My good friend , I had a situation like yours no too long ago, and this is what I think! , I don't live my life trying to hurt or harm anybody, I'm a honest person , truly a good friend , I help others without expecting anything back! in overall ,A good person,not perfect!!!!!!but a good one, and that is what I expect people to judge me by, just becuse your not a christian doesn't mean yor are not a good person, so just be yourself!!!!!!!! and if you friend can't deal with it , than she or he is not your friend ________________________________________