It's also unfair that the woman takes all of the physical risk for a pregnancy.
The woman is more likely to take the financial risk for the pregnancy than the man as well. Many men share the risk; few take it on alone.
The woman is more likely to take sole care of the child than the man is. Again, they may share, but the chance of the man taking over all care of the baby and leaving the woman alone is not as great as the other way around.
The woman is more likely to take a job/lifestyle hit because of taking care of the child. Not solely, but more likely.
There is a pregnancy, for which the woman takes the overwhelming majority of the risk. There is the baby, for which the woman, statistically, in the US, takes a disproportionate amount of the responsibility. People are VERY willing to say "well, she should have thought of that first." So maybe the man should have thought of it first before having his "choice removed" by the woman making a decision with her doctor.
In a responsible relationship, a decision not to carry a pregnancy to term would involve the father as well. Of course, so would the care of the child. Life isn't perfect.
Religious beliefs are that. They are based on faith, not on evidence.
So, no, life isn't fair.
Wendy P.