airdvr

Agreed. Hence the $200 rule. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

I always wonder what the motivation is when I see someone wearing something like that! It is called, "No I am not single, I am NOT interested in anything you have to say, Leave me the fuck alone , I am sick of jerks like you thinking I will find your punk ass interesting!" just says it in much fewer words..... If science is ever able to advance to asexual reproduction for females us guys are doomed. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Bummer Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

As a longtime Browns fan I have alot of experience with the Shottenheimer clan. Good coaches who will give you a decent football team but never get you to the dance. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Abortion...eh WTF. I don't advocate it but that's my decision. I don't try and force my views on that on someone else. I've listened to quite a few in here I wish had been aborted. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Depending on the person I would say all of the above. Why are you so bitter about this topic? Are you thinking that perhaps some time in your past you might have unknowingly exceeded someone's limit? You think I'm bitter? That's funny Not only do I not care about someones "limit"... but if they were to ever judge me or our relationship based on how much money they spent on me initially (and btw, I like to split or pay for things like dinner/going out) I'm glad it didn't work out; and they're equally as sad as the "limit" you're saying you base your relationships on. Amazing how much you think you know about me. Fail. You're the one who seems to have a problem with the scenario. Why do you care? I believe that everything we do is in some part motivated by the desire for sexual intimacy. Sometimes it's plain to see. Other times not so much. I was simply placing an outside limit on what I was willing to spend to explore one possibility. You seem to want to define me with it. S'OK. If it makes you sleep better at night. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

And would we have laughed at that? HELL YES!!! I didn't scroll down. My first thought was 'these are jumpers no?' Stupid moves by skydiviers have been celebrated since we first decided that fabric and lines in a pack was a fun weekend. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

I find it laughable how often people want to point out the failings of the police. I figure there are about 1,000,000 LEO's in the US. If only half of them interact with the public on a daily basis that's 500,000 times a cop could screw up. They're human. Someone has a golf club and is threatening them with it they take the person down. Maybe they didn't mean to kill them but shit happens in the heat of the moment. Don't want a cop to shoot you then don't come out the door with your 5 iron. We need a icon. Kennedy...don't waste your thoughts. Smile and know someday the OP is going to desperately need the assistance of the very individuals he so thoroughly despises. I wonder what choice he'll make. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

"Saigon, shit. I'm still only in Saigon. Every time I think I'm going to wake up back in the jungle. When I was home after my first tour, it was worse. I'd wake up and there'd be nothing... I hardly said a word to my wife until I said yes to a divorce. When I was here I wanted to be there. When I was there, all I could think of was getting back into the jungle. I've been here a week now. Waiting for a mission, getting softer. Every minute I stay in this room I get weaker. And every minute Charlie squats in the bush he gets stronger. Each time I look around the walls move in a little tighter. Everyone gets everything he wants. I wanted a mission, and for my sins they gave me one. Brought it up to me like room service. " The Horror.... Great movie. One of my top 10. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Depending on the person I would say all of the above. Why are you so bitter about this topic? Are you thinking that perhaps some time in your past you might have unknowingly exceeded someone's limit? Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

LOL @ "invest". You're obviously a bitter person about your divorce. This is a relationship, not Wall Street. Get over yourself. you sound bitter too. Are you divorced? Nope, I just think it's funny that you spending money on or with someone is an "investment". You invest time, not money, into a relationship. If you want to spend money and get fucked on the first date, go hire a hooker. And therein lies the $200 limit. I don't go to hookers but I figured that if I reached the $200 mark I could have just bought myself a piece of ass. If the relationship wasn't progressing towards being more intimate it was time to cutaway. Thank you for demonstrating the issue. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

LOL @ "invest". You're obviously a bitter person about your divorce. This is a relationship, not Wall Street. Get over yourself. I was absolutely bitter over my divorce. I'll take a wild guess and say most people in that situation would be. I don't understand the 'get over yourself' comment. you sound bitter too. Are you divorced? Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Sorry. I didn't realize it was the same person. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

I would've probably done the same. From my experience, if a guy is a spender (someone who likes to buy really expensive meals or give lots of gifts, etc.) he's going to be all weird about it if you ask him not to. So, you can either go along with it or walk away. Airdvr - in response to your question to Nightingale. I dated a guy like that for about a month who didn't even try to kiss me but probably took me out to nice restaurants about three times a week, bought me clothes, wanted to buy me a GPS for my car, etc. We had many discussions about his attitudes around all this. His view was he had the money and liked to spend it. It always made me feel weird (esp. the non-meal purchases), but every time I tried to pick-up a meal here or there or refused to let him buy me something it made things feel even more weird. So, I went back to avoiding those types even though I really liked him otherwise. There's something missing here...you say you really liked him otherwise. He took you nice places, bought you nice things. What happened? Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

After he's done we can put him out rear float. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Am I the only one who was a tad disappointed that I was not reading a story about that most dreaded of high speed mals, the horseshoe? Seriously thought it is good that you are thinking about your gear and what you'd do in the event of a mal. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Yeah, totally agree. A while ago, I ran into a guy who was an acquaintance a few years ago. We started chatting, he asked me out, details to be worked out later. When he emailed me, the places he was suggesting to go were all a couple hundred bucks. Completely freaked me out, and I never called him even though one of the places he suggested is probably my favorite restaurant (he doesn't know that). Places like that are for a special occasion. For a first date, coffee and maybe a movie would've been awesome. Admittedly, I probably handled the situation poorly, though. So I'm curious. If you had gone to one of those fancy restaurants he suggested do you think he would have expected you to play hide the sausage with him afterwards? Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

I would think it's more of a drug reference. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Anyone else see the irony of the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize winner hosting a state dinner for the leader whose country has the 2010 Nobel Peace Prize winner in prison while the 2002 Nobel Peace Prize winner sits in attendance? http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/peace/laureates/2010/presentation-speech.html Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

I can see that. Hell, the UK will be a mostly Muslim country in a couple of years. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

So your contention is politics had nothing to do with it? Wow. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

http://www.martinlutherking.org/articles.html I don't think so. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

Cutaway now and avoid the drama. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne

We have this holiday because of political correctness and the white man's guilt. There I said it. That's not saying that MLK wasn't deserving of recognition but the predominately guilt-ridden white population of the early '80s felt the need to offer up something to placate the Jesse Jackson/Al SHarptons and their ilk. There are thousands of men and women who are deserving of recognition and whose deeds rival those of MLK. They're just not the correct race. Please don't dent the planet. Destinations by Roxanne