I'm looking at the synonyms. The vast majority of them are pejorative, because they're "my way or the highway" or "I rule, you suck" types of patriotism. Country is not a zero-sum game, where your "winning" means your "enemies" have to identifiably lose.
How did Obama affect the safety, freedom, or liberty of your family?
And if, by "liberty," you mean you want the liberty to discriminate against people you disagree with, well, that kind of implies that you think you have more rights than they do. Is that so? Are all men (i.e. people) created equal, or are people like you, the "real Americans" a little more equal and better able to judge what others actually need.
Most real warriors I know prefer peaceful resolutions. They're cheaper in both money and human life. They might be more willing to approach war than I am, but then I'm also not the "peace at all costs" pacifist that you seem to think I am.
Wendy P.