Personally, I think you've got it right! Those people that say that being single must make you lonely are wrong. They say it's wrong because they don't know any better and it scares them. I was with the same man for over ten years and hated going home so much that I became a workaholic and went back to school at night and on the weekends, just so I wouldn't have to be at home. I was miserable, but comfortable. I spent 10 years with someone I wasn't emotionally or physically close with. I never really realized how lonely I actually was until I left. My family can't comprehend why I'm less lonely being alone and single, but its because that's not the way they choose to live. I think that waiting until you find someone that you truly want to be with is the right idea, rather than settling and living lie (some cheat). I learned a little late, but life is too short to be so miserable. Just remember everyone has faults and every relationship has it's down moments. You have to compromise and no one is "perfect". Good luck!