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I never understood the different reactions between a man and a women when it comes to situations as the above. There was this one movie "My Best Friend's Wedding" a while ago with Julia Roberts where a situation similar to the one we are talking about was the theme. Julia would pursue the relationship heatedly even though her best guy friend was planning to get married. Nearly all the guys I know, including myself, scorned the @#*# for trying to break up a relationship while all the girls I know praised J.Robert's character. To the women, that degree of ..."love" for a guy was er..."touching" to them and that made the pursuit legitimate even at the cost of breaking up a happy couple. The guys scorned her nonetheless. I've had one situation where a girl wanted to actively get out of her relationship during troubled times and err.."made things easy" to "be" with her but there was also in my mind the idea: she leaves her boyfriend so easily, why wouldn't she leave me just as easily? She didn't have any moral qualms either. I'm not sure if she thought it was legitimate because she no longer loved the guy she was with and wanted qualities of another person....-I wouldn't flatter myself with the idea of being as wanted by her to the same degree as the character in a movie. Sorry for the long post. I guess but my question is this: ido girls consider it legitimate to break up a happy relationship if their "love" were impassioned enough?

there was this article written about the Bond theme and how the only genre that could compare with its unchanging storyline is the classic porno flick. I think this is true, so many similarities, though I like the porno better for some reason. It just "stimulates" the err..."feelings" more.

Isn't J.Simpson kinda of trashy??? and without class??? or sophistication??? hmm..but maybe those qualities were never part of the Bond's Girl image???