The answer to all of the above is my A License coach.
So I may not have been clear with my original question. Which is basically, am I okay sticking with my coach for opinions such as downsizing ect. or should I be seeking the advice of the AFFI's
My question stemmed from reading posts on this board where others always seem to be talking about their AFFI as the person they go to for these types of things rather than a coach.
I feel that my coach had the best idea of what kind of jumper/canopy pilot I am and the most time to give me to discuss these things. I always try get my answers from multiple sources when I can but when the question relates specifically to me and my abilities I'd rather be getting that info from somebody who knows me.