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Bullshit. Just 'coz you're a nice guy doesn't mean you can't sweep a woman off her feet. If, by nice guy, you mean spineless, then yeah, fine. That's not usually an attractive character trait. Most nice guys -are- spineless. props to you for not being of those. I actually had a girl tell me she was glad I let her pay for herself on the first date, because most guys wouldn't. I'm not cheap, I don't mind paying, but I also don't want her expecting me to pay every time we go out. i have expensive hobbies, i don't want or need a high-maintenance woman. Yeah, open doors to the restaurant; but you're both going in together. Don't walk around the car to open her passenger door unless you're going to throw her against the door and start making out with her. --Don't go out of your way to comfort her.-- Pay compliments, but don't bow down to her. (IE: don't say, oh, you're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen in my life) because now you've made yourself lesser than her. (oh yeah, these "you"s aren't directed towards you, I'm just sayin stuff...) i see too many guys that will do anything for the girl they like, and they get dragged on and on and on and on. i was like that too. be nice, but see her as your pweer, not someone you only wish you could have .... This ad space for sale.

I agree with you post almost entirely, but that has nothing to do with what I'm saying. The thing is *most guys* when they get a date with a hot woman, don't want to lose her, and try hard to get her, which means they'll do pretty much whatever she wants. What myself and gmittar are saying, is STOP DOING THAT! If you simply show her a good time, without needing her, she will come -back-. She will call you, she will make the first moves on you, she will want you. The thing is, if you are worried about losing, you need to know what not to do, and that's what we're saying: Stop doing shit for her because she doesn't like that! It's not about following rules, or playing games, just be a man, and stop bowing down to her just because you like her. As someone else on this board said, remember, no matter how hot, smart, funny, and cool she is, there is some guy out there who is sick of her shit. any girl is just another person like the rest of us, treat her as such, not somebody better than you. ---- I got a question; how many of your best boyfriends opened your car door for you all the time? This ad space for sale.

Look, we're not attacking your intelligence. We're not even blaming you (or the female population) for it. It's the psychology behind attraction. You don't know what you want. --- Generally speaking, there's two types of guys: Assholes and nice guys. Assholes get the girls, while the nice guys get to hang out with them. That's because girls are attracted to Self-confidence, and while they might not actually like the Asshole, they are subconsciously attracted to him because he is sure of himself. The nice guys, on the other hand, will do anything for the girl. (Open car doors, bring flowers, etc.) He bows down to her and she loses attraction for him. When a girl says she wants to treated like a queen, she speaks the truth. What guys don't realize, is that he is supposed to be the king, not the peasant. This ad space for sale.

hey shouldn't you be taking over the world or something? what are you doing watching 24? This ad space for sale.

I'm glad there's somebody else here who knows what they're talking about. "Nice guys" think they need to do everything they can for the woman they like. Hot women have all the men they want doing whatever they ask. They are not attracted to that. Do what makes you feel good, then she will come. this does not mean be an asshole, although sometimes that is an easier way to learn what to do right. This ad space for sale.

Here is your problem bud. I'm sorry, but guys that girls describe as NICE almost never get described by them as anything else. And their friends are nice. You can be nice, just don't make it your defining trait. Most nice guys lack confidence and that is what women are looking for, wether they admit it or not. Don't be a prick, but don't be nice either. It may sound counter intuitive, but if being nice hasn't worked so far, you may think about changing it. second that completely. you can be nice, but being "nice" doesn't mean you have to do what she wants to. that's being a "bitch", not being "nice". If she says she'll call you on Friday night after she's done doing whatever she is, she's not really interested, but she's holding you as a second option if she has nothing better to do. Don't accept it. Tell her to decide now as you're about to mnake other plans. If she does call you Friday night at 9:00 to see what you're doing, say you're busy, regardless of what you're actually doing. She can come out if she wants, but you've got plans. Don't sit there waiting for her to tell you what to do. Men don't let women run their lives, and women don't want nice guys, they want men, who can also be nice. Ask yourself, what would James Bond do?, and then do that. This ad space for sale.

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Hendrix on my bike. Cafe Del Mar on my computer at home. I can't listen to music at work. This ad space for sale.

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I don't think he was complaining about his kid listening to older music ... hell, a lot of kids listen to the doors and hendrix and pink floyd .... but it's the bee gees.... johnny cash is cool though. ... and i'm 23... This ad space for sale.

I'm 21 and listen to Johhny Cash and Marty Robbins on a regular basis... What's wrong with Johnny Cash? You can't compare him to the BGs. This ad space for sale.

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alright, everybody thanks for the info ... that's what i needed to know ... and yeah, i'm working on flat turns and accuracy every jump .... i'll hold off anything more until i get a newer canopy ... This ad space for sale.

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I'm gonna start practicing higher-performancee landings sometime soon and got a few questions. first of all, i'm not downsizing, have no intention of intention to downsize any time soon (i'm jumping a Conquest 170 loaded at .9-1.0 and I like walking so I'll hold on to this for a while (or at least this size if I get a new canopy)) I'm reading Germain's book, and I will get some more coaching done in the future (I took Miller's basic course a little while ago.) anyways, I know i'm not supposed to do front riser turns on my canopy. so i'm gonna come in with just front riser input, let go and flare. now where to start, i'm reading numbers saying start from 100 to 300 ft, and i think i should just go until just before its time to flare and then let go of the risers and flare? also, how do begin to learn where 50 or 100 feet is? My depth perception isn't top of the notch, and I don't have digital alti to compare anything to. Is the best way to just start high and slowly bringing it lower and lower until I've picked the right spot? thanks ... This ad space for sale.

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Hell, that's the ticket. (no pun intended) I don't even need to buy a return ticket that way. For everybody saying watch out for credit card debt yada yada ... i know the drill, my parents have been in debt for the past couple years, trying to just pay off the interest, but my limit is three grand, i can pay that off that in a heartbeat. hell, i could sell my rig and be done with more than half of it. besides i plan on living cheap and working at hostels and crap for room and board ... i just want to this before i'm "that crusty old guy" at the hostel.. This ad space for sale.