However, back to your question. I've seen it happen, girl gets a serious case of the hots for her T-I then shows up for AFF, she was unfocused because she wanted her T-I to be on her AFF jump (he wasn't, I was). Do you want to be sitting thru a course that could easily mean the difference between life or death while considering what your children would look like with a guy you've got a crush on?
I say get your lust in check before trying to go to AFF at that dz (specifically while he is there).
I'm not going back to his dropzone I feel pretty stupid about the whole thing and what you wrote is pretty much what I was thinking.
I vaguely remember taking a few seconds to arch and not much else. I was thinking a second tandem and maybe asking for more instruction/some control.
I pretty much just rode the sky the first time.