rhino

LOL

And HOOOW many boobie threads have been started???

If we sould do it to fat bastard we can do it to the Taliban!!

Bill. That would be considered a personal attack.. I wouldn't want to keep getting banned now would I?

It does.. It says you "and others" are willing to pass judgement without collecting proper information first. That says alot..

I really don't mind being ganged up on.. Everyone in here could attack me on this site and I wouldn't even flinch.. It isn't a big deal. I am a salesman so rejection or negative energy is something I am very use to. As far as posting on here? She doesn't care and nor do I.. Some people on here have posted things much more personal than this. I brought up a simple issue. People want to dig naturally and make assumptions.. That's o.k.. It doesn't bother me at all..

Thanks for all your opinions.. My position remains exactly the same.. It won't change. Rhino

Yep.. And with that... I'm retiring from this thread.. Thanks for the opinions.. Night all..

You are missing the point totally..

Now you know why I call him "some fucko" I wonder if his wife agrees with the Love Ya language?

Well you see... Here's a little more info.. This guy is married right? While my wife and I were dating "before marriage" I showed up unannounced at her place.. They were both sitting outside kicking back only he was shirtless.. That didn't necessarily bother me as much as his QUICK reaction to me pulling into the driveway did... I am a guy.. I know how men think.. I saw something very guilty in his actions.. I saw intention.. It doesn't matter how innocent or naive she is.. I caught his ass trying to backdoor, low key mack on my lady...

Engage with me here... She wasn't romantic with the girl.. Bummer eh joking.. Just think about it and you will see the difference..

Bottom line... It's wrong.. It's as wrong as fucking your best friends ex.. It's an un written rule. Common sense. something you take into consideration if you care for your partner’s feelings.. If you are doing it and you are in a relationship YOU are in denial. If you are justifying it YOU have value problems and are probably doing it yourself. Maybe I read her email maybe I didn't. Maybe she told me.. Maybe she didn't.. It doesn't make a damned bit of difference either way. I have my issues and so does she.. Neither of us are perfect. I realize that.. She has TONS of friends I have very few because that is what I choose.. A couple that are skydivers.. My wife happens to be my best friend. I married my best friend.. And when my best friend thinks something that I feel so strongly about is ridiculous that bothers me very very very much. It is wrong.. It cannot be justified... My wife telling another man she was intimate with Love You or Ya or LY in an email is not going to be accepted. That's me.. Like it or not.. RHINO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It started as a request.. Believe me..

No he isn't.. He is someone she's known for years.. They don't converse regurlarly..

It is a bad idea..

This is an isolated incident.. She tells her girlfriends that..

I didn't tell her she can't be his friend. I wouldn't do that.. I asked her to consider my feelings in this matter and make a change.. I'm worth that... And I would do the same for her... In other ways.. I have...

Who screwed you over?

Bingo..

Assumptions are like assholes.. We all have them and they smell like shit... Don't assume...

That is between her and I.. In ways I do and in ways I don't.. She knows what I am talking about.. Events do transpire in our lives that should be kept personal.. Those will..

We have total access to each others email and bank accounts.. Almost total.. Sometimes she lets me in.. She can allways get into my email as it isn't password protected. Things shouldn't be hidden in a marriage.. email is just communication.,. not a personal diary.

It isn't about that.. It is my belief.. My standard.. Who I am... I don't believe it is right. I stand up for what I believe in.. That's why I became a Marine. That's why the only brawls I've been in have been defending women in the last 10 years.. I stand by my belief.. It's mine..

I could name 10 ways one could find out. Only 3 of them would be considered snooping.. I like the practice of human engineering. IT works.. ALL the time.. Hackers do it to get information from companies..