Conundrum

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  1. Sure you can, I just prefer no hair, like you prefer some hair. *shrug*
  2. Are you a lesbian? (serious question) Or are you an OB/GYN?
  3. I don't want to look like a 9-yr old. That creeps me out. Some hair stays! I don't see at as looking like a 9-year old, but to each their own. I think it's clean and fresh - but you're talking to someone who shaves their arms and stomach too, so. I just don't like body hair.
  4. I'm not a fan of any body hair (arms, chest, etc ) including the nether regions - for both me and him. So, no hair please.
  5. Why are gay couples not considered equal in religion?
  6. Ummm.... Just curious here. Some guy fucking a goat is that the same to you as 2 consenting adults fucking? Is that what I said at all or implied in any way? No.
  7. Me personally? I draw the line when someone's actions start affecting other people. Some guy fucking a goat doesn't change my life at all, nor does it anyone else's (just his maybe), so why would I care? Is it disgusting? Sure it is, but it doesn't change my life so who gives a shit? A gay couple getting married doesn't hurt me or change anything for me either.
  8. Well sure, YOU didn't make the law, but your same opinion is what made it pass, and surely you would have voted YES on the proposition if you could (or maybe you did) and that's the part I'm trying to understand. You are free to think whatever you like, just as is anyone else. But making your beliefs the law is something entirely different.
  9. which one? there are a couple things being talked about here.
  10. You are absolutely entitled to your opinion that being gay is wrong, but what gives you the right to make it wrong for everyone? Meaning, why is YOUR belief that it being wrong enough to make actually ILLEGAL for a gay couple to get married? How can you honestly say that's right and fair? That your beliefs should be law for all?
  11. I am genuinely curious as to what is so bad about being gay? Why does the church look SO down upon it? Enough to say 'no - you're not *allowed* to marry the person you love - either in this church or now by law'. Is it because its gross? Because the point of marriage is to unify a family and have children? I'm really trying to understand why religous people are just so utterly against gay unions being called marriage. I cannot seem to grasp the concept. Then again, I'm not religious and gay people getting married has zero effect on me whatsoever. I'm also wondering how it DOES affect the religious folk.
  12. Where have I said that gays, that want to be seen as legal couples, should not be seen the same under any law? Ooooooh, you mean the same, but with a different name. How is that the same again? And if it's the same, why not call it marriage? Back at you, why does it need/have to be? Don't feel like answering? Whats the matter, make you think? My query is the same/no different than yours. I have made my point more than once in reference to the question you asked yet you ask it again, so, to maybe avoid it a third time, I ask you the same questions to help you see my perpective (not necessarily agree with it) Yes, somehow you not answering my question 'makes me think'. LOL. The concept of this post ____________ your head
  13. Why are you equating gays with something that is less than human? Because the YES supporters have to grasp at anything to try and defend their stance.
  14. Where have I said that gays, that want to be seen as legal couples, should not be seen the same under any law? Ooooooh, you mean the same, but with a different name. How is that the same again? And if it's the same, why not call it marriage? Back at you, why does it need/have to be? Don't feel like answering?
  15. Where have I said that gays, that want to be seen as legal couples, should not be seen the same under any law? Ooooooh, you mean the same, but with a different name. How is that the same again? And if it's the same, why not call it marriage?
  16. Where have I presented 'hate' in any of these posts? I'm simply trying to understand how gays getting "married" effects you at all and why you think you have the right to make it the law. edit: and by the way, are you seriously telling me to be open minded while taking another breath and saying gays shouldn't be allowed to get 'married'? Wow.
  17. I've read what you've posted in this thread and still it makes no sense. You're not ok with one but ok with the other. It's silly. Oh well.
  18. I would vote not to a ban disolving marriage or a civil union Did I avoid your trap? What trap? So you don't want gays getting married because it's a religious union (and not ok with your religion), yet you are ok with people getting divorced and breaking their religious vows and union. Interesting. How does that make sense?
  19. How would you vote on a proposition to ban divorce?
  20. No, it's not. I didn't ask what THEY want to call themselves. I asked if YOU think they should be allowed to be considered "married" if they are not religious and did not have a religious ceremony.
  21. So you think that Congres should make law against a religious belief. No, but you think that your religious beliefs should become law and affect everyone. Hmm,where have I said that? You're arguing for NOT letting gays get married by law are you not?
  22. Yeah but... 100 years ago it would have been common practice to describe most newly married couples as "gay". Words change meaning, huh? Indeed, but the accepted way is by evolution of the language, not hijacking of the language. Marriage has been redefined in the past. Its time to redefine it again. The reason? To give every human being the right to get married to the person they love. Why else? What's the reason NOT to? No reason not to let them join in a legal union. (that has the same legal rights) Why redefine what many call a holy union? Many people, not all. What about all the straight couples who are married but had a non-religious ceremony? Should they not be allowed to be called a 'married' couple? Many do have legal unions via jp. If they do not want it to be said they are married that is their choice That's not what I asked.