goofyjumper

Real life is not Law and Order or CSI, it takes over an hour with commercials to solve real crime. Not just solve, but put everything in the case in the proper order with the proper chain of custody and the proper procedure to keep it from getting kicked out of court. Trust me, you want the detectives to take their time and have everything exactly right. Otherwise when you go to trial the person that is responsible might walk. I know you would rather have the person in prison then walking free, so be patient and understand that there is much more to an investigation then you might actually know without having worked that job before. I am happy to see that Goofyjumper is being kept informed of the investigation's progress. Beyond her and the DA, that all that matters right now. We'll get the information once its proper to be publicly released. My words exactly! I don't care how long it takes to get all the evidence together, as long as we can get this past a grand jury. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Thanks, it is nice to know that I am not the only one going through something like this. I have decided to get counseling because it will be someone to cry to and talk to. I am so glad I am a skydiver because you all have been so helpful and understanding. I love that I am part of this community. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

The main investigator has been very tightlipped, but also very truthfull with me. She is doing a great job and still keeps me updated. The only thing that I am going to say is the #1 suspect is in jail right now on VOP, so time is not a big factor. I don't care how long it takes, I just want all the I's dotted and T's crossed and I don't care how long it takes. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Thanks guys,I feel better right now,but I just never know when I am going to cry again. It makes me feel better that evryne is different because I know I cry at random, and it is hard to control. But I am keep saying to myself, he is wih you and he loves and misses everyone. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Anyone been through this before? I have no idea if I am grieving properly. There are days I feel OK, then there are days (like today) that I feel hopeless. Fuck, this is hard! Please someone shed some light! ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

You know, sadly I am not sure of the name of the base. I know that she is a nurse and is obviously seeing patients on a regular basis. She should be back by February (I hope) ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

That is going to be a lot of beers! ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

We won't - he tells on us. OK - I'll be there. ya!

I am sorry it is last minute, but I figured MLK weekend, many people have that Monday off so it gives them more time to travel. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Say Hi to my sister, she has been out there since July. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

I miss you all already. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Thanks Jeff, and congrats on the engagement! ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

I've been thinking the same thing as I read through this entire thread. "Be rude not to" and "While you're down there" are two phrases I picked up from Lee and make me think about him every time I use them. Brandy, I am so sorry for your loss. I was just thinking about you two on Friday during my drive from Texas to Georgia. I was going to be heading through the Florida panhandle and thought I'd give y'all a call to grab a drink but then changed my travel plans at the last minute. I've always appreciated the big smile and "what's up" from both of you when showing up for a visit at the Farm after being gone for a couple years. You will be in my thoughts. Love, jason/flyingj Thanks J. It is so hard to understand why someone had to take his life. I know I will probably never know. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Happy Birthday Honey! I just started back to work today, it has not been easy. I miss you sooooooooo much! ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Did you not get enough sleep from your long drive last night? ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Hope everyone had a good x-mas I spent it with Jello Jay and Turtle and it helped me out a lot. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Oh,ok I see. J/k. See you soon. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

I cannot express how much I love the people who helped me out after my husband died. I never knew how much he and I were loved until this incident. For the people who gave money and were here for me (especially TURTLE AND CLAY) and so many others including, Tonya, everyone from the farm, and my parents and family members, and even some people I don't even know. I wish I could pay you a million dollars each because you are helping me through the worst time of my life. And I cannot forget Lee's parents, sister,and everyone else. I am sure I left out a few. I am so glad that I got into skydiving because you are all the closest family I have ever had besides the real thing and you have proven it to me. I still miss him so much, but I know he wants me to try and be happy. Of course he would say "be rude not to" Thanks again BSBD - Lee (I love you) ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Thank god I was already in bede! ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

too funny ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Thanks to all of you who posted her, I am had soo many family come her to me grt though this. I am scared and afraid but evyone has been nothing but wonderfull to me. We all were telling great stories about lee and his wonderful tuoretts moments. But he truly loved all peple on this site and was attached to this website. God, I love him soo much I keep waking up in the morning wondering if he is next, to me, and then realize he is'nt and will never. I keep wanting grap his big furry body and snuggle with him but that will happen again. I am glad that everone will miss as much as I did because really have alot of friends, and even with smart mouth, he always ment. Let's just put it this way: If he made fun you, that means that he liked you. God I miss him ssoooo much. Thanks Turtle, and Chuck, Kevin, Micky for and Jessia and alll or other friends forshowing support for me and foir Brian and Samantha for letting me stay at their place while I am going through this. I I know that he misses all of you too ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

Damn Dave, you are in a masterbating mood today! ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

OMG that was funny as hell! I am peeing in my pants. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

That was funny Andy. I forgot about that ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla

And Laura, 850 goes from west of Jacksonville all the way to Pensacola. Well, who ever started it I will find out real soon. Maybe we will pay a visit to their house. Then again maybe we will never find out. ----------------- I love and Miss you so much Honey! Orfun #3 ~ Darla