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Safety isn't want I crave it isn't my natural state. I enjoy a good debate as much as a good glass of whiskey. It makes me a better person, helps me see how others see the world. Nothing ever came from being safe. From never accepting any risk. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'm sorry I did not know. My bad. But wouldn't it be great!

Try forcefully opinionated. I'll take that.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20091207/ap_on_bi_ge/us_space_tourism So who wants to jump out at.....well how high does this thing go? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

NickDG! WTF man! You can say that and not be labeled a pig, i so much think it and POW! But yeah, i'm sure she's talented! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Wait...your my programmer? Does that make me Tron? Maybe I'm too idealistic and too optimistic. And apparently that's enough to get some to be upset. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Am I being too Zen? Am I being too much of a free thinker? An optimist? Is that a bad thing? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

If this works....the world would be a great place. Wouldn't it? Think about it! Finally the great cold war will come to an end. Girls, even good looking ones, may come up to you and say hi. And there will be a sense of mutual respect and understanding. We are human, deep down we are simple creatures with basic needs and desires. We crave to be compassionate and we desire to love and be loved to respect and be respected. (some how some one will take this as troll speak or some sort of misogynistic banter) Ladies, for this week and this if you see a guy you "like" just walk up and say hi. And if he can put together a coherent thought, ask for his number. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Woman does this, she's a slut or desperate. says who? And so you are agreeing with me? That it is easier for a girl to get out of being single than a guy. All the risk is with the man being rejected and none with the woman since she is doing the rejecting. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

airtwardo You know as well as I do a lot of very good guys, stand up guys, honest guys, aren't as self assured as you are. And for this week, just this week, I've set forth this challenge to our female friends who we love and respect. For this one week, be rebels, be revolutionary, be proactive. You want that "nice guy" that "perfect guy" if you see him go and say hi. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I had this one gorgeous girl friend while at university. Gorgeous girl, amazing looking, sweet, kind and just amazing. Do you know her #1 complaint? Guys never hit on her. Why? Theories 1) Some guys are just afraid of rejection, note the guy has to make the first move. 2) Some guys are just tired of being rejected, note the guy has to make the first move. 3) Some guys are just intimidated by a good looking girl, note the guy has to make the first move. Shall I go on? Why must the guy always make the first move? And thus my proposition that for this week and this week only that the single ladies of this forum become revolutionaries and bring about some positive change. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Ah ok cool! I'll read up on it. I didn't realize there were rules. From the outside it looked to be a bar fight. It lacks the outright grace of boxing. But I'll look into it. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

why? I know your not scared! Your fear less! You freaking jump out of airplanes! If you are single, and you see a guy you like, this week...just for this week, walk up and introduce your self. For one week I want you to put your self in the guys shoes. Who knows....you may like it. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Jtval, I'm very sorry if I sound misogynistic. Maybe it's just the way I was raised to not take BS from any girl or guy. But will you be holding your breath and your drink awaiting a woman coming up and talking to you? I hope one does. Revolutions always start small. And this would be a good revolution to have. A revolution of quality. Equal risks for equal rewards. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

When I get home I'll dig out the book and try and find that number. But yes she indicated that it appeared to be as common with men as it was with women. But one of the major reasons she gave due to a reduced sex drive included common medications such as birth control pills as well as commonly prescribed anti depressants. And well...not many guys take birth control pills. I said he was stubborn, I never said he was smart. I hope it all turns out well. But who knows? As for the age differential and sex drive, yes I have to agree with you. It is simply amazing how different the sexs are! It's almost as if we were designed to fail as pair bonds? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'm sorry but would it be rude if I said that I find the entire Ultimate Fighter thing to be with out civility and grace? I'm sure some enjoy it but for me....it's similar to a microwave meal. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

First off we are human, we are easy. We have basic needs and wants. We need and want to be loved and love others. But we go out of our way to make life complicated. Why? Who knows? Maybe we fear compassion? And yes it is easier for a girl to get out of the single life than a guy. How many times have you walked up to a guy and asked him how he's doing? And how many times have guys come up to you? So off the get go using the basic social model, you girls have a bit of an advantage in that society doesn't expect you to make the first move. After that it's a numbers game, you have a X number of key requirement that you seek in a potential long term partner. Which is perfectly ok, and not it's a matter of getting out, and presenting your self and seeing what the tide drags in. For a guy it's harder. Do you know how hard it is for your average guy to walk up to you, say hi to your gaggle of friends then look you square int he eye and try to impress you in under 20seconds? And what if you shoot him down? Odds are 50/50. No matter how self assured his ego will take a hit and he goes back to his mates. He may or may not hit on another girl in the entire span of the evening depending on how bad the hit was. While you? Giggle and squeak wait for contestant #2 to come up. So doing the math, you have nothing to loose....just sit there and say no till the right guy shows up. And we guys.....well...not every one of us can take being shot down over and over again so well. Am I right or am I wrong? (don't say I'm wright people may get upset). So single ladies prove me wrong, show me I'm wrong! And I know you want to! It's Monday morning. You have till Sunday morning to walk up to a guy you find attractive and who you think meets your requirements and I want you to hit on him. And I'm not talking a giggle or flashing him. Just walk up, say hi to his friends, look him square in the eyes and introduce your self. He may not be Mr. Right, but then again he may. And you can then come back on line and talk about how it went. My first post in the bonfire was about heart ache, and as I recall though I hope I'm wrong, a number of the lovely ladies weren't very compassionate. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

http://www.amazon.com/Sex-Starved-Marriage-Couples-Boosting-Libido/dp/0743227328 It's a very interesting book with some rather interesting observations regarding common medications and lower than "average" sex drive. And please there is no need to be rude. A simple request for source would have been sufficient. And an observation is just an observation, much like an opinion is just an opinion. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

OK before I go to bed, Yes I agree with general social standards in that the girls of Victoria secret desirable, the girls of Layen Bryant....just friends. So am I wrong for being honest or am I wrong for agreeing with general social standards? As for your list, please pardon me if i sound rude, so you have no standards? Which begs the question. If you are single, then why? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

The latest numbers indicated that 45% of all marriages were such that one partner had a significantly lower sex drive than the other. And it's safe to assume that most of those on the low end were women. Look some men know that a car is broken and it's time to buy a new one. Others..........well...a bit thick headed? A bit stubborn? But couldn't we also call those qualities as driven and motivated? And not all guys want to be divorced, especially those with millions to loose. And it's not about control nor power nor any of that stuff. It's.......that perfect thing called love. And in our crazy world....it can evaporate like a puddle in the Arizona sun. And Woods isn't the only guy! Remember Mr. Grant....yeah he was so desperate what did he do! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

In the back ground I hear "ole!" Please don't pull up old posts and don't dance. I asked the question first, what do you want in a man. And be honest. God there nothing wrong with saying, makes $100k and has six pack abbs and loves animals. Or is 6ft tall and owns a horse. The creator gave you eyes for a reason. To find what you are looking for. Look i'm going to bed, I have nothing agents you even though you have an ax to grind with me. So think of what i asked and let's talk about it tomorrow ok. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

And what did I type? Would you rather some one lie to you or be 100% honest with you from the get go. I'm 100% BS free, what you see, is what you get. Yes I find women who are of a given shape and size to be attractive and am ok with saying so. And I'm sure you find men of a given shape and size attractive and you should say so as well. I also believe that love should flow between partners but I'm guessing you didn't read that post. You want some one to lie to you, I'm not that guy. And now we have hit a major contradiction....on your "list" of what a guy should be is "honest".....so do you still want "honestly" or the illusion of "honesty"? So again, what do women want in a man. And be honest. Honestly is liberating. Edit. And what do you suppose my view of women is? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

And you are not? After all are you not judging me? I have never judged you. And need I point out the various comments regarding my shaved head? Sister don't be throwing stones if you are living in a glass igloo. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

driving women into staying single? and how is that? To be blunt, your outlook on what you think women want sucks! Prove me wrong. I may be honest with my self and sing the long legged, flat bellied, perky boobied song but at least I'm being honest. So be honest if not to me rather those guys who stated that they were single and unhappy. what you think women want And don't patronize me with the ever popular and completely horse shit response of "Has to have a seance of humor" line. Edit. You don't know me from a blade of grass in the field how do you know what my opinions are? For fun look up my first post on this forum. I'm deep sister.... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

+1! bumloving....is a major + right up there with a pre wake up hummer! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!