ccowden

Hey J, if you are gonna take a shot at Brian, at least make your link a clicky! http://homepage.mac.com/jason_fl/

Yay! Looks like we are going to be neighbors!

Where's the suite?

I have fought the same kind of feelings you are talking about and went through times when I thought I should feel more sad about losing someone than I was. I started to feel bad about it and even felt as if there might be something wrong with me because of it. But, for me, it didn't last too long, and I came to realize that there are so many different ways we deal with loss and grief. Feelings come and go and the way you feel one day, may not be the way you feel the next. But even if it is the same, there are no set rules on how you are supposed to feel. Bottom line, you are certainly not a bad person. There is no right and wrong with emotions and feelings of loss. Sure there are alot of similarities from person to person, but everyone is different and every circumstance is different, so no matter how you feel or deal with this, it is unique to you and no one should judge that. However you feel, it is ok.

Yeah, what she said. I'll third that. Shit, with a ride like that, I am almost attracted to you! I said ALMOST!

I bet your graduation cap was pinned on to the back of your head so it was almost straight up and down so as to not squash your hair. Am I right?

Dude! You ARE Rod Stewart!

All I know is that it was COOL!

Ha! Didn't I see you in a Brat Pack movie?

Nope. Lots of my friends were though. I was a Reebok or Pony kind of guy!

And I am pretty sure I would have been wearing white mid or high top Reeboks. Untied of course!

... to post this, but what the heck! This is a scan of an old photo I found, which would have been around July of 1988, I think, a couple months before my 15th birthday. It was taken at a local Fair, where I hooked up with the blonde hottie in the picture. Now, keep in mind, "hooking up" meant holding hands for the day, but I was still pretty damn smooth. And isn't it obvious? Check out the one piece pink jumper she is wearing, and notice the stuffed bear she is holding, which I won at one of the games like any cool guy would do for his chick. Also notice my skin tight black stonewashed jeans, set off by my light blue stonewashed Levi's jacket, sleeves rolled up just right and unbuttoned down to the last button to reveal a cool wild print T-shirt! And let's not forget the spiked up hair with what looks like....wait a minute.... could it be.... a MULLET???!! Ok, it may be a rather weak mullet, but I think it's a mullet none the less. Can you blame me for having that shit eatin grin on my face that just oozes satisfaction? Oh yeah!

Well, let's just say the project is no longer a project. But the links are cool.

But I had wheat bread for my Subway sub yesterday, so that is kinda like repenting, right?

But we will all have smiles on our faces!

Ah crap! I had Italian bread. I am such a f*ck up!

You naughty, naughty woman! Hey, is "Animal Crackers" one of those things like "Q-Tips" and "Scotch Tape," or is it just a shape of cracker?

Sure! But what does that have to do with lunch? Animal Crackers in my soup. Lions and tigers loopdie loop.

I told you.... I have done make out jumps before! No worries!

I didn't tell you what list you were on, Chris. How is it flattering? I am just flattered to make one of your lists! It may be better if I don't know which one!

Instead of having 6 slices of bread with my soup, I only had 3! That is half the carbs!

That is flattering!

Now, YOU posting THAT, is truly funny! I think it deserves one of these: ROFLMAO!!!

Me too. And just the opposite to me. And I certainly appreciate that. From your posts, I can tell you and I are a lot alike in the sense of discussions, arguments and making points/counterpoints. However, I can also tell that you and I are differ greatly in opinions on many issues. I bet we could have some awesome discussions! Too bad you would always be wrong!

It's really quite simple. If you have a problem with something someone did to you, go to THEM about it. Posting a personal problem with an individual on here is not the way, no matter if you think the "punishment fits the crime" or not. And especially if you have a problem with someone who is ranting to others about you. Nope, self-defense is not a crime. Never said it was. But this is not self-defense. This is doing exactly the same that was done to you, which is exactly what you have a problem with. I will except "eye for an eye," but I will not accept saying, "Don't rant to other people about problems you have with me when I am not around. Say it to my face," and then making a post like this. For the record- I do not have any problems with Derek. In fact, not sure we have ever met. I am just a person who likes to discuss points and counterpoints, and this particular post seemed extremely hypocritical to me.