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Leave it to Magistr8 to keep getting this thread back on track! Ha ha ha!

HA HA HA! Cute! Actually, I didn't know he swooped when I met him. I just knew him as that "funny camera guy that didn't stand a chance against my charms!" But I must say, and boys, please don't try this at home unless you're QUALIFIED... SWOOPING IS SO SEXY. I freakin love watching those boys and girls swoop their shit, skim the water and fly through the blades. What a turn on! But a HUGE TURN OFF is guys/girls who do that who don't have the experience, know-how or common sense and get themselves hurt.

But NONE quite as hot as..... SKYMAMA!

I totally agree. I've seen situations such as yours and the relationship went on happily ever after after all was said and done. I can't even say that if someone cheated on me that eventually, I would not get back together with that person. But, I know, I would break up initially and at the very least, take a lot of time off. My point just addressed the "open-mindedness" comment. I didn't think that really applied.

I consider myself very open-minded and I still wouldn't date a cheater. I could forgive, but I wouldn't continue dating them.I don't think that makes me a close-minded person for not reaching out to understand why a cheater cheats. I don't judge cheaters, I just don't date them. To each their own. Some people like to try a lot of things before they settle down and there's certainly nothing wrong with that. Others know what they want from the start and there's nothing wrong with that either. I dont' think it's a matter of open-mindedness or not.

A pic? How about a web cam...Andrea has her own private Web cam and she LOVES to dance the nasty when it's on! (teasing;-)

I think the "what he doesn't know" advice only applies to what you did BEFORE you met him. While you're in a relationship, I believe honesty is key. Hang in there

Line? Screw the line...Andrea likes 'em all at once! Again, just teasing

WATCH? Hell no...he wants to join in! He he he.....I'M JUST TEASING!

He he he....Billy said I couldn't have another boyfriend but a girlfriend is okay! Ha ha ha ha! JUST KIDDING!

9....10...READY OR NOT, HERE I COME!

You boys can look but don't touch...Skymama's ass is for my hands to grab only!;-)

HA HA HA! HELL YEA I told her to say that? Must it even be said, though? Doesn't my charm speak for itself? JUST KIDDING! Andrea's right though, I do rag on her ass a lot, but only b/c it's SUCH A FINE ASS!

sorry guys...i deleted my post.

it didn't hurt me;-) the one on my spine didn't bother me a BIT, the one inside my hip bone made me nauseus the second time he did it (i started it a couple years ago, and then added on to it recently, it is still small, though). I think it was the way I was positioned in the chair, though, not the pain. It's all mind over matter. When I got the one on my lower spine, the guy had his other hand on my upper back to balance. He was tapping his hand. I concentrated on his hand tapping and how that felt on my upper back. I barely felt the needle on my lower back.

I don't think I have any full-back undies...that is why my full-back bikini makes me uncomfortable. The damn thing rides up my ass. If I wanted it there, I would have bought a thong bikini, then there's a lot less material back there. I wanted to buy a thong bikini, but here in the damn U.S. if a girl sports a thong, she's treated and starred at like trash. I just want a tan and comfortable bootie, damni!

He he he...but you love them anyways? Or love *with* them anyways?

Ha ha ha. My kitty likes to flex his paws and suck on my T-shirt while purring REALLY LOUDLY in the middle of the night. He also likes to sit on my boy-toy's pillow, next to his head, and peak his head between the blinds out the window to look at the birds at 6 a.m.!

For those of you in now, or have been in relationships in the past, what are some annoying things your significant other does, but you love them anyways? This is meant to be funny, not to put anyone down or be judgemental.;-) I'll start: He whistles, taps his hands on the wheel, makes funny noises with his mouth and everything else when he's driving, CONSTANTLY. But, it makes me laugh b/c he doesn't even know he's doing it.

I think the most important thing my boy-toy ever told me in the beginning of our relationship is: Our business is our business and no-one elses. We rely on each other and not anyone else. We have always stayed true to that. Sure, I've vented here and there to Skymama, but Skymama is a close friend of mine and I'm always careful to leave out the personal details that he would not want anyone to know. Everyone needs to vent once in a while, but I think, for the most part, you shoudl just deal with your issues with the person you have them with and nobody else. Gossipers suck!

Consequences, hunny, of your actions. They suck, I know. But like I said, if it's meant to be, he will forgive you. You just told him, he is still in shock mode. He may get over it, he may not. You will be okay, hun, either way. Hang in there.

I would hope that he/she would never tell a bunch of people, figure it out on their own, and come to me only. That's just me. I would break up over a drunk kiss. Maybe that sounds harsh, but I absolutely believe in trust and believe in faithfulness. If I'm in a relationship with you, I must trust you. I don't date anyone I don't trust. This is also why I'm NOT the jealous type. My boy-toy can tell me if he thinks so-and-so on televsion is hot, or he can go out with his guy friends all night and I have no worries. I trust him. If he kissed another, I'd want to know and our relationship would end. Simple as that. Thankfully, I know that would never happen on either end b/c we both have mutal respect to break up with one another if we felt we were interested in someone else or wanted to explore other avenues. If you don't have trust, you don't have shit, in my opinion. However, I realize others feel differently, AND I can see it's obvious Tara is remorseful and don't think she's a bad person for simply kissing another guy. She obvioiusly learned a lesson. And sometimes, learning lessons the hard way are the best kind. Other than all that, even though she asked, I'm done sticking my nose in someone else's business.

To each their own. Different approaches work for different people. I personally believe marriage = joint bank account. My boy-toy doesn't write shit down or EVER balance his book. Therefore, I'm fully prepared to take on the finances in our relationship. I'm good at it. The only thing he will have to learn to do is write his shit down, or at least save his reciepts so I can write it down. I think if you're not ready to trust each other with money, you're not ready to trust each other in marriage. Money is the ultimate test! I have a VERY hard time trusting people, so I think if I'd be willing to share a bank account with someone, it says a lot.

Well, it's a common thing, and I wouldn't know for sure, since I've never been there, but as a rule, I agree with what sweet girl said: I've never bought the "i was drunk and didn't know" excuse. However, you seem to feel very badly about it so if it's meant to be, he'll forgive you. If you truly care about him, I wouldn't let it happen again. Cheaters suck;-). Not just to taraflyer but to everyone: Have the coutesty to break up with someone if you know you're interested in other people. It's a simple act that will save a LOT of heartbreak.

I won't elaborate much but I will tease you this: When I got the tattoo, the tattoo artist didn't have to use his razor