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  1. What dress size are you? Do you want to go out with Shah? Ladies I give you Mr. JohnMitchell My pimp! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  2. Pil I do clearly state in my profile I do not wish to have kids. But it funny the moment I did. Wow. It was as if I had full blown coodies. But that's online dating but in person when I meet a girl Per my view I really do think the ladies do have the upper hand on this. Sure they have to deal with the hens of the angry momy club but once you get past that I'm sure there are more guys who don't want to have kids than girls who do..... Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  3. Amen brother ;-) well put. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  4. legal secretaries in San Francisco make that sort of coin. Did or do? Know two ladies who are looking for a gig, experience and all....no way can they pull that here in NJ/NYC. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  5. Yeah but all but the Inv Banker are doing well now. All the others are taking big pay cuts or not getting anything or worse...loosing their jobs. And you got it! If you want that same job at another company get ready to make 25% less. Why? Well you see that investment banker has to make his money. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  6. The job I saw was in NYC. I know the further out you go from NYC the lower the pay. It is what it is. The companies are making due with very little staff and there is no reason to hire more or to pay more for anyone who is middle management and lower. If some one gives you lip....fire their ass...hire a new guy for 25% less and take 5% bonus. If you do loose your job, be willing to work for 25% less. But if you have a home and bills..... Well no clue how that would work? I mean you could always return the keys to the bank right? It's not a good market right now, people are PISSED and they want blood. Be it Obamas or some CEO of some bank. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  7. Marry me! No i'm serious! Of all the girls I've dated in the past two years (about 20ish) only 1 did not want to have kids! As for when to bring it up? I don't know? I've had it brought up on a first date....got screamed at. Had it brought up on the 4th month of seeing someone....got screamed at. As a guy I'm in a no win situation. It's like picking up live land mines! So many great dates so many amazing girls....but...the kid thing? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  8. You've got a bit of a problem, there... the ad as you wrote it says 10 years HR experience, not 10 years post-MBA. Further Sarcasm. You graduated with yout MBA @18 and landed the job in HR! What the kids in China are graduating with MBA's at 18! As for income and younger people....two words...Student Loans! People are graduating with student loans that stick them with $1k / month in payments. So at $75k, $1k/month for student loan, a place to live in or around NYC....and oh boy...welcome to the working poor! Aren't you glad you got that MBA and worked your ass off like that kid in China! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  9. Don, That was sarcasm. As in WHO has an MBA by 18? So then you add 10 years of expereince and .... Now you get it? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  10. It's nutty out there. If you have a job odds are the pay will not go up any time soon. If you don't have a job expect your next one to pay a solid 25% less. At my local university job fair, I walked in to collect business cars, toys and see what was up. One of the job openings has assistent head of HR for a parma division in NYC. 10 years of HR experience. MBA, 3.5 GPA Willing to travel 50% of the time Pay? $75k So let's say you were an MBA at say 18! You would be 28 now with the experience making $75k in NYC...not bad! But odds are the average person was well over 40. It's called "empty nesting" it's how these companies fulfill their obligations so they keep the right to come to the university year in and year out to recruit. They set up a job where by the criteria is so nutty no one can or would apply for it! I recall in 02 the same thing at my university. IBM had ONE job. 5 years experience. PhD US citizen! (how many comps sci guys you know who have a PhD and are Us Citizens!) $45k. Boys, girls....it's going to be a very bad 10 years! Expect to see your pay as a middle class prick to stay the same or go down. Expect 4% increase in true inflation and well.....I hate to say it but expect those making $250K+ to see greater pay and a better life for their bonuses are based on how much more they can get from the given HR resource they have at hand. But what can you do? Protest? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  11. You know the last one was close! I would say quality not quantity but if you are planing on WWIII I would say enough ammo boxes to build a solid wall, 10ft wide and 10ft high. Anything less.....please! You call your self a man! Anything more.....well now ou are just showing off! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  12. Yes and with two cats it works very well. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  13. Will someone please notify Cocheese that Shah is using his account? The last three girls i dated were. Sadly the last one lacked a univeristy education or a job so... The one before her worked in NYC, had two masters, world traveler but lived in Brooklyn The one before that was a stunning had a PhD and was from out west. She had to move back home because her mom fell and broke her hip. I helped her pack her stuff....that sucked Brains do turn me on as much as looks do. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  14. No. I went for a second hand certified pre owned 135I My mechanic told me that the old VW was going to have some very expensive mechanical repairs in the near future which could set me back $3k (bushings were going bad, an oil leak was developing near the turbo and other issues). So I made an offer on the 135I and due to it being a stick I got it for a very good price. About how much I would have paid for a well equipped stick shift, 2.0T VW. Very nice car thus far, hates the snow, but very nice car. The old ladies in my complex have called it "sexy" but most of them remember when Nixon was still a Gerber Baby! The younger ladies also have indicated that they think it's a nice car. For me? It's just a new start. Where only 3 years ago I was paying north of $5k a year for another person's education, now I'm paying about the same for my enjoyment. And I think it will be that way for a very long time to come. Trust...is a major thing to lose. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  15. Meh, your complaints about women all blur together. I'm more complex than that. But I still think, there is no better place for a single girl is an engineering shop if she can't get into a DZ. As one above pointed out, "When I met my husband there were 6 other girls..." well duuuuh! You could have not shaved your legs for a few months and smelled of ferret and odds are some guy at an engineering shop or maybe even your local DZ, would come over and lay a pick up line on you about how he likes how your hairs poke out of your pantyhose. A few years back, there was this very attractive women in my Yoga class, her kid....well....no clue what went wrong there. Where the mom was smart well mannered and slim and athletic...her kid....well she reminded me of an ill tempered refrigerator. One day the woman was talking about not sure what her daughter was going to study and where she was going to go to school. I told her to send the kid to engineering school. At first the mother hesitated stating that her kid at the moment was socially inept and had never had a date blab la bla and wanting grand kids....and I said "Send her to an engineering school! If you want grand kids...engineering school!" This was the start of her Junior year, prom year. Well the mom listened and convinced her kid to consider engineering schools. Well! Winter break the "refrigerator" went off to one of those early orientations....well the next week the mom came over to me and was downright giddy! WELL! As it turned out the refrigerator was the only girl at the camp who was not wearing a burka and so it was 52 guys to 1 girl...she met a guy...and he asked her to not only his prom but was also taking her to her prom! I couldn't help but feel not only happy for the mom but just downright sad for the field. Engineering...where ill tempered foul mouthed refrigerator's with zero interpersonal skills go to feel as if they were head cheer leader! So, what do we expect from a population of people who lack the basic biological drive to strive and push and excel so as to find the hottest girl (aka with the best DNA) and impress her? And with that total and unadulterated lack of game and back bone...I give you the Prius and other POS cars that look as if they were squeezed out of an elephants rectum. Maybe that's why my phone can stream porn!? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  16. Clearly you've got genes to good to keep to yourself Shah Stick to your guns mate, don't settle with a woman if she wants kids and you don't. Believe me, if you think she blew up you haven't seen anything until you tell a woman who thinks you're up for kids that you're not interested. Keep being straight with them and you'll eventually find an adventure loving girl whose biological clock is digital. Thanks I greatly appreciate it! As for the car, I wasn't showing off. I bought it and didn't tell anyone. It was just parked in the parking lot next to all the other cars and mini vans and well someone came in and asked..."Who bought that white car?" Well then I said "Oh yeah that is mine." And i gave the woman the keys, I was working on something. When I was done with my phone call I went out and well there were the hens standing around pecking the window and that's when the "where does the car seat go" comment appeared. Oh well....such is life right? If it were easy it would be a quiet and very dull world. Still am surprised by the few nasty grams I got on facebook. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  17. Cherry 2000? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  18. JUDAS I'm running low on trust I'm never ever having kids..... Can't tell you how many guys I know who are paying as much as you. You engineers I want the male pill! Wtf Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  19. I have two cats I highly suggest a roomba Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  20. I wasn't going to say which ladies said really mean things to me so I said "some" women. Sigh..... It's just something I have to come terms with. I'll never need a hair dresser and for the next 10 years if I dat Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  21. I just posted How to REALLY piss off some women; 1) Get a nice car. 2) When they ask "Where will the baby seat go?" say "Why have kids!" 3) Stand back and smile while they do an angry dance and call you names. 4) Drive off in the nice car. And a girl I went out with, but things didn't work out, just emailed me calling me a jerk and an asshole! WOW! Good god, I am really amazed! No wonder these girls are so pissed. With that kind of desperation and anger...who wants to have kids with them? I mean really! WOW! To take the time to shoot somone an message calling them an asshole and a jerk...WOW! And it is a true story, a few ladies last week were pissed and not happy that I did not wish to have kids. But then who looks into a two door sports car and asks such a stupid question? I think I've learned that I am truly fucked when it comes to dating girls my age. I hate to say it....but my Yoga instructor was right 2 years ago when she said to me when she found out I was getting a divorce that women in their early 30's were crazy! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  22. That costume won! For real! No way! So what will the team name be? Please I beg of you...Team T&A! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  23. No no hell that would be cool! My issue has and always will be that an engineering chick usually but not always has her ego blown because well there are 52 engineering guys per 2 engineering girls. As such she tends to get all bitchy and overconfident because let's face it.....52/2 any one of the 52 dorks would bend over backwards for a date with a girl who could not get a drink at a bar if she paid for it! Now if i could find one that didn't have a blown ego and was fun....yeah sure I WOULD LOVE TO take her out and see what she was all about! But in my 10 years of engineering, working both in the US and Europe thus far I haven't found an engineering chick that was attractive enough or...who's ego didn't have it's on zip code. But you never know! She may walk into my life tomorrow? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!
  24. I do live a gay mans wet dream! Work at a facility with 2500 men, though most are poorly dressed engineers. I live in a citch condo surrounded by old ladies who just want to sit around and play bridge every night. I have to cats. Oh and I now drive a white car. But sadly I am addicted to women...