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does the rule of 10's refer to provisions storing and the like? -the artist formerly known as sinker

well, valid stats abound here in the states in favor of allowing law abiding citizens to keep and bear those evil nasty things that go bang (guns fool!) in all or most states allowing concealed carry, violent crime dropped. In large cities that prohibit and in some cases outright ban handguns, violent crime has continued to rise. I don't have numbers on me at 2 am, but I'm sure Kennedy or someone else does... it's amazing to me how little common sense people have... of course law abiding people will turn in their guns when compelled by the law... and of course criminals (DUH) won't... ergo, easy pickins for the criminals, since law abiding citizens can do little to stave off the predators... i'm just glad I live in a state that trusts me enough to carry a gun to defend myself, my wife, my kids. -the artist formerly known as sinker

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU YOU LIVE IN A ZOO YOU SMELL LIKE A BYTCH AND YOU LOOK LIKE ONE TOO! happy bday woman!!!! -the artist formerly known as sinker

oh... well... now I know who to go to when I have questions about dicks... j/k... -the artist formerly known as sinker

hey matt... is your sig line from that snl skit w/ christopher walken, the one where he's the producer working w/ BOC (blue oyster cult you ninnies, not bottom of container)? I need more cowbell! That was one of my favorites. -the artist formerly known as sinker

don't be so hard on yourself... someone once told me that a dork literally was a whale's penis... you're not one of those... are you? -the artist formerly known as sinker

Quoteyou can stop from orgasiming (sp) i do it all the time, just think of bumble bees, ill experience or thought process can and will stop. *** the temptation to respond to this is just killing me!! i personally think of kittens drowing.

Actually you did say that: Isn't the definition of rape having sex with someone "after" they say no? ok, you got me... bad example... but, do you see where I was coming from w/ those examples? -the artist formerly known as sinker

Dont you read the papers? Here is the quote from the article: I don't see where he said it was voluntary, she only claimed it was. She performed a sexual act on him without his consent. That's rape. And again... why is it that so many on this thread seem to think that the MAN needs to justify his actions? SHE is the one who got herself into the mess by doing something to the man while he was asleep! I think some of you would see this differently if the gender roles were reversed. (But then again, some of you probably wouldn't) -the artist formerly known as sinker

filing charges in such an instance is simply a gross over reaction... *** although it seems he was w/i his rights to file charges, you certainly have a point there... -the artist formerly known as sinker

I was giving the poster examples of why perhaps the man didn't say no... I didn't say that the example you quote could count as rape. -the artist formerly known as sinker

i wonder if you read my post at all... there are several possible explanations for him not saying no. that doesn't mean she didn't rape him. and how exactly do you define violence? presence of blood? bruising? scratches? how about if I spit on you? isn't that considered an act of violence? violence isn't always physical. It can be emotional, psychological, etc. nothing changes the fact that at no time did the guy say hey, ya know, I'm glad you're sucking me off... please continue. the onus is on HER to prove she had his consent or permission, and starting the act while he is sleeping sure doesn't help her case. -the artist formerly known as sinker

there are many men out there who cannot stop from having an orgasm, no matter how hard they try. that is why, in my line of work as a research analyst, there is so much study about rapid ejaculation. and what if he felt he COULDN'T say no? maybe he was afraid to hurt her feelings. maybe he feared she would fly into a rage and hurt him. maybe the part of him that was enjoying it overroad his desire not to be part of it. that doesn't change that he never consented. maybe he's a sex addict and he lacked the capacity to SAY no -- that brings up many other questions, but it doesn't change the wrongful nature of HER actions. B/c he DIDN'T say no doesn't mean it WASN'T rape. -the artist formerly known as sinker

if you have had sexual contact with a person before, then get woken up with a bj it should be considered consensual, so just b/c you had consensual sex in the past, you now have free license? The partner doesn't have the right to say no in any place in time after a consentual act has occurred? it is obvious the type of person someone is by how they react to things. Wow. *** and how did I react to things? by trying to point out the fallacy I think exists in your line of reasoning... like linz said, something about a pot and a kettle come to mind. back to the argument at hand, well, at mouth as it were, is the following scenario... guy is sleeping. woman gives man oral sex... while guy is sleeping... guy experiences arousal --WHILE STILL SLEEPING-- happens ALL the time... guy wakes up to the experience of sexual gratification but did not ask for it nor does he want it. Girl made big, unwarranted assumption that oral sex was ok to give while he was sleeping, even if he had consented to some form of sexual activity BEFORE falling asleep. Consent for that act ended by the time he fell asleep. She might have assumed that his consent would have continued, but she was wrong. An analogy... guy and girl get stoned. Guy passes out... girl stays awake. Girl administers more drugs to guy while sleeping, assuming that if awake, since he already did drugs, he'd like to do some more. Guy wakes up, more stoned than when he fell asleep, and is pissed off at girl. Did she commit a crime? -the artist formerly known as sinker

takes one to know one baby... -the artist formerly known as sinker

wtf? discourage you from posting? this is a forum for debating hun... if you don't like people disagreeing w/ you, well... you won't have much fun here. -the artist formerly known as sinker

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If the person physicually enjoyed it, it is not rape, if you have had sexual contact with a person before, then get woken up with a bj it should be considered consensual*** Sorry, but the issue of enjoying physical stimulation isn't as black and white as you propose, especially with men. It's very easy for a man to physiologically enjoy sexually stimulation while still harboring conflicting feelings about the action being performed. This is harder for women to understand I think. Sure stimulation feels good, even if it is unwanted. And the second part of your sentence... so just b/c you had consensual sex in the past, you now have free license? The partner doesn't have the right to say no in any place in time after a consentual act has occurred? Well that makes no sense at all. -the artist formerly known as sinker

Question: What do you really know about the politeness of Brits, Sir? I think he answered that already in his initial post! You've seen those dudes go at it on the tele, haven't you? They're animals!! -the artist formerly known as sinker

indeed it does... now it's time to put in a different CD, like the theme from Exodus or something... -the artist formerly known as sinker

Nope. Just lacking in taate. as least he's not lacking in spelling skills i LOVE sade and I'm definately not gay... I've got 4 kids... (insert sarcastic joke here) -the artist formerly known as sinker

"But what if they were little felonies"?*** LOL! That cracks me up! And I'm w/ you... a felony is a felony. -the artist formerly known as sinker

I have meprolights on my Kimber and love them... they aren't very bright, just enough to pick up the site picture, so they aren't distracting. -the artist formerly known as sinker

check your voice mail girlie!!! -the artist formerly known as sinker

Oh! Sorry. I responded to Rebecca's question in a private message but always thought it was lame to post, "Answered in private message". ya, well thanks for tellin Rebecca at least... -the artist formerly known as sinker