I am not, nor have i ever been married. I had a girlfriend when i started skydiving.( we both did tandems on the same day) I was hooked and she had absolutely no desire to ever do it again. Over time she grew to hate the dz because i spent so much time there that i could (read that SHOULD) be spending with her. After about a year and a half i took the advice of my ever wise DZO and i cut away! Ditto on whoever quoted "Heat" never keep anything in your life that you can't walk away from in 30 seconds or less. I still live by that.
Never look down on someone, unless they are going down on you.