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Ok, you need to stop playing with your balls. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Aaaah come on LM, you know what they say....if it ain't on video, then it....... Blabber mouth! Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

My Watch. I bet most of us couldn't live without the internet, what would we do without DZ.com? Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

WoW! And no tears!! Holy Crap!! Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Toe ring tan lines don't count! PS I have those too. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Soul 2 Soul Tour (Tim & Faith) Led Zep/Who/Rolling Stones...NOW THAT, would be a great concert! Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Jaye... That was fun. I sent one to her. My son went to an amazing camp this past summer, it was 3 hours away. I was nervous but he had a blast. Its good to be a kid!!

I am STILL sore from the awesome sex I had Saturday night. Aaaaah memories....it makes for a great Monday! Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

VERY nice!!!

"I may go float in the Dead Sea tomorrow" You REALLY SHOULd try it. It is an amazing experience.

Yeah I am sure they have a hard time with "aged" beef. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

T-Bone, yes. Steak sauce, NO! Enjoy! Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Me too...first time I have spent any amount of time here in SC. If I do come back, I will continue to look over my shoulder. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

"How happy are you that your parents did the dirty and you are a result of that" Mental image of my parents doing the nasty! Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

I won't be completely forgotten, my name will be carried on, so will my blood line. I am not really stuck on being forgotten or being remembered, it is just something that won't be a choice because I had kids. For me, family is very important. I have pictures of my grandparents all over and pics of my great grandparents out too. I have sat down and talked about them and told my kids stories of when I was little and the things that I used to do with these generations that have past. I am by no means stating that deciding to have or not to have kids is wrong. It is a very personal choice. One that can only be made by that individual. Is being self serving or selfish a bad thing all the time. I don't think so. I wouldn't say sex on a regular basis or masturbating is wrong and both are pretty self serving. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

I don't think its self serving. You remember last week? It is what it is. If you have a mind and a brain your gonna remember. I guess it comes down to if you care what people think about you, and its gonna happen, do you want people to think you were a good person? I do. My kids will carry that on into the future. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Great question. I wish I knew the answer. Just an initial thought would be, whats the point of living a life to the fullest if no one is going to remember you. I am not talking remember on a grand scale (like Bill Gates), just remember. I guess remembering must be important, they teach it in schools all over the world, its called history class. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Listen to the question he asks and then answer him. Answering a question is not rocket science. You sound like you are over analyzing this. Are you afraid that if he finds "something" you will be fired or is it that if he finds "something" you will be left feeling exposed? Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

I guess the point that is being raised is, WHO will remember you and the legacy that you left behind. And that is exactly the point, you left it behind, there is no one to carry it into the future. IMO Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

I think you should tell him what he wants to hear. What do you have to lose? Unless you are afraid. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

I agree with you that out of a marriage, children are a likely outcome. You love each, you want to express your love, what better way then to "create" something out of that bond and love that you have for each other. Yeah I guess what I posted about not wanting to die alone sounds somewhat selfish. But I think part of that feeling of "not wanting to be alone" is human nature. I mean thats one reason why some get married is that they want to share their life with a another human being. Is that selfish? No. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Yeah I agree, but who are you going to leave it all to? I mean the friends that you have are all going to kick the bucket about the same time you are. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

Lets face it...who wants to fucking die all alone? Not me! Who wants to be alone when your spouse dies and there is no one in your life. Thats the way it is with my Aunt and Uncle. They have no one. Sure they have nieces and nephews, but our concern is for our parents and then them as heartless as that sounds. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

"It's an important question I think" Very important! I agree. Even if you have vasts amount of money, power, a huge corporation, whats the point if there is no one to leave it to. You worked so hard for what? Yes, maybe you made the community or even the world a better place, but in a few years you will have been forgotten. If you look at it for another stand point, who will carry on "the family name?" Without kids, your life will just be a "blip" in the whole scheme of things. Legacy is very important. With me having kids, my hope is to have them be a better person then I was, to try things in life that I may never have the opportunity to try or do. To just be better then I am/was. Kids to me mean not living my life in vain. IMO Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.

I have an Aunt and Uncle that have no kids, they are in their mid 70's. They are very alone and feel as such. I think that if I were to ask them now if they are happy with the choice they made all those years ago, their answer would be no. I have also family friends that are much older now and the look in their eyes when they see a child is heart break. I have never witnessed someone that did not have kids happy in their old age. I guess one way to view having kids is that when the parent does get older and needs help in different areas of life, yes this may seem selfish, that your children are there to help you. Lets face it, we want to be surrounded by people who love us, who care about us, want what is best for us, what better way to insure that by having kids. Yes, I know, I know that is no guarantee, but it is a pretty good bet that it will work out in the long run. Children bring so much joy to ones life. Plus it is a great way to make sure that your heritage lives on. Granted that is not to say those who don't have kids aren't happy, I am sure there are alot that are. This opinion is from personal experience and should be taken with a grain of salt. Bobbi A miracle is not defined by an event. A miracle is defined by gratitude.