Well, here's some more background on this. I haven't been contacted back from any RE atty yet, so this comes from the 2nd wife and her lawyer.
I'll tell ya straight out that this is very convoluted. In a nutshell, she and my father mis-managed their money and now there is this rather strange looking re-financing to help her get out of debt.
They bought the home as tenets in common 27 years ago. At that time they were not married. Several years later they married and 'thought' the property was converted to joint tenets (that's the story today anyway). The original purchase price was $75K. The original mortgage was paid off about 5 years ago.
In the meantime, they took out three loans on the home equity that total about $35,500.
This new refinancing is to consolidate those 3 loans. The interest rate is a whopping 12.9%. She says it's because her credit rating is very low. She didn't know very many details of the loan, you know like term length, ARM vs fixed or balloon payments. She did know that there are penalties for early payoff. Then she said the rate was fixed for two years and then it could change. That sounded like an ARM to me. I asked about balloon payments. She didn't know. Monthly payments would be $620 w/o taxes. Taxes run about $2900 per year. She earns about $35,000 per year. The loan is through a bank, not a mortgage company. She said she shopped around.
She paid off her car, so no monthly car payments.
The appraisal of the home today is $171,500.
She is 55 yo, not the age I mentioned before. She has no retirement accounts and says she'll be depending on SS for retirement.
She claims my portion is worth (171,500-35,500)/16 = $8500.00
That seems strange to me. Debt passes to the spouse, not the kids, right?
Shouldn't my part be worth 171,500/16 = $10,719?
She's asking me to toss her 8 to 10K because she screwed up her financial life.
I feel she and my father screwed up, I should not have to bail them out. Plus she's getting screwed by this loan anyway. There should be a better loan available.
She came across as an airhead, not knowing details of the loan and other details about how these debts came into being.
I'd rather just help her find a better loan that could also buy me out.