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He. He. I like it when Krisanne calls you a pussy. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I don't get it?

I like you. A simple, safe, harmless way to control pests. Being that I have to pee ALL the time and have thus pee'd in numerous less than ideal locations, I would have NO problem peeing around my fence. I actually prefer peeing outside to a porto-let anyday!

Those eyes could be mine if they were a little greener and w/out all the crap smudged around them. I'm SO over the smokey eye fad... Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

You're just figuring that out? Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I'm so torn.. b/w and He. He. That's a funny story... But, you killed harmless creatures... But the disco thing was funny... I'm fine with rats. Until recently, though, I'd never actually seen one in the wild. The only ones I've seen are at the Horror shows with the woman who has all her pet rats crawling all over her--doesn't seem like a big deal. Nothing scary there. But, the bagel shop I go to for breakfast every morning has a couple palm trees in their outside eating area. We go through the drive-though and pull around and watch---the rats climb up and down the palm tree when no-one is looking---as soon as someone walks out with our bagels, the rats dissappear. They're kinda cute, actually. I don't buy products tested on rats or any other animal for that matter.

That's the problem I have. B/c a spouse, a love, becomes incapacitated one would potentially feel conflict between love & fidelity? That is absolutely saying sex is valued higher than love if one is in a committed relationship and would have conflict in this situation due to the circumstances. I wouldn't condemn them, either. As I previously mentioned, to each their own. But, what are you saying is "devoted except for this one thing..." I disagree with there being exceptions, even in your given situation example. I wouldn't presume to know the order of your values and how much worth you give to each. I just said it certainly sounds as though you value sex higher than love. Of course sex and love CAN be separate and often are---far more often than not. I happen to believe it's a beautiful, far more enjoyable thing when they go hand-in-hand in a relationship. And b/c I've shared that with Billy, if God forbid he became disabled, incapacitated, or otherwise, imo it would absoltuely be a betrayal to him if I then deemed it OK to have sex outside the marriage. It makes no sense to me why it would then become OK. If it then becomes OK it's saying that sex is a requirement by both parties to fulfill in a marriage. And it just isn't. In the situation you described, it sounds more to me the person still loves their disabled partner very much, but is no longer in love with that person. It happens. And whether the disabled person admits it or not, it would hurt anyone, in any situation, if they were in love with someone to know that person was being sexually pleasured by someone else. The idea of me ever hurting Billy in any way makes me sick to my stomach. Even if I wanted to do it, I would not/could not do so. And for what? I know there is no one who has, or will love me more than Billy loves me. I would never risk loosing that and I would never take advantage of knowing that. It's cheap to me to think there is a situation in which one would say "Oh, well in that case. I can see how it'd be OK". To each their own. I have friends that do things I don't agree with all the time and vice versa. They're still my friends and I still love them.

Walt, Walt Walt. You really sound as if you value sex more than love. I would rather never betray my love and live w/out sex than the opposite. Love is a far different (and imo, far better) thing than sex. I LOVE sex. But, I would never trade love for it. Never. And I don't think I would enjoy it as much w/out being in love. Even if my man went paralyzed from the neck down and had no muscular function there anymore, I'd still have his love, and that's SO much for valuable to me.

I like you. To each their own--I would agree for myself, with what you said, but it's only fair to hold myself to my morals/beliefs and not others.

There's always a hypothetical, isn't there? I don't think I would do that---Afterall, as horny as I was/am I stayed a virgin until I was 20 years old (and met Billy). Do NOT underestimate the power & satisfaction of self-pleasure, Walt. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

We've been together 6 years--still madly in love, best friends, great team. I'll check back in, in another 40 years and keep you posted. I know we'll still be together. Neither of is going anywhere the other isn't going. I don't know how to describe how I know that--just do, without a doubt.

I don't. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Medium rare & mix soy & wasabi for me, too. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I don't get it. My shit smells like roses.

Cheese & apples together are yummy, though. Peanut Butter and apples, too. Cheese & peanut butter are salty, but it's different than putting salt directly on the apple. And that's my story...

Ruth's Chris is the only place I'll eat steak (filet)--b/c it's just too good to say no. And I always use soy/wasabi on my sushi (We go once or twice /week). I LOVE salt and salty foods. But, again, salt on fruit??? Ya'll are nuts! Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

Of course I salt my tomatoes---it's the exception to the rule---there's always one exception. But, your exception is not allowed to be cantaloupe. It's just wrong. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I support/go against rules & laws as they suit me. B/c of what you said is why I have no issues with the seat-belt law.

It is a southern thing and my entire family puts salt on their watermelon and canteloupe, too. Ya'll are nuts. And yes, fresh ground black pepper actually brings out the flavor in strawberries---ask any Chef. Of course, I'm FAR from a chef---but I eat a lot of great food. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I don't know about tradition, but people who put salt on their fruit annoy me. But, pepper on strawberries is OK. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I love all ya'll for adopting. Love. Love. Love!

Cruzer was about 8 or 9 months when we adopted him and he didn't know any commands either. I was SHOCKED at how quickly he picked things up. Dogs that are rescued know they were rescued, if you ask me, and want to please even more. He only had four accidents in the house before he understood he is supposed to potty outside. And all we said was a stern "No" when we'd catch him having an accident in the house--we don't use negative reinforcement. Instead, we'd just take him out mid-accident and then when he finished outside told him he was a good boy and gave him a treat. We took him outside really often, at first, and always gave him treats for going outside. But, he knows: Sit. Stay. Come. Lay Down. High Five. Sit pretty. Load up (into the car). and of course, No. Ha! He learned most of those w/in the first month. You'll be surprised. I'm so exctied for you!

I'm an animal person. We have cats & dog. And there's always more to come... Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.

I loved the hurricanes... until I became a coastal home owner. Boarding windows and then living in your boarded up cage is NO fun (I'm going to be investing in Winguard soon.) And seeing shingles fly off your roof onto your lawn is NO fun. And having to re-do your landscaping and see debris everywhere is NO fun. Fortunately my area has not had a direct hit since I purchased the house almost 4 years ago. We have hurricane-force winds, though---made the most of it and had fun. And I still wouldn't trade Florida for any other state. I loves my pennisula. Paint me in a corner, but my color comes back.