PLFXpert

Thank goodness for you in this discussion, Karenmeal We're floating in the same boat I'm definitely into a lot of various sexual funtasies, but something about it involving the bootie-hole just doesn't do it for me. Oh, and if "doggy style" as someone suggested involves the bootie-hole than apparently I've been doing it wrong all these years. I seriously can't believe I'm so fascinated with this discussion. Ha!

Dude---you know I'm going to look when you say don't.

You had me going, too! That's the closest thing to a fear I have---but doesn't stop me from living at the beach and playing in the water often. I've recently had similiar dreams, but about an alligator biting my arm. I'm not afraid in the least of alligators---I think it has more to do with my puppy always biting my arm in play. Ever since I got him an alligator shows up in my dream and won't stop biting my arm Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Ha! My posts still aren't ever perfect though---mostly b/c they're conversational. But, as long as they don't annoy me when I re-read I'm happy You forgot to edit "12-step" I had to add the sig line b/c I got tired of always posting the same reason for my "edited by PLFXpert" at the bottom of every post. It's against my own moral rules to edit and change what I said. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Precisely why I, nor anyone in my family cooks. Takes too long b/c you're cleaning as you go. I've recently learned to bake, though--just fish and veggies--not messy and you'd be surprised all the various ways you can make stuff in the oven Oh, and who said cleaning the sinks/toilet multiple times a week was obsessive? I consider that hygiene. Whoever mentioned the closet thing, I can relate, too. Must be wooden hangers, evenly spaced, in my own special sections of clothes (mine are little funnier than "work", "play", etc.") Regarding M&M's, I used to have to eat in pairs, etc. I got over that a long time ago though. I still tend to eat the crubs before the whole pieces though. I like only perfect ones left and get the broken ones out of the way---like saving the best for last. But, this rarely works, as my boyfriend specifically eats the perfect ones to keep the ratio the same and annoy me. (It doesn't really annoy me, just another thing he does---like moving around my magazines, etc. He finds this hilarious & thank GOODNESS finds my quirks charming) But, I don't have an anxiety attack if I don't do these things. I will be really agitated, though, if things are not clean in my own house. For some reason it doesn't bother me at all in other people's, or camping, etc. My house MUST always be clean, though. It's selective obsessive compulsions--strategically focused into only the most productive uses. Cognitive behavioral thinking Edited for the third time to add: I'm also obsessive about re-reading my posts sometimes and editing grammar, spelling, punctuation, a break to make a new paragraph, etc. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Forgive me---I come from a fairly hairless family. Ha! I have no unwanted hair anywhere and barely any hair anywhere else except my head. There was actually a trend when I was in high school and all the guys/girls on any varsity sports team shaved everywhere--arms, legs, etc. Not just for swimmers anymore. I was often called a liar b/c no-one believed I did NOT shave my arms until I'd let them look in the light as see the tiny, fine blonde hairs. I didn't realize bootie hair was so common?!?

I'm so confused. Ass shaving, butt bleaching...I'm lost Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

My father's side of the family is ridiculously so. My mother's side actually has literal "geniouses.". Between the two, my brain never stops. I find wine helps But, seriously, I actually use it as a blessing---if focused in the right directions it can be very beneficial, unless it's a severe complulsion. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I believe it is. I loved the book, Celestine Prophecy

I believe I posted a thread dedicated to EggNog a couple years ago. I flippin' LOVE the stuff! But, I try to avoid milk products---which sucks b/c I also LOVE milkshakes. I can understand not liking it though---good taste is hard to come by for some

Agreed, but I'd rather drink Coors than Icehouse, or Natty Light or any cheap, nasty beer that reminds me of high school Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Goldschlager. Split a large bottle with a friend in high school. Worst night, morning after, day after, evening after and next morning of my life. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I don't know about your wife, but I *love* being woken up in a *special way* Give it a shot Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

It's also for other security reasons. A long time ago I had a lot more info on my profile and due to hackars, spyware, etc. you can't be too careful about info about yourself on the web. It could always be used in identity theft later. Now, I left it truthful, but vague

OK--I know it's not the caliber of the other suggestions, but my answer is "Take my Breath Away." (The Top Gun version, not the Jessica Simpson catastrophe) Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I wait 'til it's full---but then again I'm part of the rinse-well-before-putting-in-dishwasher club Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Ha! I actually lost $20 on the ketchup thing. I don't typically make bets I don't KNOW I'll win. I just KNEW it would say "refrigerate after opening" on the ketchup. It didn't. It was a real defining moment for me. Ha! Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I agree and aprpeciate your elaboration

I have a million of those! Ha! I thought ketchup & mustard had to be refrigerated, which I absotlutely still do. I thought red wine was supposed to be chilled. I thought all tupperware was microwaveable. Basically, if it wasn't in a box, it was in our refrigerator growing up. I like EVERYTHING cold. No-one in my family cooks---so I had to learn a lot about microwaves, too. My hunny still laughs at me, as I'm continously learning these things. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Heaven! Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Just saw this DVD yesterday (rainy afternoon). "Ohhh! Do me now, Yo-Yo Master!" That part was hilarious Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I dont' think anyone would blame you, either. It's a funny (not ha-ha) thing about this topic. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Exactly. I read quite a few sociological and psychological studies on this topic, by choice, in college for papers. I have a natural tendency to want to understand the reasons behind people's actions, rather than judge them for it. Though I can definitely be judgemental. I just try very hard not to be. Anywho...I read one man's story in particular. Forgive me for not having a link or reference to give as it was a couple years ago. But, it was a reputable journal and told of one of the first men to get to a point in a new program to rehabilitate these predators. Without going into that detail, what struck me was why he chose "young girls, between ages 6 and 8". It was because when he was only 10, his father (parents divorced) would come and pick up him and his 6 year-old sister for the weekend. He'd take them back to his place where he (the father) and friends would molest the two kids. His only comfort through this horrific experience was having his sister right there next to him and knowning he wasn't alone in this awful situation. His reason for molesting young girls, now that he's all grown-up, is it brings him that same comfort he used to feel by having the company of his younger sister. It's twisted, and sad, but that type of experience as a young child is obviously EXTREMELY traumatizing and this particular man's way of coping is to try and find that one and only solace he knew as a child. I'm disgusted, though, with the laws regarding sexual predators, especially of minors. They are not nearly strict enough, in my opinion. But that arguement is probably for another forum. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Enough studies have concluded this, for me to agree, that public humiliation is a better deterence than jail time, etc. For whatever reason, the thought of imprisonment doesn't scare away a lot of these people, but the thought of them being brought into the public eye, does. It's all about secrecy. People don't like to be judged by their peers. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I saw it & was disgusted. Your complaint about lack of disclosure, I can't say whether I know to be true or not, b/c it didn't occur to me after seeing the report to research it. But, if a woman who was alledgedly raped must loose her anonymity in order to seek justice, than why should that rule change for sexual predetors of minors? Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.