Vallerina

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  1. It may not be right, but I don't know of many people who could just sit on their hands if someone they care about is getting hurt. I didn't snoop the first time on purpose. However, when you read subject lines like, "Girls in Buffalo give great head," it's pretty difficult to say, "Well, that's his own business even if he is hurting someone that means a lot to me." Maybe I'm too protective over people I care about, but oh well. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  2. Okay, let me come up with an analogy. Let's say you have a sister you're really close to. One night, you're over at her place, and it's just a common thing for you to use their computer. If her jerk of a husband actually left something up on accident, and you saw it, what would you do? Months ago, that's basically what happened. He was dumb enough to leave his email open. I saw "stuff," but I had no proof, so I just sat and waited. I did not snoop for no good reason. If you are dumb enough to cheat and talk about it in your emails and then leave that email open, and I happen to read something, that's not really snooping. Months ago it was left open, and I had permission to use the computer. They were stupid. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  3. I don't actually believe that, unfortunately. You see rich jerks getting away with crap all their lives and dying happy. #1 You don't know the whole story (which I'm not going to post.) #2 There are a few people that I'm protective over, and if someone hurts them, I will want to hurt them back. I don't think that's uncommon. Parents feel that way about their children quite frequently. #3 I dealt with it in an appropriate manner. The things I wanted to do by instinct, I did not. If this were a friend, I would've sent them an email letting them I know that I knew they were cheating. I may not have been as mean if it were a friend that was cheating, but I would've done the same basic thing. Someone I don't care about is hurting someone I do care about. I'm a naturally vegenful person. Just because I post the things that I want to do doesn't mean I actually will. It's more of a way to vent, I guess. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  4. Wrongway knows the whole story now, so I'm sure his opinions on what I did changed a bit. But, basically, when someone is typing at their computer, and they're two feet away from you, if you accidentally read something that throws up a flag by glancing at their screen, and they leave their email open, that just makes them an idiot. I'm almost sure it's one of those, "He wants to get caught," kind of things. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  5. Emailing them about it....yes, it was the best course of action. Peeing on their toothbrush will be my fun passive-aggressive way of dealing with it as well. Hey...they're a jerk...the least I can do is pee on their toothbrush! Anyways, yeah, letting them know that I know what's going on was the best thing to do all around. I don't want anyone else getting hurt. I got to give them a piece of my mind (one of my favorite past times!) HAHAHA! Why, yes, this is a first. I will gladly buy a case...but I'll probably need to drink the whole thing myself! Well, I'm not telling the other person about it, so somebody has to get revenge on him. It might as well be me. I'm good at it. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  6. I sent an email to the piece of scum (no, it wasn't an anonymous email.) I gave them a piece of my mind (you guys think I'm a jerk in the forums....you should see what I say to people who I can't stand! ) I don't know why I was so nervous about sending it. It was the best thing to do, though, in this situation. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  7. I agree. They gave me reasons to suspect them twice before many months ago. I don't snoop unless there's a reason to! But, months ago, they left their email open, and it gave me reason to suspect. Since then, I haven't actually done anything about it. I don't purposely go through their things. Seth is a computer geek....I'm sure if I really wanted to have snooped, he could've done something long ago and got me into their files and crap. Pretty much, they were chatting in an inappropriate manner with someone while I was about 2 feet away from them. That's just stupid. I don't purposely read things, but it's hard not to just take a glance. It seems like they almost want to get caught for being that obvious around me. I'm definitely not claiming what I did was right, but... If I left the door open, invited you in, and then I started grabbing some guy's crotch, then, yeah, I wouldn't blame you for snooping. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  8. They left it open. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  9. I read the asshole's email. Does that count? Actually, it's better that it's me rather than anyone else. No, that definitely won't happen. They'll still like me if I tell them. Very true. I'm just using you for your mad computer skills! Not everything is black and white. I'm pretty sure that I'm just going to send the cheater a non-anonymous email. This will give me the opportunity to give them a piece of my mind (that's always big fun for me.) I'm not telling the person they're cheating on yet because I know them well enough to know that they won't leave the relationship, and it will just hurt them. It may not be my place to make the cheater's life miserable, but it doesn't mean I can't try! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  10. That actually makes it all worthwhile. They'd get pissed off...waste their time tracking it down....find out it's me....realize what an idiot they are. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  11. Which is why I'm vengeful...they don't really get hurt. I feel it's my duty to hurt them. Yeah, I don't really want to do that. I'm thinking an anonymous email to let them know that I "know." There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  12. No, if I liked the cheater, I wouldn't be as vengeful. And, AD, yes it's a serious relationship. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  13. What do you do when someone you dislike is cheating on someone that you care about? There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  14. Then how are you sure you even understand what God wants? All humans are prone to error. How do you know that every single person that wrote the Bible did so without error? It's been translated from its original language as well. How do you know that original meanings haven't been changed when error-making-humans translated it? I didn't say God did. Puritans definitely used the Bible as a tool to control the masses. Many other groups of people did as well. That's my main problem with it. There's no differentiation between lying to my parents when I was four about eating cookies and lying about something actually important. So, I have sinned just as badly as someone who has stolen a million dollars from a charity because I stole a candy bar from a store when I was 8. Common sense will tell you which one is worse, but they are equal sins. That's just silly. Plus, I never claimed I want to be righteous. I want to be a good person who helps more than I hurt. I wish more Christians would realize that if I'm not doing harm to anyone else, then all of their big signs will never change me. One thing we agree upon! Lack of religion doesn't necessarily make you a worse person either. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  15. I have had 6 bosses in just over a year and a half with the same company. Can anyone beat that? The only way this works to my advantage is that when asked, "Why do you want to leave your current position?" in interviews, I have a great answer to give! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  16. I'm glad billvon quoted this: I started this thread: http://www.dropzone.com/cgi-bin/forum/gforum.cgi?post=719874#719874 Unfortunately, the story is no longer there. CNN seems to be pretty credible, though. I'll try to search for that story. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  17. So, this is just a question that came up when my coworker and I were discussing religion a few days ago. (We have many things we do not understand about religion...especially Christianity.) As human beings we can't even comprehend the physical set up of our very own universe. There is no way that we can really understand what the edge of it is like....just how big it is....where other universes are....what lies between all the universes. Heck, we can't even understand much of what happens in our own world. When we think we finally understand something, other pieces of evidence come back frequently telling us we're wrong. If our minds can't even comprehend what's going on in the physical universe, how are we supposed to comprehend anything beyond that? If there is a god, nobody on this Earth understands them or their purpose. I doubt that if there is a god, they would really care if I lied to my boss about being sick, and I did as much work from home as I would at the office. It's technically a sin, but it doesn't hurt anybody, and I would actually hurt the planet less by not going into work. If there really is a god, I doubt they would care about all the stupid, petty stuff that humans are way too involved in. Many religions seem to get that....that god is not really "human like" and does not care about what parts go in what holes. In the grand scheme of things, it just doesn't matter. Also, what seems to be more of a Christian thing is the refusal to accept other beliefs and question their own. The Bible seems to be a great tool for getting people to not think for themselves. I am not religious. I am a good person, however. I don't lie. I don't steal. I don't kill people. I volunteer my time to help others. I donate money to charities. I don't try to hurt people. I do all of that without religion. Also, if religion really makes someone a "better" person, wouldn't they be helping others more instead of protesting stuff all of the time? Building houses for the poor seems like a better way to improve the world rather than protesting what people do in their bedrooms (and hopefully out of their bedrooms, too, so they can have some real fun!!!) There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  18. Oh...Don...I'll pay up on our bet then! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  19. HECK YEAH!!!!! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  20. Yes! That's what I'm talkin' about! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  21. No point really. It's just an observation. I like the song "I'll Be Watching You," but I don't want someone to try to serenade me with the line, "Can't you see....you belong to me!" It's just kinda funny that people will take something that's insane and make it seem romantic. I'm sure I've done the same a time or two...it's just funny. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  22. When he has sex with her in the moon walk, and she thinks it's her boyfriend. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  23. Nope, I sure wasn't. That's probably for the best. I wouldn't have wanted Jody to have gotten hit by it! Yup! I would never sit and watch a baseball game on tv at home or anything like that. Soccer = mucho fun. I should've gone to Barcelona during soccer season. I can only go to night games because of work, and I don't really want to go to a Sox game at night! There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  24. At one time there was a fad of playing, "I'll Be Watching You," at weddings. Playing a song about an obsessive stalker at a wedding just seems kind of odd. In "Revenge of the Nerds," one of the nerds rapes a girl, and people are rooting for him to win her over. Then, the girl that he raped actually falls in love with him. They continued to make numerous movies with him as a "hero" in a sense. I'm still not sure if the Pina Colada song is supposed to be romantic, but that's always disturbed me. Two people are unhappy with each other, and neither one of them are honest enough to talk about it with one another. There are so many things that when you think about it, it's actually disturbing. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning
  25. I don't either. That would be stupid. I generally avoid paying for things that I hate. There's a big difference between hating something and just not having it as a major hobby. It's also "history." My grandpa did the exact same thing 50 years ago that I did last night. He'd frequently go to a Cubs game, drink some beers, and watch the game. My dad would ride his bike all the time to go sit in the bleachers. My brother is going to take my nephew to games this summer. That's what I love about Wrigley Field. It isn't just about baseball. There's more to it than that. There's a thin line between Saturday night and Sunday morning