jumpergirl

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  1. LMAO!! Kelly, just come to Florida... I have much to learn from you.
  2. Ok Keith, now I'm laughing my ass off!!!!!!!!! That was funny!!
  3. I am sitting at my desk.... jaw dropped.... speechless... EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!! Edit for spelling... apparently I can't do that either...
  4. I did google it and I got a ton of popups from gay porn sites . I'm at work! Not a big deal since there is already a ton of porn on my computer from my boss checking his email, but still!!
  5. Yes, this was my reaction to his answer to my honest question:
  6. I know the rules say no personal attacks, but Dan, you're an asshole.
  7. I was just going to say that myself... I'm laughing so hard I'm crying!!!!! Thanks Betsy for posting that!!!
  8. Hmmm... where is the "batting my eyelashes" icon???? I can't seem to find it.
  9. I keep checking this thread to see if this will ever happen. I love the idea and would find it VERY helpful and useful. I really hope there is a way to make it happen for us.
  10. Lots of healing vibes and hugs going your way!!!!!!!
  11. Dammit!! Now you've ruined the surprise!!
  12. You're going to make people talk about us ya know.
  13. Oh Kelly... I made you an offer.
  14. Uhhhhh... good luck. I actually sent that PM before I read this thread!! Call me!!
  15. Well said and ditto!! Someone told me they don't look at what they like, they look at what they don't like and decide if they can live with those things. I think that is one of the smartest things I have ever heard. To me, that's what living together before marriage is about.
  16. Yes, I did assume "test-drive" meant sex. That's the way I have always had it explained to me. I apologize for assuming wrongly. I do agree that living together is definitely a test-drive before marriage - minus the sex. That is what my mom has told me for years. "Test it out." She never said anything to me about testing the sex. Her point was to live together to find out if we could live together. It's much different to see someone occasionally, not every day, or only on the weekends, than to wake up with that same person every day, see them after work, live with them. I agree... I would not buy a car or a canopy or a pair of shoes without testing them. I won't ever get married again without "testing" him.
  17. I agree with you. However, how many people will live together without having sex? I do know some people could do it - live together without sex. But, the majority would not.
  18. Before I got married I didn't think about it. I thought it was what I was supposed to do. I think I thought it was like having a roommate that you had sex with. I can't tell you what I was exactly thinking then. Looking back now I see myself as altered. I must have been on drugs - but I really wasn't! Now I have realized that a marriage is so much more. It's a partnership. A team. A friendship. It takes understanding, compromise, patience. It's more than just love. It's wanting to make it work. Wanting to be together. Wanting to want it. I don't know how else to explain my thoughts. Basically... I was 19 then and I'm 27 now. A lot happens in 8 years.
  19. People say sex isn't everything, and it truly isn't. But... it is a part of being in a relationship with someone... married or not. If it's not good, or not there period, then there could be a problem. Some people don't agree with that, but personally I do. So, I agree with your "simpleness."