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The capital investment for a "real" tunnel is nuts. It's bombasticaly expensive but everyone thinks it's a good idea. How can I put it? Everyone wants one, the profit potential looks "good" but no one is willing to throw down the huge capital needed to get one "off the ground" So why no? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Told you hugging would work! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Man who doesn't know this; Contrary to popular belief, the ups and downs of romantic relationships have a greater effect on the mental health of young men than women, according to a new study by Professor of Sociology Robin Simon. Look I just feel bad for the guy. And for anyone who is from the inside out a good person and gets used by those are are not. If that's wrong, well then you know what I'm ok with it. And guys do this too. I'm not saying it's just the girls who screw the guys. Guys do it as well. I'm not blind in my view. This is just one example I know. I'm sure there are many more. Dogs who hit the ground hard, broken and broke find girl who is 30 and wants to get married and he says yes...just so he has some one to take care of him. Life sucks man. As for the OP, sorry this thread was hijacked. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I don't care who they date brother. It's their lives let them do what they want to do. What gets me and bothers me, is when some one any one uses someone as a safety net. And then tries to tell me that they are not. Look be honest, it's a good way to live. Don't all of a sudden at 30 stop look around and grab the first "nice guy" if all you have dated are tools. It's not right. You dated tools from 15-30, go marry one! So what they don't have a job and are jerks. Nice guys / nice girls are not safety nets. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'll be honest with you, and I know you are not going to believe me.....He's the nicest guy I have ever met! He makes Forest Gump look like the Devil! He is just a great guy. He is now doing for this girl what I did for my x. Which equates to everything. Is he damaged? Tainted? Well he doesn't seem it. From speaking to him he went out with about 4 girls before he met little Ms. Harpoon. Look I really am sorry that you want this little story to be as Hollywood wants it to be that the girl can do no wrong but...from the looks of it. It was premeditated well organized harpooning of a guy who knows no better....for now. But one day he will understand and that will be a sad day. There is a reason why Zeus chained Prometheus to the mountain and had his liver eaten every day for all of eternity. It is at times better to live in the dark not knowing what lies in the corners than to have light brought in and be aware. I will not be his Prometheus. But she will have to live with her self. And thus far she has done it well. all if fair in love and war and I'm very glad I no longer live next to her. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Nothing for nothing, and though I did not need any Physical Therapy for my injuries, I would like to thank all those in the profession for working hard and giving people the chance to keep their wings and to do what makes us smile like little kids. Thanks! You guys and girls ROCK!

Girl I'm sorry no matter how you spin this to make the girl in the story sound as if she was just some girl learning about life and what not...the truth is that the guy was hunted and killed to save her ass. Hell even the girl has admitted to it....after a few drinks. Exact words "I use to date these guys (tools) god it was good, god it was fun, we rode fast cars, we drank, we partied they looked good and were just wild.....I loved it. And well life throws you a curve ball and well, maybe you just have to make the best of a difficult situation." I know you want people to be good and I want the same. I hope for the same but you and I both know people can be very very wrong. And do you want to be called "the best of a difficult situation"? I know I don't. For you know in the middle of the night, when your partner can't sleep....do you think they are thinking of how great you ARE? Or how much fun and exciting things WERE? To the OP, as my Yoga instructor once said. "Shah, you are in your early 30's. Everyone stable enough to be married is and those who were not stable enough are not or are now divorced. Dating in your 30's is like walking from one land mine to another. And well with your two basic rules of no big girls and no moms...it's not going to be an easy ride if you want to date with in your age bracket." Maybe that's the issue? Maybe you need to date younger? Or older? I haven't tried either but I'm giving it strong thought. After all who knows right? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Really? A sports car analogy? Sure! Why not? You ride cars; you ride girls. We get more attention when we're shiny and go fast. Well I was going to go for sport bikes but...not every one rides. Can you think of a better one? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

No mate he didn't get anything. She reached back and found him. She hunted him down! Ever see a Japanese whaling ship stalk and take out a whale? Kind of like that... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Bill, If she showed up without any baggage. The girl was tool food for 7 years, and has a little one in hand....which means the tool is now a part of the picture. OK here is an example, you like sports cars? OK how about I buy one, abuse the crap out of it treat it like dirt......and at 50k miles hand it over to you at a really good price....for me! Would you want that car? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Less hair but the same guy. I'm still who I am. Regardless of the job or education. I am who I am. Case in point, I'm a professional now. A few people never left the little town I grew up in...which I do my best not to visit. But it has happened that when I have visited, girls who would not talk to me due to me being Persian are now very friendly because I'm tipping the bartender and buying drinks for me and my brothers. Well.....why on gods green earth would I give them the time of day? I wasn't good enough for them when I was 14 why am I suddenly good for them now that I'm 34? I'm no ones plan B! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Nah 25 is not middle aged....but 25 been around the block a dozen times walking around with a new born realizing the tools are going for the 21yo girls and well....one can get old rather quick. So she reached back.....WAY BACK......to a guy she would not give the time of day to and made it as if she was doing him a favor......and he fell for it. I'm sure he is happy, he finally "got the girl" but wouldn't it have been better if she has realized that he was a great guy back when he was 18? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

You Americans need to get past this hugging thing. Hug your brothers and sisters. Just no ass grabbing...that's kind of gay....but there is nothing wrong with that. Does any one have Foss's number? I have something for him, a get well gift. But he seems to be out.....soemthing about a hole in the ground... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Hum....the best way to respond to this? I think any of these will do when it comes to "nice guys" + "Da Ladiez" (feel free to get angry, stomp your feet, and at the end go to see your BFF and say how much you really dislike Shah but you just had a dream about how much you wanted him....) http://www.erickagoodwin.com/storage/friendzone%20signs.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1238071242773 http://dating-to-mating.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/mario1.jpg http://pics.ligthert.net/var/albums/Demotivators/friend-zone-demotivational-poster.jpg?m=1273287503 http://blakparent.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/friendzone1.jpg http://pheromones-report.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/7.15.10-Friend-Zone-HT.jpg http://www.thedailyrage.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/03/friend-zone-rage1.gif And that should just about make it as clear as mud! 3-2-1 start your screaming! Because you know I'm right. You know Shah is on the mark! You know Shah should be on a book tour with a tour buss and groupies! You know deep down you want The Shah Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

WE are on page 6 and no one posted this yet? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YZ9V9-WWgE Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

OH WOW! I'm sorry my geek slipped out. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Bill I don't know you, but from what I have read they should have noticed you sooner. Unless she got the house in the divorce and you are just sliding on in, in which case...oh you dirty dog! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Well...there is that thing about being under water and not being able to "sell"....yet. So for now I'm stuck. And yeah it's too much for me but.....such is life. Things will get better life will get better

You know if you put it that way....

So you weren't Plan B. If she had dated this string, was in a bad spot and needed to be saved and these loosers were all gone and she reached out to you...then you would have been Plan B. As it stands, it was just one of those things that didn't work out Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Dude you were not plan B. That was just life doing what it does. Being mean to good people, the girl. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Didn't Morrissey do that once? I'm not at the DZ or at eny place to get laid. I'm there because I love the sport. I love the people.

So are you ok with being Plan B? I don't think I would be. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Just a nice to have. It would be nice if she made more. Nothing wrong with that. But yeah a nice to have. It's funny you guys have this immage of me of only dating Barbies and well I have but....I'm a little more mellow than that.

Bill The argument was, "A mail order wife (as implied as a joke) was not a viable option for me." That is to say me and just me I'm OK. Me + girl who stays at home and looks good...not OK. (two cars, clothes, food, other) Me + girl who has an education and works then life is goood