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Michele, sounds like your in the market for a good technique. I've gotta say, I'm working with John J DeRosalia's book right now. It's titled "Mental Training for Skydiving and Life" and it's really incredible. The book not only details methods for taking your "inventory", but then builds on that to actually build an action plan, mission statement and overall process to improve the areas your looking to improve. Now, please take this from someone that has been doing it forever. Last year was the first year in the last ten that I did not have a well thought out, clearly defined action plan for the year. My whole year went to shit by the way. Some of it out of my control, other, well within. I've used tons of different methods, but more than anything, the key here (and in Johns book as well), is you have to write it all out, and read it daily. The thought being, if you wrote it and read it daily, one of two things will definitly happen, you'll either stop reading it, or you'll start doing it. Will work everytime. You'll learn how to refine your plan, you'll learn tons of things that make it easier for you as well. Keep in mind, keep it simple at first, don't get fancy. Detail the main things you'd like to achieve for the year. Then work backwards. For instance, from a skydiving perspective. I intend to make at least 150 jumps this year. I will have my B license before the WFFC. I will attend the WFFC. I will get my first coaching classes taken. I will begin training for rigging. I will be part of a "new" four way team and have set a training schedule for the following year. This goes on and on. You'll find, the goals that you don't make, can easily be moved on to your next list. As things are completed, the lower priority things either move up, or higher priority things take it's place. It's all good Michele. Let me tell you though. I'm a freak about this. It changed my life. Without being to detailed, I earned on the average of around 10 thousand a year when I started this years ago. After implementing my first year of "goal setting", my income climbed exponentially every year thereafter. Since then, I've travelled to many of the places I said I would and I've done things that were only "fantasy" previously. Very cool, the power lies in setting an objective, outlining how to get it, then executing to that plan. This is the most powerful stuff on the planet, it truly, if you keep with it, can bring you anything your heart desires! Let me know if you have any specific questions Michele, I'd love to help. Jack Also, the book I mentioned above not only has goal setting tools, but also tons of visualization tools too that aren't only applicable to skydiving, they can (and damn well should) be used with everyday things too! Peace It's a gas, gas, gas...

Definitly should be the party of the year... jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

Just think, I only wanted to go to Z cuz Dove was there! Amazing Kelly, it looks like there are tons of other reasons as well! Sounds like everyone downt there is a real blast. Too cool. jjf how come you taste so good... It's a gas, gas, gas...

Thanks Man, you are correct, I'm hoping to learn, everyday. Unlike school, I pay very close attention to everything that is said. Especially when it comes to emergency procedures and the like. Thanks for indulging me, seriously, I am always a little skittish when I throw, I'm getting better. I do realize that I could jump a thousand or more times and never have to cutaway. I also realize it could happen tomorrow, so, as a newbie, that makes me a little skittish when I think about it. Though I work on my procedures constantly! blues Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

I don't know her, but I know even after looking at that lil pic in her avatar, I'd prolly screw it up too. She is just too cute man. So, your forgiven. How to get it back? Shit, I don't want to appear to obvious, but she's a sweetheart and all. Think about it? She offered the kiss to a stranger, for quitting smoking, you did, she took care of it right? IF I WERE YOU? I'D WALK RIGHT UP TO HER, GIVE HER MY BEST LITTLE BOY SMILE AND SAY.... SKYMAMA, I WASN"T READY BEFORE, I WAS GOING TO GIVE YOU MY BEST SOUL KISS, CAN I TRY ONE MORE TIME? Wouldn't hurt to blush a lil here, but I'm sure you will anyway. My bet, She'll give you one more whack at it. Someone as sweet as that couldn't deny a sincere request for a do over! Let us know how that works out for you, okay? jjf would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? It's a gas, gas, gas...

Too Cool Kramer. Glad your still with us. Sounds like you did a fine job to me. From a virgin though, I can't resist asking stupid obvious questions. Sorry. Did that make you pucker or what? I'm still at low jump numbers, a ball of freakin drenalin when I land normal. I gotta believe choppin tunes you up like a freaking harp. I'd be a lil tweaked to say the least. Were you chillin like dillon on penicillin? Or wiggin? Don't have to answer this, just a stupid question. Seriously, sounds like you nailed the procedure to me though. peace, jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

Amen to that. I gotta ask though Doug, and I don't care how stupid it makes me look... What the fuck does your tagline mean? What does it ellude to? You get an A in my book for number one Obscure refrence in your tag line! Yep, I rode the short bus, so I won't be surprised if it's from obvious origins, it'll just fit everything else in my life just fine. jjf whuffo you be referring to Tangiers for? lol It's a gas, gas, gas...

Shit, I had great intentions of adding something insightful, and well though out... Fuck that, apparently, I was beat to the punch! Can we hear an Amen for Sean? And all the other posts! I've never had love defined side by side, I've heard em all in separate scenarios Sean, but you really rolled it up nice. Cool. To "Fell in Love with the moment", amen to that too. You liked the feel of darren in your arms, rock on brother, thats a good sign, that when the time comes, your going to be a special dad. You'll find nothing approaches the joy of your children. You like the feel of Lacy, rock on for that too. Enjoy the experience, revel in the moment. Good is good, no matter how you look at it. Like everyone says, take your time, roll with it, and let nature take it's course. If you two are meant for the long hall, then you'll know as the next two years (or any other "meaningful" time frame, not two weeks) pass. Too cool though, feels nice don't it? Peace jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

So? Howd she do? Any farther along? I'm grounded at least another two weeks. Damn weather here in the great state of MISERY sucks this weekend... Oh, and there is that whole "Money" thing! ARGHHHHH!!!!!! Did you catch up with her later? jjf Hard to get those A's when your used to being an F student! It's a gas, gas, gas...

HELL YES!!! KEEP GOING! I just had my Third New Years out of the last twenty where I didn't have to say "This year I'm going to quit smoking" CUZ I QUIT FRICKIN 3 YEARS AGO! YOU'LL BE SO SO GLAD WHEN YOU GET THIS BIG FAT UGLY MONKEY OFFA YOUR BACK! >>> Dont stop believin, the monkey will bail, it'll just take a bit. Peace, jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

SHIT!!!! I wouldn't beat you to ZHills, I'm landlocked all the way up here in Misery! You go out to ZHills you give my best to Dove!!! Ok, that aside, did you jump today? SHIT SHIT SHIT! I've got to wait, maybe two more weeks!!! Howd ya do Kel? What requirement did you get out of the way. Be safe, Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

This is exactly what I'm talking about. I love to cook. I love to play guitar. I love to read. But, more than anything. There isn't anything that has approached the feeling I get when I exit that plane at 14k. Truly awe inspiring, and breathtaking. Also, I'm 38 years old, so I don't need to be reminded all the obovious, like how it will turn into a job, etc... I don't view the world with rose colored glasses, never will. But I do know this. Skydiving is where I want to be. Period. Blues, Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

Me neither Amber, but honestly, I have no idea why you don't (unless your hard headed like me). Cuz you are a cutie. h n y Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

Oh hell yes, Sounds corny, but I've been waiting all my life. It's happenin this year. jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

Alas, me neither flygirl.... However, if I was near ya, I'd kiss ya, big time! Happy New Year you Level 4 Grad you! jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

Pretty funny Kel, but I was just reviewing and came across this... I have exactly the same things that you have left. To a t. Pissed me off, I didn't get one jump in December, wind, rain, blahblahblah.... Wanna Race? lol - I'll prolly lose, but I sure as hell want to get my A soon! Missouri weather bites in Jan! peace, Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

Ahhh, see, I've come full circle though. Been there, done that. Spent half my life as a pauper, turnin circles in the middle of the room looking for something that I couldnt' quite find. Then I found IT, literally. Made a killing, house in the burbs, travel, etc...etc... Big deal. Aside from the fact that I've been blessed enough to take care of myself and my family. Which is fabulous. More than anything, I've learned "whats important". Which is why... After the youngest gets through school, it's back to PBJ's for me, and jumping, and whatever the hell else it takes to put a brew in my hand, and a smile on my face. I've slept in a tent, I've slep in the Hilton, neither really put the smile on my face, but other things, they are more important. Sounds so completely jaded, which I'm not, I'm grateful, I'm blessed. At the same time though? I've learned whats important to me, quality, not quantity. I've been poor, I've been well off, and everything in between. Honestly, my financial statement has not ever been whats dictated my happiness. In fact, in many ways, I've found it more painful chasing the brass ring, than anything in my life. It bites, it sucks, and it gets real tiring real damn quick. There has to be more to it. New Year to you, Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

I think anything/everything can turn into complete bullshit... However, I've spent 10 plus years in the corporate world, and I'm, well, stick a fork in me, I'm done. My 5 year plan includes getting my youngest through school and then, all bets are off. I'm outta here. Honestly the thought and the goals/objectives that I have to meet to make this happen give me a reason to smile every day. I've already had many many "old hands" laugh at me and tell me "You don't know what your in for", which, is prolly true. Honestly though? I do know what I'm leaving behind and hey, it's all good. As SkyBytch says at the top of this post, it's not all about money, been there, done that, and yes its way cool to earn the big bucks, but it doesn't keep the smile there thats for damn sure. So, the rocket is heading for the launch pad, and it's on a slow ride, but it'll get there, and I'll enjoy the preparation to get there, and the ride once it launches. Peace, jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

Big time Dad, big time. Major vibes to those, including yours, that are out there taking care of us. One of mine, is here in town, taking care of em. He's an EMT and I'm incredibly proud of him. The danger he puts himself into regularly, to take care of those that are in trouble, well, it makes me proud. >> to you and yours, and everyone both away fighting, and here, looking out for all of us. Truly amazing, selfless, and admirable. To serve your fellow man, with love in your heart and a true belief in doing whats right. What more could you do during your time here? So many heroes, just for being there. jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

I did twenty jumps, between Sep and Nov... Not a record, nor worth writing home about. However, after being off eight years and only jumping seven times then? I'm through AFF, have four jumps remaining for my A, and I got me a freaking rig!!! My goal for 04 is 100, and a B license before WFFC, cuz that's where I'm gonna be... Hapy New Years Everyone, Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

Exactly, one more thing though Kai... I slipped our packer "the fee" and, I video taped him packing too. I spent the other nite, at home (8 weeks later), packing my rig and going step by step through what my packer had taught me. Play, Rewind, Stop, FFwd... Very cool truly. jus my two cents. Jack It's a gas, gas, gas...

That is beyond cool. I can't wait to go with my Daughter, then my Son. So wonderful, definitly has to be the best dive to be had. It's a gas, gas, gas...

Jeez, glad I got that right.... wow, we have way too much time on our hands. jjf It's a gas, gas, gas...

Jeez, I was totally wasted last nite, and didn't have a single number to drunk dial... That bites, I'da called and rambled, bitched, and carried on like a typical drunk you know... Oh well. Course when I'm wasted, I'd rather drunk dial a chick though, much more fun. It's a gas, gas, gas...

Flattery will get you far as well!