rhino

GRRRRRRRRRRRRR!! Get some girl! How's Tripod?

It isn't my opinion at all. It is my experience. Like it or not the family court system is broke.

Congrats Marc!!!! Nice to know one of us is making progress... I'm proud of you man.. Rob

You are incorrect sir. The court is a circus. They are blind and ineffective. In the 4 years I have been using the court extensively I have yet to see them make a single decision based on current analysis of data instead of an already decided course of action. The game is all laid out. They just drop you in the meat grinder. The kids are THE LAST THING they are looking out for. Rhino

nice pic!! ;)

Fathers with joint custody pay 90.2% of all child support ordered. Those with visitation rights pay 79.1%. Those with no access/visitation pay only 44.5% Source: Census Bureau report. Series P-23, No. 173 Almost half of all mothers see no value in the father's continued contact with his children following separation or divorce. And approximately 40% of divorced mothers report interfering with the father's relationship with the children. Source: Sanford Braver, Arizona State University 66% of all support not paid by non-custodial fathers is due to inability to pay. Source: U.S. General Accounting Office Report, GAO/HRD-92-39FS, January 1992 Custodial mothers who receive a support award: 79.6% Custodial fathers who receive a support award: 29.9% Non-custodial mothers who totally default on support: 46.9% Non-custodial fathers who totally default on support: 26.9% (Data obtained by asking custodial parents) Non-custodial mothers who pay support at any level: 20.0% Non-custodial fathers who pay support at any level: 61.0% (Data obtained by asking custodial parents) All the following are for custodial parents: Single mothers who work less than full time: 66.2% Single fathers who work less than full time: 10.2% Single mothers who work more than 44 hours per week: 7.0% Single fathers who work more than 44 hours per week: 24.5% Single mothers who receive public assistance: 46.2% Single fathers who receive public assistance: 20.8% Source: Technical Analysis Paper No. 42, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office of Income Security Policy, Oct., 1991 Authors: Meyer and Garansky "Economically fathers and mothers on average fare almost exactly equal about one year after divorce." Source: Sanford Braver, Divorced Dads: Shattering the Myths, (Tarcher/Putnam: 1998), p. 79

Welcome indeed!!!! Segador Rodriguez

I may be pissed but my head is still on my shoulders. Thanks lady

http://www.PetitionOnline.com/usncpr/ I've just been invited into a couple of organizations. The work is in finding the ones that are about the kids and not hating people. I don't hate people. I hate the system. It has to change quickly.

What's really fucked up is in that same phone call she told me to get an AIDS test. Imagine my suprise. No reason why. Just wanted to fuck with my head.

I hear you.. Get the word out.. I try not to make this a Dad thing. It's a family thing. Problem is 85% of men in my state are stuck with leftovers. some Mom's are in the grinder too..

For those of you that don't know. In 2001 during the middle of a move from Tennessee to Texas my now ex-wife vanished with my then 2.5 year old son. I had to file missing persons reports on both of them because I didn’t hear a thing for 3 weeks. When I did hear from her my little boy was screaming in the background "I want my Daddy!". She told me I would never see him again. (all on tape) I was then served with a PPO that was issued Ex Parte (without evidence) by a judge in Oakland County, Mi. Judge Linda S. Hallmark. Then I find out that Judge Hallmark sits on the board of directors for Haven (A Battered Woman’s Organization) conflict of interest here.. A year later after divorcing my ex, giving up the custody venue (to get the divorce through so I could get to Michigan) and not seeing my son I came to Michigan accepting the first job offer I could get. I was then ordered to have supervised visitation at HAVEN for 6 months while they evaluated me with my son. I also had to pay for these visits. I had supervised time for NO REASON. Right after getting the initial custody order signed in Sept of 02, my ex messed up enough times that the judge said we had a change of circumstance and ordered a change in custody evaluation by FOC. My ex represented herself the whole time, the FOC referee (Traci k) was biased and gave My Ex sympathy the whole time. My attorney had to object 3 times on the record against her giving my ex legal advice. The FOC hearing took over a year and $62,000 to complete. Total divorce + custody over $125,000 down the tubes. I get back in front of the judge for my day in court (Which I thought was my constitutional right) only to be told that we lost our change of circumstance because it took so long to get back to her. So the judge says have a hearing then get back to me.. I have the hearing.. Get back to the judge and get told SORRY because her FOC referee is incompetent and running a circus. We lost our change of circumstance, wasted $62k and did not get our fair day in court. I was never even heard. I was dropped into a meat grinder.. Accomplishing nothing and no one cares. Hence the picture. Rhino

I appreciate the vibes man. I really do.. Everyone in here knows me and how much I love my family. I would NEVER do anything to jeopardize my family, myself or anyone else for that matter. I am aware of over 10,000 non-custodial parents in my immediate area that feel exactly the same. Family court and FOC is overstepping their bounds and out of control. Our childrens rights to have a mom and a dad are being shredded to pieces. The love I have for my family will keep me from every doing anything foolish. Unfortunately not everyone can take a beating like I can. The picture is an accurate depiction of how I feel quiet often. Lately. Very often. I'm hanging on.. Rhino

Nothing about it can be used against me. It's life as a non-custodial parent. It needs to be shared. It is definitely disturbing. The picture is more effective at getting the whole thing across than words.

Drew this a minute ago... A picture is worth a thousand words. Rob

Yep... If it goes mainstream we better start sending alot more money to the USPA. Waivers need to be video waivers as well from now on. wing loading restrictions will need to go into effect. All kinds of shit..

670 jumps. Crossfire2, 97 loaded at 2:1.

http://www.frcmi.org Interesting site with good info for those of us that don't have full custody of our kids. Rhino

No.. She's a crybaby.. According to Howard Stern

I just took my kids to see the blue angels this last weekend at Selfridge. It was great!

You acid, alkalinity level is screwed up and you are dehydrated. It takes months to get hydration to the correct level even when you are slamming water every day. Drink Lemon water between meals at least twice a day. Exercise.. Have lots of sex! :) Rhino

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7982865/ Let's see how long this lasts....

No problem. With recent events my mind has been consumed with absolute rage, frustration and anger. I did some searching to put things into perspective and came across this.. I must admit that I relaxed quiet a bit. Hope it helps someone like it did me today. Rhino

http://www.mrindianajones.com/loveletter.html

Nor do I.. All I know is they get in the way of progress.