LuckyMcSwervy

Is going to be in a wet t-shirt contest?? Is this correct?? Always be kinder than you feel.

Been there, done that. Married it, now single. Don't forget they have the leather keeper thingys for their gunbelt, too. And depending of what type of uniform they wear.... those lanyard thingys that go over their shoulders and across their chests. They come in handy if you use your imagination... And make sure if you get handcuffed.... make sure there's an extra key in the house, physically see it and make sure it works before you get locked up... because it is very embarassing to have to go back to the station after your shift and get a spare handcuff key from your future father in law... so I hear... Always be kinder than you feel.

Woohoo! See you there!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Hey!!! I like your sig line!!! And its still true, BTW. Always be kinder than you feel.

Gift certificates for a favorite spa or salon are always nice!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Happy Birthday, Jeff!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hope you have a GREAT birthday!! I hope to see you if I get to Sebastian next weekend and give you a big birthday hug!! And remember, if you can't be good... be careful!!! Love ya!!! Karen

It was so great to meet so many people. Best trip ever. Thanks for some awesome memories!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Dude, you're kinda reading my mind... Always be kinder than you feel.

No clickies to make today?? I love it when you do that!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Passion Party, yeah that's what it was. They were originally called Coming Attractions, but people had trouble finding them because movie reviews came up first when you search. What a slogan for a party I don't get it . That may be what their intentions were, it just didn't work out too well. Wonder how many of those sex toy parties turn into a swingers gathering. Ding ding ding!!! Always be kinder than you feel.

Thanks. Anything "inappropriate" never made it to a camera anyway. Although there is something I wish I had on video.. Always be kinder than you feel.

One of my best friends, one who I loved so, so much, killed himself by shooting himself in the chest on the front lawn of our church, next to the St. Francis of Assisi statue on October 1, 2002. It was a beautiful day. The sun was shining, birds were singing, temperature was nice. Who would want to die on such a beautiful day? I was sitting in my office in Trenton when my friend Terri Tully called me to ask if I've talked to my husband Scott yet.... I asked why..... she said "you're in Trenton?" (an hour and a half from home) .... I said "what the fuck is going on??"... she said "sweetie, johnny-o just killed himself".... I almost died myself at that point from a broken heart. His name was John Oliva. He was a New Jersey State Trooper who was going through a rough time professionally. I still can't think of him on that day and not cry my eyes out. If I wasn't dating my future husband when John and I met, we would've been together. We used to joke about that all the time, not in front of my guy though. They were police officers together at a local department before Johnny-O left to go to another municipality and then on to his dream of becoming a member of the New Jersey State Police. I could sit here all day and tell you how awesome he is and how much everyone loved him.... but I think you guys already understand losing someone and keeping their memory alive in any way you can. The very last time I saw Johnny-O alive, we were in the parking lot of Blockbuster and he came running across the parking lot and practically jumped through my car door window to hug me and give kisses. It was awesome, but he was always like that. When we were saying goodbye after the normal "call me this weekend, we'll all go out for dinner" plan making he looked me straight in the eyes, stared with those beautiful blue eyes for what seemed like forever, and said "I love you so much. You're amazing". I told him "I love you too, Johnny-O!! See you soon! Ju-Jitsu!" (that's how he always "signed off". We laughed, smiled, waved and I drove away.... That was a few days before he did it... God, I miss him so, so much. He's bured in a lovely plot right in town... I stop by and see him once in a while, sit there and talk to him because I know he's listening... I laugh at the little momentos other friends leave at his grave. I keep a picture from my wedding day on my desk (still, even after my divorce) because Johnny's in it standing next to me on the happiest day of my life. He had that picture in his home on prominent display and requested it be displayed at his funeral.... to hear the stories after his death of how much he loved Scott and I.... it tears me up.... He would call us and other friends at 11:30pm just to see if we had laundry detergent he could borrow just because he wanted to see us, not that he truly needed it.... LOL. Man, I wasn't expecting to write all of this. Sorry.... I just can't write anymore because I'll end up ripping open old wounds that have kinda started to heal.... and it took a long, long time for that..... Ju-Jitsu, Johnny-O!! You are sooooo loved.

So the guys on Facebook are seeing 'em and you're holding out on your jump buddies? Gosh, I thought we were your favorites. My jump buddies are my favorites!! However, they're just busting balls about my pics from the Puerto Rico boogie. There's no true "boobie" shots.... just us on the beach...... Always be kinder than you feel.

I don't recall saying I was giving up sex altogether during Lent!! I thought was just giving up tadpoles, and wild & meaningless tadpole sex. I said nothing about "full grown frogs" (someone said that tonight and it cracked me up!), and normal and meaningful sex. I rspectfully request to be removed from the list. Always be kinder than you feel.

Thanks!! I like 'em!! We All Do!!! I don't know about that. I'm chatting with someone on Facebook right now who said he wasn't too impressed or some shit like that. Hahaha. Plus, he said, "You're in good shape for a not so young girl. Very doable." ahahahahahahahahahah. I'd still hit it. The Donny Osmond Seal of Approval!!!!!! Haven't heard that in a while, have ya?? But thanks. Always be kinder than you feel.

I just thought of something... You were on my Facebook.... what happened?? I don't think I ever was. Hmmmm.... I used to see you signing on and off, always meant to say "Hey"..... No worries.. Always be kinder than you feel.

In this little Italian-American town that I call home, Saturday night mass turns into meeting at a nice local wine bar afterwards.... then moving onto another nice little place across the street. Then you can sleep in on Sunday morning!! YAY! Or.... if you were *really* bad Saturday night after you've already went to Mass earlier in the day... you have plenty of time to get your ass back to church and ask for more foregiveness. Not that I've ever done that.... "Dear God, Please tell my dead relatives to stop watching me get my freak on! I'm sorry for what they had to see last night!!" Always be kinder than you feel.

You left of the bit where i also said that your bod rocks better than a lot of 20 year olds out there, Unfair to snip quotes Busted!!! Always be kinder than you feel.

That's what's called a "backhanded compliment". Always be kinder than you feel.

Thanks!! I like 'em!! We All Do!!! I don't know about that. I'm chatting with someone on Facebook right now who said he wasn't too impressed or some shit like that. Hahaha. Plus, he said, "You're in good shape for a not so young girl. Very doable." Always be kinder than you feel.

Good lookin' out, Skittles. Thanks!!!

Thanks!! I like 'em!! Always be kinder than you feel.

I just thought of something... You were on my Facebook.... what happened?? Always be kinder than you feel.

Hahha.... no. Just going to tame myself for a bit. Always be kinder than you feel.

I'm giving up tadpoles and wild, meaningless sex. Always be kinder than you feel.