i'm sort of a control freek i like to do things my self.thats why i think i didn't like the tandem,but totaly loved aff.the tandem was like riding on somone elses motercycle or snowmobile,it was fun but i realy wanted to do it myself.as for the farm i'm a crop farmer so i can come and go,but still have to work with the weather.my skydiving suprises the hell out of everyone i know because i would never fly in a plane,now i don't ever want to have to land in one.