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You know that's the thing isn't it? Mr. or Ms. Right is not about how much they turn you on physically but also mentally. Not easy! Not common! Not going to happen to everyone Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Preferably with it still on her head right? That would be very kinky! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

"Thanks" for pointing out one more thing to get offended about - I had missed this one, as at some point I started skipping over this individual's posts. I happen to be from Eastern Europe ... nobody "bought" me and I worked my ass off to get where I am ... I do pretty well for myself. O For some guys....that's the answer to the question of "Where is Ms. Right." Not my thing, but you can't fault them. They may be very shy but well off and instead of risking their ego they are more willing to risk their money. And I know two guys who did this and well one is very happy and the other has done a 180. For a guy who had a hard time standing up and saying hi now he is fully capable of giving sales pitches. Is it for everyone? No. Should you be offended? As a woman i can see where you are coming from. For these two guys "cheated" they stopped playing the game. The game you have no choice but to play with hopes that one day you find Mr. Right. And I wold go for (B). Simple, business majors with an MBA make more money than engineers. And I have no problem being married to a woman who makes more money than me. But that's me. My thoughts my view of things. Odds are they will not be yours. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Dig the ladies with the fun hats. Not only are they cute but that hat can be used to dust the condo.

Shame. I'm sure he was a very nice guy. But such is life. We don't know what we have till it's gone. And so link me into where you were offended? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

So if you were to bump into Mr. Right while you were in the military would you have seen him? Noticed he existed? As for the engineering girls, it was a case of here is girl (A) Engineer wearing ok clothes, baggy shirt and baggy pants and flats. And here is girl (B) Works for a large bank wearing a skirt and high heels and hair in check. Who would the guys talk to? Well I can tell you, they talked to girl (B). Evolution, it's a bitch. Engineering girl went from getting all the attention to next to nothing. Thus the question which I asked you. Where would she notice Mr. Right? In the office or at some meeting where she got all the attention in the world......or at the bar? Where she got next to nothing? Maybe you bumped into Mr. Right when you were in the military. Maybe he did say hi. Maybe he did extend you a good bit of hospitality. But.....you just didn't notice it. And now you are looking for what was there all the time but you missed out. Because you were dealing with too much noise. Which was my initial point before the thread hijack. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Look man I'm not some sort of sadistic SOB. I get screamed at because of my dating preferences in other threads why should I say shit here? Hell I could say, "It would be nice if she were here legally and had two legs and two arms." And one of these Prima donnas would shit a pineapple and accuse me of all kinds of fun stuff. No thanks! Good luck have fun! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Actually it has been ok. I would say I've been single for a little over 8 months and I've dated 4 different girls thus far. The one I liked the most....and who was just amazing....sadly....it was not going to work. She lived in NYC and I live an hour and a half away. And sadly we could only see each other on the week ends and since I go to school every saturday it just became too much after about a month and a half. Shame too. Becasue she was not only beautiful on the outside but also on the inside. And she liked spone bob as much as i do :-) So yeah it works but.....geography and funding have been my issues thus far. I hope things get better. And I'm sure they will. After all it may be great to find Mr. or Ms. Right but they have to live close enough for you to really get to know them. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

How many men really know anything about women's clothing sizes? I don't. I know what I like when I see it, but I wouldn't even bother trying to guess a dress size. Size medium. Sizes are not standard in the US. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Simple. 1) those with an education on average tend to be professionals and have regular schedules and thus have weekends off and can go on vacations. 2) I'm not paying for anyones education every again. My x wife was going to school at night. I covered the bills as well as keept the house clean and life inorder. I did it because I loved her and thought the world of her. But it was a very stressful situation. Also she worked at a bank and would work 6 days a week. Thus we could never enjoy any time together or go on any vacations. Which over time became a serious issue. Thus; size 8 (medidum) and under, for that's what turns me on. And an education so that we can hopefuly spend time together. If you find fault with this, I'm sorry that's your problem not mine. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Love isn't blind. It never is, never will be and never has been. If it was you wouldn't have eyes. The only time love is truly blind, is if the poor guy is a cube jockey for a decade or more and become some sort of lab rat due to lack of human contact and thus no longer remembers what his "mate choice" is and is just happy not to be alone. And that hardly qualifies as love, that's just settling. Looks matter, always have, always will. It's a basic part of evolution. And no matter how smart we get or how smart we think we are, the selection of our mate starts off with the selection of key physical characteristics for they are indicators of health and vitality. And each of us looks at a potential mate differently. Some guys like more "robust" women, others like more "petite" women. Some women like tall guys, others like shorter guys. This "like" is a built into our very evolutionary drive. Yes it would be great if the personality of the person you are attracted to is also a match to what you are looking for. But the key the spark that gets it all going. The catalyst that drives any animal to make first contact. Looks. I'm sorry but under these clothes and this thing we call civilization we are just animals. If you don't like it, I’m sorry. Life is harsh this way. Blame eons of evolution don't blame me or anyone else. Infact, why not start your own dating web page that is 100% free of any photos. And people choose who they wish to talk to based on what they have written. Good luck with that. Human sexuality and mating is a very complex issue driven by very primitive instincts clouded by a very modern society. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Do canopies work in the rain? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Go find the post. I may not understand why any one dates any one but in the end they have to be happy with who they are with. And not just settle, and that bothers me a little. After all we are talking about Mr. Right and not Mr. Ah well he's ok. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

No she didn't and neither did you. Now who died and gave either of you the right to dictate who I or anyone else should find attractive or not? No one? Good. Like I said, some guys like skinny girls some girls like tall guys. It is what it is. And thus a part of finding Mr. Right. or in my case one day Ms. Right. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

So, what has that have to do with me? Good for you! Wonderful! GREAT! So what does that have to do with my preferences for what I want in a life partner? (for more read previous post) And if you don't like that some people like skinny girls and others like more "thick" girls then I'm sorry that's your problem not mine. Maybe that could be the key to finding Mr. Right? Comming to terms that you really shouldn't dictate who others should and should not like. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'm very sorry to hear about your good friend being ill. Nothing worse than loosing some one so close. Best wishes and big hugs! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Because you can't believe that any guy would like a girl who wears a size larger than an 8. Let me tell you, that's total bullshit. I've been larger than a size 8 for most of my adult life and I've never had trouble getting attention from men. So, what has that have to do with me? Good for you! Wonderful! GREAT! So what does that have to do with my preferences for what I want in a life partner? You keep confusing ME with ANY GUY. I don’t care what any other guy wants or what any other girl wants. I only care about what I want. And if what I want is a problem for you, then I'm sorry please but out of my life. You are not welcome to partake in my decision making process. I like girls who have a minimum of a 4 years of college education and who are size 8 or under. If you don’t like it so what? You have plenty of guys hitting on you. What does my preferences have to do with you? Or anyone else. As for my observations, they were just that. These girls showed up to a bar wearing a polo shirt and baggy pants. Which works great for the office they are in. But they were competing with women who were better dressed and who looked more put together and thus received more attention than the engineering girls. In the office these engineering girls were/are the bees knees but when put in the outside world the numbers changed and thus they weren't a hot commodity. And thus a prime example of "is it harder for a cute girl to find Mr. Right?" well in the office, these girls are "cute" with respect to what else is walking around. And as expected...or noted here they do have a hard time finding "Mr. Right" in the office. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

You know how some girls don't like dating guys who are under say 5'10" well some of us guys don't want to date girls who are more than a given size. Now is it my fault I'm not 5'10" No. Do I get upset when a girl says "I'm sorry I don't date short guys."? No. so what is your problem? What gives? I can't have a preference as to who I wish to spend my life with? And what gives you the right to criticize my preference for a petite girl? I don't have a right to criticize your preferences in terms of what type of guys you are interested in, so what gives you the right to criticize mine. Stop breathe and come back with a well thought out rebuttal. Otherwise live with the fact that some guys like petite girls and others like bigger girls. Just like some girls like taller guys and others shorter guys. I have and I suggest you do the same. Thank you. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Probably better than your search for Miss Right. Well for me it's not going well at all that's for sure. But it's due to work and school eating up so much of my time and well funds....I now have to pay all of the bills. And in NJ, it's expensive. At $100k Im the working poor. But from the few times I've had the money to go out to happy hour with my work friends it has been interesting. The engineering girls come in riding the wave from work but then hit the wall of reality and then the drinking begins. Like I said when you are 1-100 you are a hot comodity and get hit on non stop. But when you are "just that poorly dressed ho hum girl" in a bar with say a dozen welld ressred professionals...you are not a hot comodity an thus you will get less attention. These girls go from being the hot girl to the not so hot girl rather quickly. I'm sure that can't be good for any ones view of themselves or the world. But the funny bit I've noticed. They all seem to think that they will find Mr. Right outside of work. Which is a real shame because...a number of the guys they work with and who are nice to them.....are really nice guys and who would make for a great life partner. But none of these girls ever notice them. Too much static? Who knows. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Welcome to our world. Any guy want to touch this one ? Yeah girls, you know how some times you accuse us guys of being blind and not seeing obvious signals? Well you girls are no better at reading our signals. I know this one engineering chick I know, smart girl...and actually a size 8, was dating this guy while friends with Mr. Right. She was super friends with Mr. Right and then went off and married the guy she was dating.......yeah! 5 years later she is divorcing Mr. Wrong wondering where Mr. Right is or was. Well sadly Mr. Right became a broken man after trying for so long and finally married the bitchiest woman I have ever seen. They both loose. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

engineering girls....eeeeeeeewwwww!!! Why would I want to date them let alone be friends with them! I only date girls who are a size 8 or under, for the same reason why some girls only date taller guys, and less than 10% of the girls here in our engineerign office come close to that size 8 mark. But that beign said. These girls do get a good bit of attention from the varous nerds but after work....I don't think they get any sort of attention when they go out. So they are both the hot chick and the ugly chick at the same time. I wonder how their search for Mr. Right is going? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

OK well my posts were of the macro level. But today in Yoga class I was talking to my instructor regarding the "Rubinesque" engineering girls in my facility and my fear of lowering my standards for Ms. Right. Most non engineers don't really get "it". And by 'it" i'm referring to the disparity in the number of male engineers vs female engineers. Where I went to university it was a solid 50-1 when it came to guys and girls. Now at work it's....a little over 100-1. Now these are OKish girls. In your average bar these girls due to personality and shape would not get any attention. BUT in engineering schools and engineering offices these girls are treated like gold and hit on non stop. So how does this work? Where will one of these girls find Mr. Right? On one hand from 7am-6pm they are receiving all kinds of attention from all kinds of guys.......maybe one is Mr. Right? But at 6pm at the local bar.....well she is a big fish swimming in a sea of sharks.....will Mr. Right have a better chance there? Static vs. Signal? As for being aggressive and getting shot down? Ladies don't like it? Well that's every day for your average joe. Getting shot down 4-5 times at any given nigh is just the way things go. Getting shot down non stop for a month straight? Not unusual. What you are experiencing is just how we guys live every day. And thus why some guys say "screw this" and pull away from society totally or if they have the cash (about $5k) they buy love from Eastern Europe. My suggestion? Use the pick up line that has always worked for me. "Hi I'm XYZ, how are you?" Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Probably because I'm in the UK... That sucks! I watched it at my desk during my lunch. It was very interesting. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

The link posted here worked for me. It didn't work for you? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I read it as, "I'm not affraid of asking guys out....." and i took that as, yeah I do it....after he has said hi. But yeah, as my grandmother use to say "God gave you eyes didn't he?" So yeah guys are more likely going to talk to a good looking girl than one who doesn't fit the cookie cutter immage of good looking. And you girls are more likely going to talk to the taller guy regardless of how close to Mr. Right he may be. Like I said, don't dig too deep. Better to not know and to be amazed in the end then to know and feel as if it's all a game that has gone bad. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!