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Well I just figured Xmas was very stressful and well what's the number one way to destress?

You really want something? OK just shoot me your address and I'll send you something. Remember these aren't 15in schlongs or the Vibratron 4000 or even the ever trusted always loved Rabbit. These are little things. Case in point I sent my friend in Belgium a one piece PJs from Playboy that have a but flap and a special pair of handcuffs that hook to the top of a door. My friend in Finland got edible undies, the ones made of candies on a string, and a micro vibrator that runs off of what appears to be watch batteries. And so on and so on. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

One possibility is that he's simply a scoundrel who compulsively ignored his marriage vows. Another is that she cheats, too. Another is that he only began to cheat after the marriage had degraded to nothingness at best, or a nightmare at worst. I sure as hell don't know. I don't think most people do. I hear you bro, I hear you. WE just can't say. If any thing this conversation, be it between us in this forum or between others, has been a reflection of where we are as individuals. Some have come off as very angry, others as very defensive yet others just try to get every one to get along. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'm just trying to immagine economy seats on this thing? In the back next to the bathroom in between two really fat guys all the while trying to figure out if what you were given for lunch is chicken or fish! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Why more people don't do this! I have friends all over the world, some in committed relationships and others are just commutable. About 3 years ago I started sending out kinky stuff for Xmass. Nothing over the top just a little hand buzzer, or maybe a pair of pink fuzzy hand cuffs. Maybe a kinky outfit from Hustler. The first year I got a lot of giggle and thank yous. The year after that I got a lot more giggles and a lot more thank yous. And this year, I got requests as to "Please keep sending them!" Now is this just a Shah thing or do other people do this as well? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Yeah right.... so much for putting words in your mouth. Amazon Did you read what I wrote or did you read what you wished to read? It's ok I do it as well. Note what I said. either all of us men are dogs and pigs.....or perhaps half the blame lies in your lap as well what we have her is a failure to communicate. and it can be said that Mr. Woods and his wife had a failure to communicate. This is a very serious issue, our divorce rate is well above %50 and god knows how many people are on medication to calm their desires. And who wins out? The pharmaceutical companies and lawyers. Who looses in all this? The kids, the husband, the wife...society. Who knows...maybe they will go to therapy, they will talk and all will be fine? And who knows, what is to say she wasn't cheating on him? If not physically but maybe emotionally? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Swedish girls are hot! That's for sure! But his mother in law is not doing well....that sucks! I hope she gets better. But yeah Swedish girls are hot, a bit prudish but still hot. But for real fun and passion Southern Spain is the place to be. Not only are those girls gorgeous but they know how to dance and cook! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

How about married and working my ass off to keep it going? But it's the story of my life, I'm always pushing some insurmountable bolder up some hill. And I'm not the only one, a few of my mates are in the same boat. I guess if you don't have kids....it can be real hard work. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Hu wha? Whoops! OK, I get it. Very clever. I guess....? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Hu wha? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I did what now? I don't think I said that. Heck I'm 100% sure i did not say that. I said, "for some it appears to be easier to get some on the side than it is to work out their problems." Wow talk about putting words into some ones mouth...wooh! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

nigel99 Very cool story. If I had the cash, I would pay for you two. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

E Harmony and the likes have BOTS! WOW! Man! What is this world coming to. Kind of sad. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Nat, don't take this the wrong way.....but I wouldn't date you. You just have too many excuses. Let's go out on Tuesday.......excuse excuse excuse... Let's try this new place to eat.....excuse excuse excuse. All you have given me are excuses which means you are either afraid of failing, which I can totally understand. Or think your poop don't stink and that the perfect man with the perfect smile and who never farts will fall from the sky in his convertible jag drive by you, do some sort of James Bond 360 spin pick up a hand full of flowers and drive back to you jump from his car in a full tuxedo land get on his knees and propose to you. Now back on track, I said "look for guy, make eye contract, walk over, talk, if you like him get his number, return back to gaggle of gals and drink large rainbow colored cocktail. And it doesn't even have to be a bar, heck a book store will do just fine. Now ladies, please give me another excuse. You Nat have used up all your excuses. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Maybe people have given up on trying. The communications bridge is down. It's easier to get some on the side than to tell your other half that there is a problem? Or there is something you don't like. Is it right? No. Is it life? Maybe. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I think I’ve been waiting for someone as witty, honest and charming as SHAH to come along WTF? Well thank you....I think? Right? That's what I should say? Thank you? Come on ladies, no no no no no. Wow a thousand and one excuses. Nope the deal is this, walk up to guy, look guy straight in the eyes, say hi and introduce your self, talk, if you like take number go back to table and pound some sort of strange colored cocktail that is served in a fish bowl and high five your friends. No half ass ok! All ass or go home! This is a revolution not some sort of high school dance. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

OK I never said it was ok for the guy to cheat. It's wrong. But it is also wrong to withhold love and to utilize it as a weapon. Yes it's a failure on both sides but who gets hurt worse? Who suffers more? Women, on average, are sexual camels. How many months if not years can a woman go with out sex? For us guys, it's so different. Never the less, a family is destroyed. A pox on both their houses. Her for her pride and him for his. Will it be the last we ever see of this situation? Where by one partners diminished sex drive causes the partner to walk? I don't think so. Like I pointed out, not too long ago Mr. Grant also decided that he needed to get some and look where he went to get it. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

So Persia went from Persia to Iran, which Iran translates to Arian to appease the English? Nope not like I'm from Iran or anything..... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

What? The Shah himself (during the alliance with Germany) asked to designate PERSIA into IRAN. (Persia was limey) Jeez, that's history (part of). Do your homeworks The Shah's father was the one who under pressure from Germany changed the name of the country. In fact some of the last remaining "Nazi" architecture can be found in Tehran. The Germans had a real good grip on the middle east and North Africa. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Oh I love French Canadian girls! And for some odd reason...they seem to like me!

If history serves me right, and in a sick way it always does. Please not which of those countries were either directly under German occupation or German influence prior to WWII. Please not, Iran was once called Persia. Due to Hitlers pressure the country changed it's name. That will be all thank you. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

OK I don't know much about online. It's a new world to me. OK laughter....talk about rude! I hope you kicked him. But the way you made it sound and this is just my reading of it. You knew all these guys? And were trying to push an acquaintance into the next level. After all how would they know that you are a perfectionist? I'm talking about going to a non gay bar, though there is nothing wrong with gay bars they have great mixed drinks, looking for a guy, walking up to him, extending a hand, saying hi, starting up a conversation and if you like him getting his number. That's the challenge I have put forth before this Bonfire. To go up to and say hi to perfect strangers in hopes of changing the world. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Ms. Swing me right round, right round like a record player right round. So let me get this left, you have a friend who you have just met and you two are going at it like two bunnies who just did an 8 ball of Viagra and drooped some E and you are thinking about swinging? The porno part of my brain which fills about 90% of my skull is instructing me to tell you "YES DO IT!" but the remaining part of what is left of my brain is telling me to tell you no. I hate that part of my brain and have tried killing it via large quantities of beer...but it won't die. Here is the situation, swinging is based on understanding and trust. With out understanding and trust swinging can lead to jealousy, anger, fits of buying over priced hand bags and a significant reduction of rabbid bunny love making. Now from the little of your question I read it appears this relationship has just started and the true building boulders of your relationship have yet to be thrown into a pond filled with endangered turtles. Now for some this is enough, and in fact it may be enough to get you into your local swinger bar....that and a valid fake ID. But I would suggest you hold off a little. Swinging can be lots of fun, and not all the guys there are fat sweaty truck drivers with hot stripper wives, some of them are deep sensual cats who know 15 ways to give a girl an orgasm. But for now I suggest, even though the pono side of my skull is about to explode, that you take it easy and go slow. Maybe hit a strip club or two or three....see how that goes and if it goes make sure it comes back. Hope this helped you out Singing Suzy. And this is Dr. S saying No glove no love! This thread is brought to you by http://images3.wikia.nocookie.net/uncyclopedia/images/6/6d/Nutella.jpg Nutella, if you think it tastes great on bread....wait till you have had it off some nipples! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Seems to be an indication that you've had issues in the past on this matter. And likely young too. There are a lot of slightly older women complaining about low sex drive in men by the time 40 rolls around. Why do you think I'm in Yoga.

Nat, please pardon me if I offend. But the guys who turned you down? Were they via the web or were they in person? And what do you mean turn you down? I'm having a hard time tracking. Because, yes you are not an ugly girl. You went up, said hi, introduced your self, got his name spoke for a few minutes and asked for his phone number? Or were these guys taken? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!