I post under another name sometimes. Kbordson has some reasons that are true:
> Many women have issues with low libido,
> painful intercourse, and
> true psychological issues that interfere with the pleasure of intercourse
I've been married a long time to a wonderful man, who takes care of me sexually. But sex just isn't as much fun for me as it is for him. It takes me longer to recharge, and orgasms are OK but not like the best thing in the world. Before I was married, I wasn't all that interested, and when he was gone for awhile I just didn't miss it all that much. When it's been like a really long time then I can get horny. but a really long time is something like months or years.
And he does take care of me -- in this case, it's me, not him. If I don't cum it's because I told him outright it wasn't gonna happen, and just to hold me and touch me. I like it for the intimacy, not the orgasm.
So if someones wife or girlfriend isn't all that hot to go, maybe she needs more intimacy, teasing, foreplay (not hard-core sex foreplay, but gentle touching etc)
