VanillaSkyGirl

Excellent Mar! MY reply right after yours to that same thread was the following: I am shocked at how far this double standard has gone. This teacher sexually seduced this 13-year old. It is morally unethical of her and against the law, no matter what the gender of the parties involved. Period. Even if he was already having sex with other 13-year old girls, it doesn't make what this teacher was doing to him any less sick and demented. Think about it, everyone. This 13-year old may have some emotional and sexual problems within future relationships from this. This kid is probably just beginning to go through puberty and is emotionally not ready to have such an intense experience. Having sex with an authoritative figure in his life, who is more than double his age, much more sexually experienced and also MARRIED woman is just incredibly complex for ANYONE. What is this teaching him? He had been seduced by her looks and sexuality into being more promiscuous and less respectful of another person's wife. That is so wrong. Some of you may not understand, but let's face it, having sex at such a young age under such explosive circumstances is going to somehow affect his future sexual conduct...I promise you. To everyone who is saying that this child was just having sex and was lucky...would he have been lucky if the teacher that had sex with him was a male? OR, would you call that sexual exploitation of a minor by a pedophile?

Lol...you kill me, Nick! Randomdude, Brian425, Mnealtx, Jazzjumper ~ Wonderful things to consider. Thank you all for your help! Betsy and Lisa ~ You are both so great! LouD must have really enjoyed his gifts. Hope he is doing well.

Are we dating? I thought the same thing when I read his post. Lol...dejavu. All three of us couples probably have a lot in common!

How funny, Kelli, I just posted on another thread, a picture of my guy when he used to climb. I don't have a close-up right now...and the picture that I posted does NOT do him justice, anyway. When he used to climb, he had the BEST body that I've ever seen on a guy. He is still in great shape and a hard-core surfer now, but his climbing days several years ago were the best! Huge, muscular, defined V-shaped back and arms with tiny waist, 6-pack and incredible muscles/definition on every part of the body ~ legs, arms, back, stomach, etc....whew! Edited for darned typo.

I've asked him many, many times what he would like, of course. Spencer doesn't tell me that he wants or needs anything. He always just tells me that he wishes more than anything that he could be with me right now. I am sending pictures and letters, etc. because they won't let me send myself. DVD players...yes, he took a portable mini one with him. I'm sure that it's boring, though...he is a really active guy. He would much rather be doing something, rather than watching videos, I'm sure. (See attached.) He did take his Academy DVD movies. (His father is a voting member and gets all the newest "in consideration of" submissions sent before voting.) Anyway, he packed everything that he thought that he needed for himself before he left. He's done this before. He was in the Persian gulf War, then, he was out of the military for about 13 years. When I first met him (we've known each other for 8 years), he was not in the military. After 9-11, he was asked to return. After much thought, he went back in, but he's not a "soldier". Thanks for the suggestions! He will be there until August.

Dammit...this is so funny and deserves...!

I meant coming to the PM boogie!

So, are you two coming or not? Edited: I meant coming to the boogie, of course!

Mr. Turtle! Does that mean that you are coming to the Pink Mafia Boogie, after all? That would be so cool! Chris ~ Thank you. You are too cute!

Why, am I wearing a Badfish thong while I help you? WAIT!!! Why am I helping you up? What are you doing on the ground, for goodness sake!

Yeah right. You never jumped with me. You were busy doing that belly flying thing with some 4way team at eloy... Sorry, Sunny dear, but those silly Airpseed guys looked like they needed some help, you know?

I wanna grab your ass and say "oooo...ahhh, it's so perfect!!" LMFAO!!!!!

I want to have people say "oooo" and "ahhhh" while they watch me watching you swoop! Ok, not really, but it was funny, no?

OK, I PMed you back a while ago, but I never heard back from you. Now, I know to PM you at this username. See you and Cara soon, Mike!!!

Ooooo...sounds like fun, Sunny girl!

What happened to your other screen name, Mike? Do you still use that one, too?

Uh... That's Swiss! Big turn off... Sorry... She lost me at "Merde"!

I know, I know...

It's the goggles.

That didn't work out too well for me.

Thank you, Mar! They are all my heroes, as well. I hope that they truly feel that. Damn...tears!

Agreed. What kind of a demented pervert has sex with a child? I used to be a teacher, and I am completely disgusted by this pathetic excuse for a woman. If she was a physically disgusting-looking female, would everyone be calling her an angel, then? Would you all feel the same way if years down the road, she had sex with YOUR 13 years old? What if one of you men was married to her and knew she was cheating on you with 13 year old penis? Jesus.

Oh Clay, I'm so sad that I will not see you this coming weekend. Please take care, and I will be writing to you soon!

Thank you for the suggestion. Actually, seriously, I am not sending alcohol or anything. I am sending him letters, little gifts, snacks that he LOVES...stuff like that.

LMAO...I read about that in a post and told my boyfriend that I could send those *things* to him, as well. He said, "NO." I love the letters idea from a couple of posts down. That is exactly what I was thinking of doing...I will call everyone right now!