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Speechless... totally speechless...

I have thought about it, not doing it personally... can we say HELL NO... but me and some friends while stumbling around Juarez Mexico 11 years ago, walked into a club, not knowing what kind and it was a Donkey show... need I say more? Other than BULLSHIT!!!!! I would turn les before I ever did that for any amount of money.....

ROFLMAO...

Congrats!!!

I need some useless trivia facts for my company Christmas Party that I am planning... I know there are a ton of people here that know a ton of useless crap... so ya'll help me out...MMMMKKKK btw, it needs to be kept clean, I work for a church....

I wouldnt want to be his number one. Ever placed on a pedestal you will get knocked off eventually Ive never done this, Id just call myself Takes two people to have a bitter breakup ... and walking back in her life, well she let him walk back in ummmm personally if I knew something was going to be bad Id not let it happen ... esp when its concerning a man A women could refuse to put up with that, plus wanting to be a friend and loving and missing a person does all correlate. I have many friends I love and miss. I also love and miss my ex husband who happens to be my friend, and who I happen to be close friends with his current wife. Everyone does Staying with someone because they may change is a poor reason... Oh this is a highschool boyfriend girlfriend type thing? saying and hearing I love you are not the same as being and giving love, sometimes they go together sometimes not. Its easy to say I love you, its much harder to mean it Whos fault is that then? The liar for lying or the reciever because they changed the way they think to compensate for what they knew to be and what they wish it to be? I had alot more responses but the more I quoted the more cynical I got and thats just not what I want to spend my day feeling. It takes two to screw up a relationship in almost all cases. It only takes one to be the bigger person and move on. If you look at the world with negative feelings or fear then you will live that. If you look at it as "lesson learned" and grow from it then your in a better place. A sour relationship is not the end of the world, nor should any one person besides a child be placed at the highest most important priorty. Live for yourself and soon a person will love you for yourself. Good luck and sorry that your heart was broken but its the way of the world. Had I not experienced and given heartbreak I would not be able to appreciate true love and commitment. Its growth and progress. Good insights... thanks for sharing... I relate to it mostly becuase when I took my marriage vows it was for good... " For better or worse, til death do us part"... I meant it, and I also believe whole heartedly in forgiveness... Sure on a boyfriend / girlfriend level a lot if not most of these feelings can be avoided, unfortunately most often times they are not. However, I believe when you marry someone, you shouldn't be so quick to throw in the towel, no one ever said it would be easy and as a human we all make mistakes. I know I live in a glass house, so I choose to not throw stones.... I only posted this b/c I know a lot of people (men & women can relate). Secretly, deep down most of us want the same thing, to love and be love, to respect and be respected, to want and be wanted... so why do we continue to hurt and be hurt by those we love???

Thanks I wish I could take credit for writing it, but I can't...however I can relate to every word... as Im sure can a lot of men and women that have read it. I haven't totally given up on love, but I am very discouraged and protecting of myself right now and probably for a long time to come....

Yeah I thought about putting it there when I originally posted it...

Thats great, I wish I was "fast enough" to think of doing something like that... kudos.... I got so aggrevated when I was trying to sell my rig on here, I eventually did, but only after sending HH like 3 emails from 3 different user names

Hugs and good vibes to you and your kitty... please keep us posted....

F**K Him....

I dont understand either, I am a true animal lover and take in rescue horses from time to time, since I have the land to spare. (I have 3 of my own). My latest rescue was a 22 yro blind POA. The former owners did want here her anymore, b/c they didnt think she could "work". I was skeptical about taking a blind horse, but she is so sufficent. She has yet to run into anything. (She is totally blind, full cataracts on both eyes). I think people in general dont understand the expense that comes with a pet. Then when something happens, they have the attitude the animal is just that and expendable. HOW WRONG! If half the humans in the world, had the dedication and love that most animals have for us people, the world would be a much nicer place.

I know there is, and Im sorry cocheese, I wasnt implying that you were implying... Im just tired of having my heart broken time and time again... as are the good men in the world Im sure....

I have NEVER done any of those things to anyone.

definitly men... by far....

Here's to all those girls who used to be his number one. The ones who waited all night for him to call, only to check the caller ID the next morning and be disappointed. The ones who made it through that bitter break up, dried your own tears, and moved on with your life, only to have him walk back in it months later like nothing ever happened. Those of you who cried on the first day you talked again because you knew exactly where this phone call was going. The ones who listened to him say, I only want to be your friend, one day, and the next, listened to him say how much he loves and misses you. We deserve something, and this is our tribute. Here's to the ones that gave him another chance, hoping that maybe this time, he was different, hoping that maybe people really do change. We listened to our friends tell us that we were stupid for even thinking about giving him another chance, caught shit from our parents, and even snuck around to see him for a while. We went through the great stage with no fights all over again. We started this out thinking it would be just friends, and ended up falling in love with him again. We wanted nothing more in the world than to hear him tell us he loved us too, that even though things were bad in the past, they would be different this time. And when we finally heard it, it was like we were dreaming. This is for us. Here's to the ones who believed what he said, sat around all over again waiting for a phone call that might come in a few hours, or a few days. Here's for the tears cried and dried all over again. We wanted so desperately to believe that he was really busy, he couldn't possibly call us at that moment, or even that he fell asleep early. We trained ourselves to believe the lies because we wanted to believe we had found the one for us. We learned to settle for someone who didn't treat us the way we should be treated. Here's for the ones who did their hair and make up and put on their prettiest earrings, only to hear him say that he couldn't see us today. The ones who never believed it when people told us there might be someone else. We just couldn't believe that he could do this to us again. This is for those great girls, who loved him more than words can say, and took him back no matter what happened last time because they couldn't bear to look back on their lives one day and wonder "what if". This is for the ones that held on to something that was never there to begin with. This is for us girls, who somehow managed to get him to forget about her, and get him to tell us that he was in love with us again, only to have him tell us three weeks later that "things were going too fast, he needs time." Here's to the girls who couldn't cry to their friends because of how stupid they felt. The ones who held it all in when things came crumbling to pieces again. This is for the ones who couldn't bear to even tell their mom what was going on, for fear of an "I told you so." The ones that could just tell that they had made a mistake ever allowing him into their hearts, their beds, and their dreams again. We knew that we deserved better the entire time, that we deserved a guy who would call when he said he was going to, one that would come see us whenever he got the chance, one that would really care about us. We just wanted the one that we loved like that. Here's for the ones that finally realized that he never gave a shit about them. Here's for the time that he broke your heart again. This is for those days spent trying to hold back the tears, and the tears that turned into anger, then disappointment. Here's for us girls who finally realized that we deserve better. This is for those confusing days, when you miss him, and want nothing more than to hear his voice, or feel his arms around your waist. Stay strong, and remember that relationships are like broken glass, sometimes it's better to leave it alone rather than try to put the pieces back together and get hurt. Remember the times you cried, and how long it took you to even be able to look at another guy like that. When "your song" comes on the radio, turn the station. When the day comes that he realizes what a mistake he made and tries calling, turn your phone off. When he tries coming to your house, don't answer the door. Think of the broken promises, and the lies, the manipulation and the tears, the wasted moments and staying up all night wondering where the hell he was. Think of how your heart used to jump when your phone would vibrate in the middle of the night, and how it fell to your stomach when you saw it wasn't him, and realized that once again, he hadn't called when he said he was going to. One day, you'll find a guy who's worth all the tears, but he won't make you cry. You may think that you'll never care about someone like you did that guy that you always ran back to, but you will. It's gonna hurt like hell, and it's going to need time to heal, but the point is, it will heal eventually!!!!

Yeah that song is too funny, but so true....

Nope never seen it... not planning on rushing out to rent it anytime either....

my 2 cents... for whatever its worth.... ANY dog can be raised to be and attack, act viscous etc. Most dogs (except for your modern day mutt) was bred for some purpose or another. I currently have a dog in the herding breed who tries to herd my kids, its quit funny to watch, the dog gets very aggrevated. One of my best friends has an amstaff, "cowgirl" is by far one of the best behaved dogs I have ever seen. She (the dog) isnt at my house that often, but occasionally spends then night here with my friend. I have 3 small kids (9,7 &5) and have never had a second moments thought about leaving cowgirl alone with them. The media can kiss my ass, they have given several breeds a bad rap, Doberman, Rottweiler to name a few. I have owned both of those breeds and never had any issues. IMHO, the media isnt good for anything other than reporting the weather. All you ever hear about is the bad. And hell would probably freeze over before you would hear about one of these "bad breeds" saving a child or something else heroic. It can be compared to how skydiving and the media works, how often do you hear about the good, but let one of us have an unfortunate accident, it is all over the media and they have put "their" twists of events all over it.

That has got to be the cutest thing I have ever seen! I want one!!!!

AOL & Wal-Mart are the devils.... end of story.... but sorry your having trouble, I hope you get it all worked out. If I had to use AOL in order to have the internet, I'd go with out....

I love being short, I think I am very cute.... wouldnt trade it for anything.... Im 5'2 and 120lbs soaking wet... being petite is fun....

I can access everything except myspace.... Even a link that was sent from Adam & Eve for my last toy order opened right up....

Thanks to both of you! I have IE & Firefox... cant get by with either and the IP route works until I try to log in... Our new IT guy is a creep and no one likes him... but I dont wanna jeopardize my job anyway, I dont graduate until next May and kinda need to keep this one until then...lol So I guess I need to find some other way to entertain myself....

Is it possible to do? The firewall (sonic wall...if it makes a difference) is on the server at work, and it has myspace blocked due to "adult content" WTF???? We are in a super slow period at work and being able to access myspace would help the day go by....