Hello all! I'm new to the forums, so just let me say this place is awesome!
As for your question, my own personal experience is that it doesn't work. I started jumping in '97, then meet my future wife who did do a tandem but that was it - no more for her. We got married in 99 and I did my last jump in 99. Something never seemed right and I would always catch myself daydreaming at my desk or looking up at the sky with a vacant look on my face - a lot of my wife's friends thought I was being anti-social (I was just really concentrating on holding my slot but how do you tell that to someone who has no clue?) The marriage didn't last and we're in the middle of the divorce now. A couple of weeks ago, I went out to the first DZ I could find and did my recurrency dives. The first jump, after landing, I fell to my knees and cried - it felt so good to be back in the air, to be back in the company of people who really enjoy life and who have the addiction! If you can find a wuffo that "get's it" more power to you but I think those nuggets are few and far between. (as with anything however, those are just my opinions!)