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I know! Moby is a great dude! Actually on the days I don't shave my head i actually look more like http://screencrave.frsucrave.netdna-cdn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/tom-cruise-les-grossman-7-6-10-kc.jpg If you can't laugh at your self you have no right to laugh at any one else

Hey! And I'm to do the same! Come on now! If there is no attraction for you and you don't want to "settle" why should any guy! Let alone me! After all I like me

Actually I look a lot like Bender.

Well yes and no. A guys we tend to age a little better and sadly we tend to make more money. So at 20 you will be out gunned by a guy who is 30 but by the time you are 30 you can out gun a guy who is 20. That's assuming you are not paying through the nose in legal fees. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

You know this has been very fun. I have no idea why these women who profess to dislike me with such vigor work so hard to try and convince me that they are the perfect shape for me? In a sick way I think they are hitting on me? That or I'm the only guy in the DZ world who doesn't think they can walk on water. Want to piss off an engineering chick, look at her square in the face after she has been hit on a dozen time per day for 5+ years and say "Yeah you are a bit over rated and not my cup of tea." Did it the other day to a girl here who thought she could wrap me around her finger. The resulting emotional explosion was visible from space. And it's the same here. Every other thread another guy is kissing another girls ass. It's kind of sick. Yeah they are girls, yeah they skydive....but they also put on their pants one leg at a time and fart in bed and just because in a sport of 31k people there are less than 1k of them.....they should not be beatified. If anything what some of these guys are doing with this nonstop but kissing is fueling the diva complex. And the word diva has as much pull in dating as syphilis. Thanks but no thanks, I'm going to respect you and treat you as I would treat anyone else. I will disagree and debate you when I don't agree and support you and stand by you when we agree. Just because you have to X chromosomes does not alter how I view you. If you don’t like this I'm very sorry. I'm just not the ass kissing kind of guy. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

it would be an egg shaped head

Well as a straight guy my eyes were quickly drawn to the hot chicks in the photo. Or the girl who was wearing the least ammount of clothing. Or the girl who was in the center of the shot. Looking at the photo...it's Mis Strange Thing on her head. She has a big smile and lots of bling. All the other girls aer wearing nude body stalkings and well it just looks strange. Look I'm sure If i were standig next to the two guys in the suits you wouldn't notice me either! So how the hell is that my fault? I just with the girl on the left with the strange thing on her head was also in the center. She looks like she is cute. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Well for me looks matter. My looks matter and her looks matter. And that's what gets people talking at which piont we discover who we are and that is where personality comes into play. And I'm sorry if a size medium sounds too skinny but it is what it is. And that's who I'm interested in. I'm sorry if me looking for a girl who is a size medium / 8 bothers you but I honestly don't care if you are or are not offended by what I want in a future mate. The same that I honestly don't care about what you look for in a future mate. And I appreciate the vote of confidence. May only good things come to you as well. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Roger i undestand the fluid dynamics. But I never realized that fluid density effected things as much. In the summer months....no problem cut through it like a knife. Fall....hey now! This stuff has some weight! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Now you are trying to find a toe hold in your rebuttal by utilizing semantics. "working at it" implies caring about how one looks and is viewed by the outside world. And it takes "work" to stay in shape, not put away two large pizzas and to wear clean clothes and to not let yourself go not only for the health benefits of a long happy life but also to keep your partner interested and engaged. It's the ultimate selfless act of love one can do for their partner. Yes we all age, yes time does go by, but that does not give us the right to forgo taking care of ourselves and looking good for our partners under the excuse of "Oh you know time has gone by." Case in point, I worked as hard if not harder, in keeping up my appearance when I was married then now that I'm single. I made sure I ate well, I worked out at least twice a week, my clothes were not a mess and that I didn't stink to high heaven. Why? Simple. I wanted my then wife to be proud to call me her husband. And she did and I was proud to call her my wife. So what is Ms. Right? A girl who is naturally a size 8 / medium....why does every girl here think a medium is such a insane size?.....enjoys being active and who's personality is a match with mine. Will I find one? Honestly? Right now looking around where I live and work and my social circles? Sadly no. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

There are two things one whould never argue with. 1) Basic laws of physics. 2) Evolution. You are arguing with #2. Yes we tell our kids "it's what's on the insde that counts........" but let's honest if that were true. Would we all not be wearing the same clothes? Don't argue with evolution, like gravity, it always wins in the end. And if you do, and I know of many who have, one day evolution sticks its head out and it will blow you out of the water. And for the record I would go for the giggly girl who was hanging out with her friends. I prefer social individuals to those who hide under rocks reading books. But that's what I'm looking for. Others may not. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Can't wait till this moron runs for office! I bet he will have at least 5 kids. And those kids will have 5 kids. And in a few years....well you know how dumb the world will be! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

billvon You are not ganging up on me at all it's ok and an good question. There are girls who "fake it" that is to say they know that they don't like to work out or eat right....hell they are not interested in anything their boyfriends like.....they are in it for the prize of getting married and having kids. That is an example fo some one who is not honest with who they are and what they want. For it's the old bait and switch. The moment that ring goes on that finger the gym membership is out the door and in comes the pizza! Is that honest? No. There are people out there who actually enjoy being healthy. There are people who are actually a size 8 / medium. There are people out there who wish to dress nice and to maintian their looks as well as the passion in their lives. And who they are on day one date one is who they will be on day one of being married. That's honesty. That's the "right girl". To put it this way, what if you met a guy. And he was the best. Loved kids, loved your parents, loved animals, dressed well, ate well, worked out and had a good job and respected you. But when you got married he changed. He hated kids, hated your parents, hated animals, dressed like a slob, stopped working out put on a solic 40lbs and quit his job and starts being abusive. He lied to you and thus he is far from being "Mr. Right". You see where I'm comming from? Honesty. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

You can argue till the cows come home. But you have eyes, like it or not what a person looks like matters. And if that person looks good and turns you on the odds are you will be happy when you wake up next to them every morning. Personality is very important! Always has been always will be! But that being said personality does not turn on guys or get us to cross the bar to say hi. Thus "But she's nice...." equates to "Boys it has been a long time and I just lowered my standards and went for the girl who does not turn me on but is here for me at the moment." Looks matter they always have and they always will. You can argue till you are blue in the face about personality but evolution will just walk all over you. We are programmed to want to be with people who WE find attractive. And for some guys like me that would be skinny girls. For some women that's tall guys. Personality is very nice, but I can't see that from across the room. Evolution has yet to equip me with a means by which to determine some ones personality from across the room. I do have a pair of eyes and I can guess what their personality is like via how they are dressed. That aside, we are also human and like to show off. Here I am, I work hard, I'm smart, my DNA is good and look at the mate I was able to find. He / She complements me and is not bad on the eyes. Again, you can argue till the sun burns out. Evolution is evolution it is what it is. But look at it this way. At least you girls can move up. Eat healthy, live right, dress right and if needed hide some flaws with clothing and TADA! You are in the running. How can a guy get taller? Or make twice as much money? Or grow hair....when his DNA has said....that will be no hair. So as noble as your argument about personality is, and it is a very noble argument which proves we as a species are more evolved than other species, we can't look past the fundamental facts on the ground. Baring any unusual circumstances, note Heff ad his bevy of girl friends, looks matter. For looks are an indication of good or bad DNA. And thus healthy or unhealthy children. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

It's not for everyone? Which is a shame. But as a friend put it to me this way, "I get to pay $200 to be the little spoon to a guy I don't know for 40 seconds of fun? Do you know the kind of girl I can hire for that price for an hour!" Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Look the long and short of it is that you don't ever want to have to say to your friend "but he/she is really a nice person!" The person you choose as a life partner should not only be an integral part of your life but also compliment you. I know if I was standing next to a larger girl who dressed poorly and just didn't care about how she looked....well I wouldn't feel so good. Now standing next to someone who is my partner who cares about how she looks as much as how I look....you know that's a start of a really healthy stable life. And it's a shame what happened with me and my X because that's exactly what we had. I use to buy her clothes and shoes not only because I loved her and it was a way for me to show that affection but also because I thought she looked amazing! And she did the same! And we worked out together we went to Yoga together and took care of each other because I was proud to say "Hi I'm Shah and this is my wife!" and she was proud to say I was her husband. Again it's a shame what happened and well I fear that I'll never find anyone who will be 10% of the partner she was. and I have to live with that. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

"finding the right girl"? How about one who accepts you for who you are and doesn't try and change you. Communicates clearly. Is emotionally stable. And isn't faking it just to harpoon your sorry ass! God I've known so many guys who thought they found Ms. Right only to find out that her sex drive was not there nor was she really that kinky, she really didn't enjoy hanging out with his friends and hates goig to the gym and was starving herself for the past 5 years......oh and she wants kind....like 5 of them! Long story short, some one who is honest with who they are and what they want. But good luck with that! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Ah yes! Ok. And yes the way our DZ is set up just the way it is there is a section in the air that a rotor sets up when the wind comes from a given location. We are not sure if it's due to the buildings or the treet. But it's there at about 150ft. And with the old 265 it use to shake the hell out of me and toss me out a few feet off of my intended landing sight. But with the 280 I'm using now I add some toggle pressure and pass through it but then hit the down wash at 100ft shich is not fun. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Well kind of sort of....no. I hit turbulance last year in the fall, a rotor off a building which started the sequence that led me to my hard landing. But this summer I've hit the same rotor and it's been much softer and easier to deal with. I'm sure it's mainly due to flying a functioning wing that's a solid 25sqft larger. But wasn't sure. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

WOW! So in higher temperatures turbulance should be less of an issue since the air lacks the density to throw you around? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

And you wonder why you are divorced? Actually that's a very long very sad story and only my close friends know how it all went down and I wish to keep it that way. It's not something I wanted it's not something I wish on any one. And yes she was my very close friend and soul mate and I wish I could some how fix what broke years ago but....well now I have to pay for things that I had nothing to do with. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

WAIT! HOLD ON! BUT BUT BUT BUT.....BUT BUT BUT....ISN'T IS WHAT'S ON THE INSIE THAT COUNTS! OH yeah just one of the BS lines! Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Only a moron would willingly walk into the "friend zone". Why? Simple. The moment a woman sees a guy as a friend.....well then he gets put in the back of the line. She will date about two to three dozen tools....get screwed by all of them....cry on the "friends" shoulders....giving the poor dumb ass hope. AND then have the balls to sit around bitching about "Why can't I find a good guy!" YO MORON! DUMB ASS! That "good guy" that was the guy who's shoulder you were crying on when the last tool dumped your sorry ass. So what happens? Well two things. One the dumb ass friend hangs around till the girl of his dreams is ridden hard and put up wet and then she finally comes to the conclusion that "Oh yeah he is a good guy!" but by then she has more emotional baggage then a 747 comming in from India! OR...the guy friend finally says screw this and goes off and finds another girl. I've seen this about 10 times. My favorite one thus far has to be one where this guy had a crush on this girl since highschool. But she was tool food. She was passed from one tool to antoher as if she were some sort of baton. Long story short she eventually got knocked up by one of the tools. She as a single mom suddenly was very limited as to who she could attract. So all of a sudden out of the corner of her eyes she sees "the friend" and she harpooned that SOB like a Japaneese whaling ship taking out Willy! Quickly pulled him out of the water processed him bought a house together and they just had their first kid together last year. Is he happy? Sure! I mean he finally got the girl! yeah but it would have been better if she had noticed him before she was damaged goods. To think for all those years "Mr. Right" was right in front of her eyes. Right there...all the time with a big fat shit eating grin on his face! I've also seen guys say the hell with it and leave the girl high and dry when she was spit out by life. And I've seen guys do the same. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

Size 8 = small/medium If a man has nothing else he needs to have his standards. And that is one of my standards. It may not be easy to find but I'm going to stick to my guns and not lower my standards. And before you throw an epic shit fit, mind you there are girls out there....and you know who you are....who have standards as well. You want your future Mr. Right to be X tall or make Y money. And you will reject guys simply based on either of those. But you don't see us guys throwing a shit fit? Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!

I'm sorry not in a million years would I ever date a girl over a size 8. Never done it never going to do it. I know girls who are the same about how tall a guy is. Or worse how much he makes. It is what it is and I am who I am and I know what I like and I know what I don't like. And such is life. Life through good thoughts, good words, and good deeds is necessary to ensure happiness and to keep chaos at bay. The only thing that falls from the sky is birdshit and fools!