pro big business state that may also not be an option. Thus the "situation" is a fixed quantity. Or the hand full of pills.....and live the chemically enhanced unattached life. But for those that put up helpful advice I greatly appreciate it, for those that ranted and insulted......may you have a good day. I think I'll have another talk with my accountant and lawyer on the issue....maybe a combination of bankruptcy and foreclosure....anything is better than waking up every day in a mistake I made for another person. Live and learn I guess...live and learn........and in this case pay a pound of flesh while learning to live. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I can live with the place being under. I can live within my means. What is getting me is the lifestyle crunch put on by living in a place that you consider "not your style" and too far away from the city AND that the condo is a daily reminder of "what used to be?" God darn it i don't want to be a drug addict....living with a shit eating drug induced grin on my face.... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

The first 500k is the toughest. After that compound interest kicks in and you make the next 500k in about 7-10 years. Reminds me of this article I once read about how to make a million dollars.... It started with "have a million dollars!" Oh the investor class...has us by the balls and there is NOTHING we can do about it! They own our government, our futures and in this case the souls of many folks in China. No wonder the French cut off a few heads? In the end that's what it will take to break out of this cycle. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

TRUST ME I know. I was born in Iran in 77, i was there for the war, when we came to the US we had all of $500 in 1985....yeah I know trust me I know....I just want to be free to start my life over again. And due to finance / bad luck.....I can't and the thought of being a drug addict..... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

The moment I said "yes" to my x wife in accepting the condo there was nothing I could do until the banks had charged me a nice sumo f $4k to remove her name from the outstanding lean. I know I hired a legal representative. My hands were effectively tied behind my back for those two years. In which time the property lost another $50k worth (15%) its value. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Wishes 269 would friend on on face book Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I would appreciate little to no Shah bashing on this thread thank you. There is a time and a place for humor and joviality but this one....not so much thank you and I would appreciate it. And I'm very sorry for the length of this post, very difficult to do it in under 100 words. Choose your poison? That’s what I'm facing. To sum things up 5 years ago I made the second biggest mistake of my life. I looked past some major economic and social indicators and bought a condo that my now X wife loved. It was close to her job, she could ride her bicycle on nice spring and summer days to work, and was very close to the community collage she was attending in the evenings. The only perks for me were that it was close to my job but more importantly my x wife would be happy and when I was married all I really cared about and focused on was her happiness. As so often as things go 3 years after we moved in and did a good bit of renovations there was the divorce and a massive economic downturn. And in my moment of shock when my X wife said "You can have the condo" I said "yes".....not smart but I was in shock....the request for divorce really did come from left field. So now I'm "stuck" in a condo I bought for someone who cheated on me in a location where I am very much a round peg in a square hole. The condo complex is filled with old dying ladies...they kick the bucket about one per quarter....and young married couples with screaming kids and about half an hour too far away from NYC to make NYC a viable hang out. Furthermore, per my knowledge I'm the only single person under the age of 50 in a complex of 250 units. All the above has really over the past two years has caused me to be very down and testy....I'm sure you have seen some of the very angry visceral posts. And honestly, that's not who I am. And I've spoken to professionals regarding the issue and the term that keeps coming up over and over again is "Situational Depression" caused by waking up in the physical manifestation of my pain....kind of like waking up and pulling out emotional stitches every morning. So here is where I sit, I'm presented with a no win situation...choose my poison? I could take a mild anti depressant so as to "dull" my perception of reality....for a very very very long time (expected recovery is 5-10 years) OR.....take nothing and just live with it? I'm really having a hard time with this one guys! I don't mean to put people who do take antidepressants down...I know that there are instances that these drugs do save lives and really do improve things but....I can't help it but feel that.....by taking a pill to be numb to my environment I would becoming a drug addict? Yet again I have to admit living in the physical manifestation of my emotional loss every day....not being able due to financial reasons to "walk away" (can't rent it out I would lose too much money and from what I'm told I make too much money for a foreclosure or a short sale). I honestly don't know thus why I'm asking perfect strangers for advice. What would you do? Wake up every morning and feel trapped or take a chemical so as to dull the situation? And I can't live from skydive to skydive to bump my serotonin levels.....though it may be cheaper than the copay for Prozac. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

No that kid was and is still stinky and I still don't enjoy being or working with engineers. But you can't live your life angry and good music my help. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

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