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Lol, you're absolutely right. I am a very overanalytical bastard. I'm a mathmetician and a programmer; that's how my brain works. I fucking hate it. Because I'm a very logical person, I've always tried to take dating logically, which doesn't quite work, since women aren't logical at all .... they work much more off of their subconscious emotions. So I've had to logically teach myself to not look at things logically, but I can only do that if I know what I should or should not be doing, until eventually it just makes sense. But, honestly, I don't think any of you will ever understand that. This ad space for sale.

Either of those sounds good. Where would you go afterwards to wind down? Haven't thought that far ahead, hell, I don't even know if we're still on. An ice cream parlor sounds over the top corny. Ha, definitely go for the putt-putt cuz it'll be much more fun for both of you, and I was actually gonna add to that, go get some ice cream or something. I think it'd be a good unexpected, simply enjoy-it-for-the-moment kinda thing, and it'll bring back memories of being a kid. then you can go do whatever else. This ad space for sale.

Maybe with her. Once again, if you don't like things like that, then don't date people who do. It's really simple. Personally, I like it when a guy says something like, "I think you're really cool, and I'm interested." That's different. That's not really saying anything. What if some guy tells you he really likes you? There's a difference. In the first, he saying "You seem alright; I would like to get to know you better." In the second he's implying he's already fallen for you. That's what I'm saying don't do. Being interested in good, liking her before you even know her is bad. Some men (and women), me included, get emotional way too quickly at times, when we shouldn't be. We need to learn to realize that these are only temporary, and not to bring them up, because it WILL backfire. This ad space for sale.

Only the women who like drama in their lives. What are the ages of the women you date anyway? That might be true. I'm just 23, so a few years younger than me. The girl in this case is 21. As I said in another post, though, I don't think it's intentional, as she said herself "I don't like playing games, I'm a rational person, etc, etc.", but I believe a lot of it is subconscious behaviour, not just for women, but for everybody. People don't appreciate what they have; but if there's something they want that they believe they will lose, they'll try to hold on to it a lot more. This ad space for sale.

If you think games are stupid and retarded, don't play them. You'll end up with others who don't play games. See. That's funny. That's what she said, so I decided to be upfront. She asked "What do you think about me?" I was honest, I said "I really like you. You're cool, you're fun, you're intelligent." all of which is very true. I said "When we first went out, I really wasn't expecting much; I had a crush on you, but didn't really know you. I was pleasantly surprised." Yeah, that didn't quite work. As I stopped answering my phone, and stopped calling her, I got a much better response. See I'm not playing games with feelings. I have never intentionally done anything to hurt her or make her feel worse, or anybody else. I'm not like that. That's not the game I'm talking about. But being completely straightforward doesn't quite work. There's something attractive about mystery. I don't blame her or anybody else for that, because it's on the subconscious level. As men, though, we just have to learn to be mysterious. I'm not talking about being an asshole, and lying and trying to hurt her; but I am talking about not being vocally honest about everything. Be subtle about it. Women can pick up on a lot more body language than we can, and they can pick up on a lot of things we don't even realize that we're doing. Use that (body language) to make the intentions known; but be vocally honest about it (early on in the relationship), and it kills the mystery, (and hence the attraction). edit: to clarify a few things, stuff in parentheses This ad space for sale.

Don't ever tell a girl you like her. Once she knows she can have you she won't be as interested anymore. You want her to think that you are willing to get up and leave for another girl at any moment. That way she has to work harder for you. She might not realize why but she'll much more attracted to you. BUT you can't tell her that you're willing to get up, you have to subtly (sic?) show it, make her not be sure whther you like her or not. Case in point: This girl likes me, tells me she likes me, even make the first move. Turns out I had a crush on her for years. Excellent. So I tell her I like her too, and try to get her to come out more. Well I stop getting a response. So I stop calling her. Eventually, I call her three weeks later, talk for a few minutes, then instead of asking her out, I ask about her friend. As I hang up, she says "We should go out again." That Saturday, I call to see what's up, and without any effort, she tells me to join her and her sister to a club. easy as pie, much easier than before when I actually tried to get her to come out. The more a girl likes you, the less you call her, and she'll like you more. It's fucking stupid, it's a retarded game, but that's just how it is. I've been studying this shit for a little bit now and beginning to understand how the female head works ..... if you want more information about it, send me a pm. This ad space for sale.

thanks - big help frankly, self congratulatory, mental masturbatorial exercises like this can be a lot of fun with people interested in the exercise. But just doing on-line IQ tests can blow your day just as fast. I second that. I'm not getting dragged even more into this crap. This discussion is about as useful as a condom is to a nun. This ad space for sale.

well, of course. I don't just sit there. I read this forum, I play backgammon, I do other things. But the last thing I'll do is go ask for more friggin work. Geez. This ad space for sale.

if you're at work and have completed everything you need to do, do you go ask for more? I'm working with someone who is actively looking for more work to do, since we've completed everything we have now. Christ I'm pretty satisfied sitting here doing jack shit, but since we're on the same team, that means I now have more work to do. I'm wondering if other people are like me and will just sit there pretending to work, or will you actually go and ask for work? This ad space for sale.

does anyone out here kiteboard? I'm considering trying it out and want to know what kind of kite I should get for starting out. My buddy has a wake board that we'll use for a board. And is there anything else i should really know about it? This ad space for sale.

Second that. From peresonal experience. This ad space for sale.

Ahh, I love Florida. I jumped today. I'll jump tomorrow, and I'll jump on Sunday. Now if I could just get fired from my jump, I could jump the rest of the week as well. This ad space for sale.

Hey you've never seen mine, so you can't say that. Sorry about the NSFW, I'm not at work so I didn't about that, not that I actually look at porn while at work. This ad space for sale.

Well, since you asked. NSFW This ad space for sale.

bottom left in peru looking right at the camerae back when I still had my hair ... and then in costa rica on my first deep sea fishing adventure, wearing my "don't forget to pull" shirt

Paypal locked his account, under investigation or something. This ad space for sale.

Hell, I'd rather pay for a piece of the bunny. This ad space for sale.

Hella nice. My goal is top be contract work-from-home programmer, so I can sit at the drop zone, jumping all day, and working in-between loads. That would be the life. This ad space for sale.

So, what's the right website? I just went to softopenings.com while at work and got to see a fat woman laying spread eagle across my montior. Not quite wanted to see here, or any other time actually. This ad space for sale.

We don't technically have a dress code, but most people dress pretty nice. Not me though. I'm a dirty motherfucker. This ad space for sale.

This country is fucking retarded. 'Nuff said. This ad space for sale.

I too am a very aggressively fast and reckless driver. As I'm in a truck, I have no worries about plowing people over, so they'll get out of my war. Regardless, there was one time a "bad driver" actually saved my ass. I was in the left lane, flying along at about 100 mph. This other car cuts in front of me and slams on her brakes. Fuck was a pissed. After about thirty seconds of using sailor vocabulary, I realized why. There was a trooper sitting on the side of the road. I have a radar detector, but it didn't go off, because they would only hit the cars they thought were speeding instead of letting the radar just tag everybody. As I came within twenty feet of them, my detector went off. Luckily, I was forced to slow down enough where I wouldn't get pulled over. edit: left lane, not right. This ad space for sale.

I'll second that. That guy is hilarious. This ad space for sale.

You actually work after lunch? Hell, I should hire you. This ad space for sale.

You guys need to get back to work. Actually, I guess so should I. This ad space for sale.