xenaswampjumper 0 #1 January 11, 2007 A story I am sure that many of you have read, but one I thought would be great to re-read!!!Subject: Two Choices What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice? At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?" The audience was stilled by the query. The father continued. "I believe that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child." Then he told the following story: Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps. Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning." Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat. At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball. However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher. The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball ... the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home. All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay" Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!" As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team. "That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world". Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day! AND NOW A LITTLE FOOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces. If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the "appropriate" ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the "natural order of things." So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the process? A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them. You now have two choices: 1. Delete 2. Forward May your day, be a Shay Day. till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #2 January 11, 2007 that'sa very touching strory but one of the first sentences concerns me. At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children I wonder what they taste like?My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #3 January 11, 2007 oh that was funny!!!!! I totally missed that!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mamajumps 0 #4 January 11, 2007 Thanks for sharing... im crying at my desk now.... I have worked with handicapped children in equine therapy alot, it is truly a beautiful thing when a challenged child competes and wins on their own on a horse. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #5 January 11, 2007 Yea. I figured most people would. That's a screwy school.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #6 January 11, 2007 I've found that some of the most beautiful and wonderful hearts mankind has to offer are often hidden beneath striking eyes. Two of those eyes are shining through this post, I might add.... Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #7 January 11, 2007 Wow...how awesome!!! I have always wanted to do that. We had a program like that when I was growing up and used to show horses. It was very fun watching the enthusiasm!!!!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #8 January 11, 2007 are you smitten with my avatarMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #9 January 11, 2007 I said TWO eyes... Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #10 January 11, 2007 well if you count, I have two eyes.and then you go to 3 etc.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #11 January 11, 2007 I don't need to count higher than two when it comes to eyes... Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #12 January 11, 2007 precisely. so stop counting. LOLMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #13 January 11, 2007 QuoteI've found that some of the most beautiful and wonderful hearts mankind has to offer are often hidden beneath striking eyes. Two of those eyes are shining through this post, I might add.... aaaawwwwwwhhhhh thanks sweetie!!!! so you are saying that you love my eyes??? haha till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #14 January 11, 2007 Quoteare you smitten with my avatar you are on a roll today!!!!! haha, that was funny till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #15 January 11, 2007 ThanksMy photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheAnvil 0 #16 January 11, 2007 Yes, but 'tis the heart beneath that hath captured mine. Vinny the Anvil Post Traumatic Didn't Make The Lakers Syndrome is REAL JACKASS POWER!!!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
marcandalysse 0 #17 January 11, 2007 hmm....the anvil poetically reveals his true feelings from across the planet.....good for ya both! mp "The reason angels can fly is that they take themselves so lightly." --GK Chesterton Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #18 January 11, 2007 well dear, your heart is the amazing one! Thanks for always being able to make everyone around you have a shay day and feel great!!!! You are my hero!!!!good night to you anvil!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #19 January 11, 2007 did you just call him autistic?My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gonzalesna 1 #20 January 11, 2007 autistic kids rockSome people refrain from beating a dead horse. Personally, I find a myriad of entertainment value when beating it until it becomes a horse-smoothie. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetness 0 #21 January 11, 2007 QuoteThanks for sharing... im crying at my desk now.... Me too ... Thanks Xena, that was beautiful, just what I needed to end this not-so-good day ... I can end it in a Shay way now "Ha ! I laugh at danger and drop ice cubes down the vest of fear ..." (Blackadder) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
xenaswampjumper 0 #22 January 12, 2007 Quotedid you just call him autistic? HAHA......funny, but he is just the type of guy that would be that pitcher!!!!!! he has created lots of shay days in his own way for lots of people!!!!! till later have fun & love each other seeya mb65johnny gates.... In skydiving, the only thing that stops you is the ground.............. PMS# 472 Muff #3863 TPM#95 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Broke 0 #23 January 12, 2007 say the title of this thread fast shadyDivot your source for all things Hillbilly. Anvil Brother 84 SCR 14192 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jtval 0 #24 January 12, 2007 QuoteQuotedid you just call him autistic? HAHA......funny, but he is just the type of guy that would be that pitcher!!!!!! he has created lots of shay days in his own way for lots of people!!!!! OKay. I was just making sure.My photos My Videos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites