Except that you are financially tied to them -- they're paying for your college (and maybe some living expenses as well?).
As a parent, who started jumping when she was about your age, the best way to have this discussion is from a position of strength. What's that? You go to them, tell them what you've been doing, and show them the plan of how you're going to pay for it yourself, without hurting your path in college, or spending their money on it.
If you tell them "I've started skydiving, I wanted to see if it was a passing fancy and it isn't, and I'm paying for my jumps by packing parachutes/cleaning the hangar/whatever" it sounds like a mature decision considering the consequences.
Isn't that what an adult is?
Wendy P.
I think that's my best option Wendy. I am most certainly paying for my skydives by myself; I got a job last semester at college and I also have a job this summer that pays really well.
I guess the consequence I'm most fearful of when telling them is putting added stress/worry on them. My parents are pretty up tight people (my mom more-so than my dad) and they don't really have the ability to just not let things that can't control bother them (i.e. me skydiving)