My advice to you would be don't ever take anyones advice when it comes to friends or relationships. If you have a question about where things stand then nobody will be able to answer that excrpt for one person. Sit down with that person one on one and find out. Any ideas from an outside source will only cause you to jump to conclusions, and make assumptions. You know the whole ass u me thing. That can only confuse and complicate things. You may end up screwwing up a good friendship if you don't talk.