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  1. Conundrum
    lick my ass
  2. Conundrum
    Where did I say I assumed anything? We have talked about it, that's how we know.
  3. Conundrum
    Luckily, my s/o and I have the same outlook on bachelor(ette) parties and so this is a non-issue for us. This thread was mainly just to get some discussion and opinions going.
  4. Conundrum

    girls suck.

    Conundrum replied to PilotLevi's topic in The Bonfire

    Were you spending every weekend at the dz without her? I can see how someone might start to dislike it (if that were the case).
  5. Conundrum
    A guy that considers the bachelor party as last day as a being "single/free" is not someone I'd be interested in marrying. But that's just me.
  6. Conundrum
    Jealousy/insecurity and control issues are frequently masked as problems with 'respect'. Not for me, thanks.
  7. Conundrum
    I would imagine that the purpose is to look at a woman dancing naked. Ultimately, men are pretty simple. Thanks smartypants. May as well go to a stripblub regularly then, I mean what guy wouldn't want to look at a woman dancing naked everyday?
  8. Conundrum
    Most men I know see the Bachelor party not as a celebration of getting married, but as a celebration/farewell to being "single". In that light you aren't being disprespectful to your partner (cause you aren't celebrating getting married together, that's what the wedding is for). A guy that considers the bachelor party as last day as a being "single/free" is not someone I'd be interested in marrying. But that's just me.
  9. Conundrum
    Ah. I don't think that looking at other women is disrespectful under most circumstances (strippers at bachelor parties included). Now, a guy turning around to stare at someone else while you're in the middle of a conversation, that's disrespectful. Having a stripper at a party in a room full of other men... not so much, IMO, but everybody's got different limits as to what's cool. See, I wouldn't think it's disrespectful to go to a strip club together, but more specifically for a bachelor party, I don't see the point of celebrating getting married by looking at another woman dance naked in your face. I mean, really, what is the purpose?
  10. Conundrum
    Offend someone? What does offending anyone have anything to do with it?
  11. Conundrum
    Neither of those, I'm talking about respect for your s/o.
  12. Conundrum
    See that's the thing, it's not necesarily about not trusting them. Like I said before, for me personally it's a respect issue.
  13. Conundrum
    I can see that point with strippers, because you (can) only look not touch. There's really no other reason to get a hooker other than for sex. You don't pay for a hooker to strip, you get them for sex. Well for me personally, it's not about trust, it's about respect. And I think it's disrespectful. I don't see the point of celebrating getting married by having another person stripping for you and dancing in your face naked.
  14. Conundrum
    Really? You wouldn't have a problem with your fiance fucking someone else?
  15. Conundrum
    Why would you say no? Or yes?
  16. Conundrum
    Why does it matter if they ask or not? What if it wasn't even brought up and they had strippers there and you found out later; it's not a lie then is it?
  17. Conundrum
    Are you ok with strippers being at your s/o bachelor(ette) party? *note: this has nothing to do with my personal life, just stirring up discussion*
  18. Conundrum
    Why should you discourage them from having sex? Oh I dunno, because babies shouldnt be having babies?
  19. Conundrum
    N/A
  20. Conundrum
    Well, I'm not talking about birth control for other purposes other than a pregnancy preventive.
  21. Conundrum
    Teen pregnancy wouldnt be an issue if adults actually did that nowadays. I dont blame kids for having kids. i blame the adults for not teaching higer morals and values. Granted kids make mistakes..i know i made a few. Nothing to the extent of the thread topically luckily..but having a strong foundation as to the consequences is the best way to defend against it! Unfortunetly, not a lot of adults even have morals and values anymore.
  22. Conundrum
    That's a completely different situation, though. You weren't given birth control pills to have safer sex, you were given them to lessen the pain.
  23. Conundrum
    I don't really see how that's the same at all.
  24. Conundrum
    Just reading a discussion about this sort of thing on another board. Wanted to see what you guys had to say about it.
  25. Conundrum
    Yes, and I have no problem saying it.