I agree with the tandem approach.....you will have almost no responsiblility aside from trying to take it all in.Spend the day at the DZ, talk to people, watch , listen , learn. Who knows, you may hate it.........yea right. When your eyes are finally opened you see how blind you were. It's like the matrix bro....eat the red pill and you will understand the love....eat the blue one and you'll wake up at home clueless. eat the red one........... B