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Ha ha ha...yea but not many people were virgins as long as I was. The only reason I'm not, now, is b/c I believe in love or really caring for someone before sex, for myself. I just think it hightens the feeling if you truly care for someone. BZ is the first guy I truly loved and who I felt loved me.

aHA HA HA HA HA H...that's one's self-explanatory. Actually, christoofar, sex is something i actually DO openly talk about b/c i feel it's educational to talk to others AND listen to others. most girls won't admit they masturbate, I'LL WEAR A T-SHIRT THAT SAYS I DO. Ha ha ha. I find it sad that 75% of woman have not or can not have an orgasm through normal intercourse (that's right guys, a LOT of women fake it.) I was taught that statistic in a personal health class, as well as a marriage and family class. Although, many of these women, can get themselves off or can have an orgasm via oral. There are many theories as to why. The theory I tend to agree w/ is that many women are self conscious about their bodies in bed and are worrying too much about sucking in their tummies than enoying a good love fest. This is why they can get off orally b/c while the man's face is buried in her crotch, he can't see the rest of her and she can FINALLY relax. I don't have this problem. I don't care if when I"m turned to the side, I have a skin roll on my side. I doubt if BZ notices. I am relaxed and enjoy the experience. Unfortunately, many women do not. I feel it's important to have sex discussions to make people, especially women, open up more and learn to enjoy the experience as much as men do. I know this all sounds funny coming for a former virgin girl w/ only 1 sexual partner to date (and hopefully, forever b/c i'm madly in love w/ my man) but don't be so shocked. Andrea (Skymama) can attest, I will talk about ANYTHING (except personal things) and NOTHING embarrasses me.

I meant I want the girl's vagina whom I had quoted above, silly.

Oh geez, must I explain. "Double clicking my mouse" = 2 fingers (double click) and my virginia!

GEEZ! I must be in a sharing mood tonight. I rarely EVER let people know anything personal about me. And now, I've mentioned growing up, masturbation and God only knows what else. Most of the time, I'd rather people assume things about me than have them know the truth. Somebody must have slipped me a pill or something....SHEESH. I think I'll stop now.

Not bad! Nothing wrong w/ self-gratification...I started doing that when I was 8 years old b/c I didn't loose my virginity until I was 20, when I met BZ. Yup, I've only had 1 sexual partner. Welcome to my club. Ironically, I think it made me better in bed, b/c all I had before I had sex, was fantasy and double clicking my mouse.

HOLY COW, I forgot that was you! Yea, baby! Christoofar, I've been trying to save BZ and I money. After a few trips to both SAMS and Publix, I've figured which is cheaper to buy at SAMS and what is cheaper at Publix. You can get 5 pounds of FRESH (not frozen) boneless, skinless chicken for $8. At Publix, it usually costs $3 for a pound. However, to be honest, when Publix is having a sale, big packages of TP and paper towels are actually cheaper at publix than at SAMS. It takes longer to do the shopping, going to two places, but it's save BZ and I about $60 a week.

Geez, I want your vagina. My vagina doesn't always do that (but it definitely does sometimes.) I like my vagina and would never get vaginal rejuvenation surgery. Ha ha ha. For those who don't know, there is a BIG joke here where I live b/c there are constant commericals on TV, RADIO and advertisements in the paper for vaginal rejuvenation surgery. I mean, what they hell? Trust me ladies, as long as the man gets to see your vagina, I don't think he cares what it looks like.

I used to, and still do, love cauliflower A LOT, but ever since I bought a bad bag of it from SAMS and the smell REAKED up my kitchen, I haven't touched it.

HOLY COW! NWS, we could be twins. I agree w/ ALL OF YOUR answers. On your #4, I should add, for myself, that I pretty much raised myself since I was 4. I was taken care of financially until I left for college, but my dad and stepmom worked out of the country monday-friday and on Sat/Sun they stayed at their beach condo. If I was sick at school, my dad's secretary would pick me up. HA HA HA HA. I basically lived by myself my whole life. Ironically, though, it really hasn't f*cked me up that much. It never really bothered me and now that I've moved out, my parents and I have built a great relationship. It wasn't every week either, just more weeks than not. The weeks my father actually came home for a weekend, he taught me how to do EVERYTHING for myself, which, now, I really appreciate. He always said never pay someone to do something you can do yourself and as a result, I can wire circuit breakers, fix plumbing, you name it. I think b/c he was gone so much, it was very important to him for me to be self-sufficient. I had my really rough times growing up, but I'd say it's made me who I am today. Oh, and one more thing I should add: Even when I'm cold, I refuse to put on socks and/or shoes.

Lisa, ha ha ha...we have some things in common, too: #4. I HATE to cook, too, and I CAN'T COOK if I tried, but every once in a while, I like to bake cookies. #5. ME TOO...but usually b/c the person in the passenger seat, when I drive, is so tense, that I find it's better FOR THEM if they drive.

Christoofar, We have some things in common. Your #5: I sometimes get claustraphobic cramped up in the hot airplane. #6. I KID YOU NOT, a few months ago, BZ and I spent the whole weekend moving from 335 on our street to 339.

I wouldn't be so quick to say. The guys who most girls would pick out of a crowd, I wouldn't. As for the rest of your point. I agree. I just think that it does happen that beefcake A looks at beefcake B and might be jealous of the fact that beefcake B has more muscle. Just like woman A might look at woman B and be jealous that woman B has nicer skin, or bigger boobs. However, NO-ONE can argue that women DEFINITELY do this more than men.

I think that's true, for the most part, but bald guys ARE intimidate by men w/ hair and skinny guys ARE intimidate by beefcakes, sometimes.

This is intended to be another non-judgemental thread. I'll start: 1. I'm unique b/c if there's a stupid show on television, I'm the biggest fan. 2. My favorite vegetable is asparagus and I can't stand chocolate. 3. I spend $120 a month on COFFEE. Yes, I know how many jumps that is but look at it this way, I can't function, let alone jump, w/out it. 4. I prefer to sit on the left side of a room. 5. I love sunlight but at night, will have very little artificial light on. I can't stand it. 6. Although I'm an independant woman, I prefer someone else cut my chicken b/c I get frustrated and look like an idiot trying to do it. 7. I have a thing for genie bottles. They're all over my house. 8. I'm a clean freak, move something to the left an inch and I'll move it back (don't worry, I"m not so much a freak that I'd get mad at you for moving it. Just know that when I see it, it will be moved back) 9. I take an hour every day and lock myself in a room, not to be disturbed by ANYONE. 10. I'll spend ridiculous amounts of time and money on my cat or my boyfriend but only will buy something for myself if it's on sale.

***I'm attracted to goth, so what do I know. *** HEY! This is the "non-judgemental" thread, remember? We will not judge you for liking satan-worshipers....JUST KIDDING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I bet you don't mine. Especially when the damn things get MORE AND MORE REAL LOOKING as the days go by. The most obvious to me though it size, MOST OF THE TIME, small girl=small breasts, big girl=big breasts. VERY RARELY does it happen in nature that a size 2 has D cups or ANY cups for that matter. But like I said, whatever floats your boat. I had a roomate in college that had them done, and I'd never seen her happier w/ herself. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Nooooooooo! Fugly is MY WORD. I use it all the time, especially when I see those fugly orange cars driving around. But hey, some people just really like orange. Either tha, or they REALLY hate their car. But okay, I'll share my favorite word..

Nah, I think she likes you. If Lisa is anything like me, she'll only bother to tease you if you're worth her time. The more I pick on someone, the more I like them....Ask Andrea (Skymama.) The poor girl gets the GRUNT of my taunts but it's only cause I LOVE HER! If I'm just polite, either I don't know you well, or you're not my favorite. Once I get to know you, the more I like you, the more I'll tease you. I feel sorry for my friends...ha ha ha ha...then again, some people are just easy targets.

***However, guys are generally _not_ intimidated by other guys; in fact, how a guy "looks" is really a non-issue most of the time.***. Ha ha ha. I can always count on you, Bill, for a conversation such as this. I agree and disagree. Have you ever been to the gym where all those beefcakes work out? I think they VERY MUCH care about their apprearance and whether the next guy can bench more than them or whether his bicep is bigger. Hair is definitely an issue with men, otherwise Rogaine would be out of business. And clothes, too, bother some men, otherwise the "preppy" look would have gone out a LONG time ago. I stand by my first point, MEN DO CARE, just not all of them. And same goes for women, some care, some don't. Helmet hair, HELL YEA. I'm a chick and I'll be the first to tell you, you'll almost NEVER see me w/ my hair down. I like it long so I can put it in a pony tail. I think I have nice hair but I rarely flaunt it. So, no, not all girls care about helmet hair, either. I will concede, however, there are things I might worry about that men would not. I'm more girlie than some girls and more tomboy than others...I think of myself as being a happy medium. I prefer my men, the same. I like a guy who cares enough to shower and shave, but I wouldn't want a beefcake or a prep.

This just KILLS ME! I was given a gift certificate to a REALLY RITZY salon in my area b/c I had told someone I'd never had a manicure or pedicure in my life (I didn't mean I wanted one, but I guess the person took it that way.) So I saved it for when BZ was out of town to pamper myself. I went yesterday and BOY DID I FEEL OUT OF PLACE. The women there were BEAUTIFUL but all had thousands of dollars worth of work done. Did I assume this? Nope. I heard them talking to their stylists, manicurists, whatever, all about nose jobs, hair colors, lypo, YOU NAME IT. I don't see anything really wrong w/ getting plastic surgery. I've seen a couple regular girls at my DZ who've had breast jobs. However, although I don't see anything wrong, I'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND IT. The closest I come to understanding is people who just want to have fun with themselves and what God gave them; like dying your hair a different color every week or playing w/ different eye shadows. Sometimes I wonder what my hair would look like jet black...ha ha ha ha, I just wouldn't want to deal w/ the roots when it started growing out blonde again. Sure, sometimes I wish my eyebrows weren't blonde, but OH WELL, I'm german, that's what I was born w/. But that's just my point of view. I haven't had any work done and although I never say never, I PROBABLY never will. I have a hard enough time, as it is, pushing my surf board under the wave. I can't imagine trying to do it w/ a couple D cups. Ha ha ha. My Bs are FINE BY ME! Ha ha ha.

Oh geez...here is goes: women are intimidated by good looking women. If a woman, good looking or not, is in a high corporate position and sees a good looking woman trying to make her way up the ranks, the woman in the higher posistion, being intimidated by the better looking women, might try to keep the other woman down. Same goes for men. Also, men and women are intimidated by good looking men and women. For girls especially, assumptions are ALWAYS made about a good looking woman, and thus, less friendships are formed b/c the other women can almost never get past that initial, "huh, who does she think she is?" Same goes for men, sometimes. Also, when you do see a woman in front of the cameras or making her way up the corporate ladder, some people immediately respond, "who is she sleeping w/?" just b/c she's good looking. Actually, I double majored and one of my majors is sociology. In my class, I was even taught that, although men can be a roadblock to women's success in business, women can be even more of a roadblock to other women's success b/c of intimidation and JUDGEMENTS. So, my comment was VERY accurate. Ugly people, pretty/handsome people, have it equally rough and each face roadblocks. From experience: I can pretty much eat what I want. First reason being, I'm young (I realize, when I'm not so young, I will have to watch what I eat), second reason, my mom is VERY petite (I'm actually bigger than her by 2 inches and 20 pounds) and third, I have low blood sugar. Sometimes, women who struggle w/ their weight look at me and think I have it easy and snub the fact that I'm eating every couple hours. However, from my point of view, I think, in some ways, they have the advantage b/c they don't faint two hours after they eat b/c their metabolism has already burned it of, they might not get heat exhaustion b/c of lack of electrolytes, and they probably don't get dizzy and have to make a run for a glass of orange juice. It doesn't happen often, thankfully and my mom has it much worse. Anyone who sees me at the DZ knows I go through about 8 quart-size gatorades a day while I'm jumping to keep up my electrolytes. So like I said, no matter what side you're on, the other side isn't greener. It's just as green. It just looks greener from your pasture b/c of a glare from the sun. You'll find once you walk over there, it's the same color you are. (I hope you were able to follow that really bad analygy.) Ha ha ha ha.

Ha ha ha ha! In that case, when we order a canoe for him, we'll just forget the canoe altogether and drop him in the middle of the lake.

I happen to be an EXCELLENT swimmer. Who needs a paddle? Besides, usually it's the man that arranges for the canoe and sets his girl a sail, not realizing until later, he forgot to order paddles. Luckily, us women are resourceful and can figure out ways to dig ourselves out of the mess that men create for us. HA HA HA HA HA HA.....THIS IS ALL B.S. OF COURSE, BUT I'LL PLAY ALONG.

JUMPNFLY, I feel like we're rowing the same boat w/out paddles.