peacefuljeffrey

I think I'm going to be sick. You're going to be sick because I can accept a girl, even be turned on by a girl, just the way she is? And not reject her because she's not Brazilian-waxed and primped and preened to the Nth degree? Maybe it's my turn to be sick? -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

What I remember Mutley from is the cartoon "Stop the Pigeon." Wasn't that about a bunch of pilots and stuff who were at war and constantly trying to catch or destroy this messenger pigeon? What I vaguely remember is that they always had these crazy devices mounted on their planes for the attempt... I loved the show, but I have to say the last time I saw it, I was probably six years old. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

H.F.S.!!!! A few hours ago, I was thinking about responding with "Mango Chutney"!!! That's weird! Am I psychic and put the idea into your head? Or are you psychic and heard my thinking it? -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

You're thinking of the online me. You don't know the actual me. I guess I don't know you, either. How about we both don't take each other's posts seriously? Nyah nyah, I'm laughing at you! -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

Yes it is. BTW, great post....you gave some good insight, and now I have more to think about. Thanks

Don't let it bug you. Life continues to go on even when you don't have a given answer you were hoping to work out. If you don't manage to come to understand all the mysteries you have found about "soulmates" today, there will still be a tomorrow, and a new day in which you might figure out more. I think the difference between kindred spirits and soulmates is that soulmates find what they want in each other, and kindred spirits are just both looking for the same thing. That doesn't mean that kindred spirits provide for each other what they are looking for. You know how they say if you're trying real hard to remember something, the trick is to NOT try hard, but to forget you were even thinking about it, and then some time later it will magically just come to you? I think that kind of relaxation about it is what you need to do with searching for your "soulmate" answers. Don't feel alone. I'm wondering and waiting to see if I'll ever find one, myself. Hell, I wonder even if I'm ever gonna find a girlfriend again. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

I know what you're saying, and it happens to me a lot. I feel a little self-conscious about it if I have like 3 or 4 posts in a row, but hey, it happens when I'm the only one posting at 3 or 4 in the morning due to the hours I keep. I sure hope you're not as uptight and "buggy" as you're letting on. People who get bugged about every little thing, instead of cruisin' through life a little more relaxed... they bug me. I guess what I'm sayin' is... "lighten up, Francis." -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

I don't have a significant other at this time, but I have (had) no problem with whatever hair is there. The person under the hair (whatever degree of it there is) is what is important to me. If she's shaved, I'm fine If she's stubbly, I'm fine. If she's hairy, I'm fine. One girl I was with does not shave her pits or her legs, and she has quite a hairy bush that extends even "around back" a little. She's kind of a hippie-ish girl. She's not even classically pretty, but there is something wildly attractive about her. I think it's the way she is feral and beautiful about her naturalness that it gets me aroused just thinking about sinking my face into her... So no, just because a girl is hairy and natural, doesn't mean all guys are turned off by it. Some of them, sure; maybe even the majority. But not all. I wish I could let all women know that they are not rejection-worthy just because it's been a couple of days since they shaved their legs. I remember being kinda turned on by my college girlfriend's legs when there was a bit of blonde stubble on them. Textures are fascinating. Plainness is kinda boring. It's not like the stubble hurt or something. I grooved on it, a bit. Sure, her legs were nice to touch when they were clean-shaven -- and it helped that she had gorgeous legs but still, I think people need to soften up about what they "can't stand" and stuff. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

It's not a question of hair, it's being who you are. I'll be honest, my opinion of men who radically try to alter who they are is that they are insecure boys, unsure of who they are and doing the dance for acceptance. If they adopt a physical appearance to win a woman's favor, I suspect they would speak and behave in a similar manner. Why some women find that appealing is beyond me. I want a real man who is sincere and honest in who he is. Good hygiene and grooming are all I expect. If I want more, Ill get a poodle. Jen You sound like a down-to-earth dream. Didn't we meet in the soulmates thread? If we didn't, we should have! -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

When I was 18, I thought I was blessed: I had enough hair on my arms and chest to look "masculine," and I could grow a beard that looked respectable (and did). When I was several years out of college, guess what happened. Some eastern European genes caught up with me and suddenly I sprouted hair on my shoulders, right on the trapezius. Oh well. I shave it down with an electric clipper, which means it is short but not gone. I don't like it, but it is important to accept yourself the way you are, not wish to be someone or some way else. Are we not losing sight of the fact that people can fall in love with someone who is not their perfect physical ideal? I have fallen for girls with crooked teeth; girls with funny shaped ears; girls with non-perfect noses... Maybe I'm looking deeper. I guess what I am saying is that YES, I have shoulder and back hair, but I hope to God that any girl who likes me and who I am enough to consider dating me would not be so put off by my body hair that she is blind to the fact that I am loving, kind, considerate, thoughtful, interesting, generous... etc. etc. Isn't falling in love at least partially about accepting the fact that our lover is not going to be perfect in every way? Blue skies, -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

Marry me. Me and my hair will do everything to make you happy!

GOD am I reassured to see that at least the "bear" category is not at 0%!!!! Some of us would like to be smooth, but God didn't make us that way... -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

Just for once, I'm gonna keep my mouth shut, on this subject. The ones who I think are hot already know I think they're hot, I think. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

That's too bad... I go "free as a bird." Gotta be ready to "take off" at a moment's notice! Besides, I hate the feeling of seams and stuff bunching up underneath my outer clothes. I gave up underwear when I moved NY to FL. Too freakin' hot to bother with 'em! Blue skies, -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

Actually, that's the best answer so far.

But caramel would be very sticky and require a lot of licking. Oh, shucks. Then I'd just have to have my secretary cancel the rest of my appointments. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

I would like to say Nutella, but I'm afraid of what that would look like smeared on a body. (I'm thinkin' Tawana Brawley ) I'd have to then go with some kind of berry jam. Mmmmmm!

My favorite is the portrayal of the Pope by Dom DeLuise in "Johnny Dangerously". Johnny slaps some cash on him and says, "Heya,Pope! Here, buy yourself a new gymnasium for the Vatican!" The Pope keeps his hand out and holds out for more cash! -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

I second that request!!! B~ I'm upping the ante: I want a picture of her AND VanillaSkyGirl on the bike together. Clothing strongly discouraged! -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

!!! NO FUCKING [I]WAY!![/I] OMG THAT THING IS BEAUTIFUL! Be careful, Chelle... Ride smart to ride long. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

LMFAO!!!! -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

Dude, that was a good one! Way to bring it 'round to the gun-thing... Good pun! -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

I knew you'd get the first post on this one! Congratulations! And happy birthday Kevin!!

Nope? That about covers it. And I completely agree. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"

I think you meant "FROM," not "for." You are comparing bad apples in the Hell's Angels with bad apples who may be around skydiving. Skydivers congregate because of skydiving. Hell's Angels do not congregate because they like motorcycles. There are non-criminal-enterprise motorcycle clubs for that, and you and we all know it. It's time to call a spade a spade. And when skydiving news gets "twisted around," it's usually in the form of a journalistic screwup like "the parachute didn't open" or some b.s. It's pretty hard to make a non-murderer out to mistakenly look like a murderer in a news story. -Jeffrey -Jeffrey "With tha thoughts of a militant mind... Hard line, hard line after hard line!"