I started diving before my boyfriend, well when he  started  jumping for ME it wasn't what he really wanted to do.  I've got my A license and he didn't want to finish AFF.  We are still together doing well, but Scuba is his love.  I go for my check out dive next weekend so we have something to do together.  I also got my motorcycle endorsement which he also likes to do.  He better not tell me I can't jump!  
  If your still with this women maybe taking a break and doing something she wants to do will help you out.  
  NEVER date someone at your DZ! Never under estimate the power of THIS women!